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[Kassypen]

Update: I texted the guy and he’s over it. Yay!

[sunflower,]

any advice on meeting up with an ex?
my ex is in town and wants to meet up and catch up on life and stuff
i'm just afraid it'll be awkward
we didn't really end on the best of terms

[WastedSpace]

I cant talk to anyone else about this soo.. help me internet ppl XD

My boyfriend= BJ
EX bestfriend= E

So, I and BJ are doing great. A while ago I came here in fear of our relationship since we live in different cities. But, we are going on dates, and meeting up more often outside of school. But, now... E likes him, but it seems like she only likes the boys I wanna be with. The first day I asked him out she admitted to liking him. She always finds ways to stay after school to hang out with him, and JUST him. I'm tired of it, and I don't know what to do

Do you trust your boyfriend?

any advice on meeting up with an ex?
my ex is in town and wants to meet up and catch up on life and stuff
i'm just afraid it'll be awkward
we didn't really end on the best of terms

Don't overplan. If it's awkward, it's awkward. You two will naturally work through it. =)

[Wheeping Will0w]

I cant talk to anyone else about this soo.. help me internet ppl XD

My boyfriend= BJ
EX bestfriend= E

So, I and BJ are doing great. A while ago I came here in fear of our relationship since we live in different cities. But, we are going on dates, and meeting up more often outside of school. But, now... E likes him, but it seems like she only likes the boys I wanna be with. The first day I asked him out she admitted to liking him. She always finds ways to stay after school to hang out with him, and JUST him. I'm tired of it, and I don't know what to do

Do you trust your boyfriend?

He says I can, so I do. E always has her ways of getting in someone's head. I honestly, don't think he will choose her over me.But who knows. she has been telling me stories of how he calls her cute and gives her hugs all the time. when we just started getting a little more touchy-feely with each other. I know the stories aren't true, but what does she tell him?? she has stopped hanging out with him for now. But she always wants in on what we are talking about, I try to get her away. she always reads our messages. I tell her to stop but she won't. so it done with her. she doesn't think that tho

[Kassypen]

So I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of months ago, but I still can’t shake the habit of looking for him in a room or in class. I don’t want to date him anymore nor do I like him, but am I just telling myself that? Also, I have a suspicion that this whole thing is because I just want to be able to talk to him again. It is so weird going from talking to someone all the time, to never speaking a word. I feel like I can’t even make eye contact with him anymore. I do feel like I sometimes spot him looking at me in the corner of my eye. Luckily, though, we are starting to talk more, but I feel like if I try and talk to him too much he will think that I still like him, which ties into my previous question for myself about still liking him. Wow. That was so much longer then I thought it was. XD

I’ve never told anyone this. Thanks for this thread, cs. <3

[samm.]

Flirting when you have anxiety is like, the absolute worse. A cute girl messaged me and said "Hey sexy" and it took me almost an hour to figure out how to respond. I was originally just going to reply with something like "Hey beautiful" or "Hiya cutie" but then my anxiety kicked in and I was like "Should I use 'Hey' too, or would 'Hello' or 'Hi' be better? But wait, is that too simple? Should I ask a question? Oh god, I should, shouldn't I?! What should ask?!?" and so I just kept writing out a reply, then deleting it, writing out a reply, then deleting it until I finally settled for "Hello gorgeous, how are you? ; )" Which I only ended up sending because I was just like oh well, if something goes wrong I can always delete our messages, block her, and pretend like the whole thing never happened. Btw it took me like an extra ten minutes to figure out which smiley face to use because without a smiley face my brain thought the words looked a bit too serious and I wanted the mood to be fun and flirty even if all I'm feeling is anxiety and anxiety =')

[Kassypen]

Flirting when you have anxiety is like, the absolute worse. A cute girl messaged me and said "Hey sexy" and it took me almost an hour to figure out how to respond. I was originally just going to reply with something like "Hey beautiful" or "Hiya cutie" but then my anxiety kicked in and I was like "Should I use 'Hey' too, or would 'Hello' or 'Hi' be better? But wait, is that too simple? Should I ask a question? Oh god, I should, shouldn't I?! What should ask?!?" and so I just kept writing out a reply, then deleting it, writing out a reply, then deleting it until I finally settled for "Hello gorgeous, how are you? ; )" Which I only ended up sending because I was just like oh well, if something goes wrong I can always delete our messages, block her, and pretend like the whole thing never happened. Btw it took me like an extra ten minutes to figure out which smiley face to use because without a smiley face my brain thought the words looked a bit too serious and I wanted the mood to be fun and flirty even if all I'm feeling is anxiety and anxiety =')

May I suggest writing your text in another place? Like notes or word or something? That way, she cannot see when you text and stop and text and stop. You can take the time you need, and make sure the message is just right.

[WastedSpace]

He says I can, so I do. E always has her ways of getting in someone's head. I honestly, don't think he will choose her over me.But who knows. she has been telling me stories of how he calls her cute and gives her hugs all the time. when we just started getting a little more touchy-feely with each other. I know the stories aren't true, but what does she tell him?? she has stopped hanging out with him for now. But she always wants in on what we are talking about, I try to get her away. she always reads our messages. I tell her to stop but she won't. so it done with her. she doesn't think that tho

So start getting aggressive about getting away from her. Walk away from her. Shout over her. Bring earphones and start up some music whenever she starts to talk to you. She's getting under your skin, so find a way to block her out.

So I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of months ago, but I still can’t shake the habit of looking for him in a room or in class. I don’t want to date him anymore nor do I like him, but am I just telling myself that? Also, I have a suspicion that this whole thing is because I just want to be able to talk to him again. It is so weird going from talking to someone all the time, to never speaking a word. I feel like I can’t even make eye contact with him anymore. I do feel like I sometimes spot him looking at me in the corner of my eye. Luckily, though, we are starting to talk more, but I feel like if I try and talk to him too much he will think that I still like him, which ties into my previous question for myself about still liking him. Wow. That was so much longer then I thought it was. XD

I’ve never told anyone this. Thanks for this thread, cs. <3

I thought your questions were rhetorical, but since you re-posted, I'm going to guess they're not.

Don't overthink or second guess yourself. You got close to your boyfriend and spent a lot of time with him. We're only human. Even if you wanted to completely cut him out of your life, it's completely weird to go from seeing someone so much to suddenly never seeing or talking to them. It takes time to get used to.

Instead of second-guessing all of your actions, let yourself feel how you feel and let a friendship rekindle if that's what you want.

[Sidewalk_Chalk]

(Long story short, the guy I was here about last time broke up with me... over email.)
Eko = Ex
Shadow = Crush
Anyway, Eko has a little brother, Shadow, one grade below us, and I kinda like him. Idk if he likes me, but if he does, I don't know what I would do. I mean, yeah, Shadow would like me back, but Eko and I broke up about 2 weeks ago, and I wouldn't want myself to be called names for going out with Eko's little bro. What should I do?

[gamorasass]

I figured things would get better with the breakup, but today was an entire week since and I cannot stop crying. I have NEVER in my life, felt this much pain.