- recently i've come to terms with the face that i can't handle a lot of things as well as i'd like to hope. though i prided myself on being able to stick through tough situations, it's hit me today that really i was not handling anything. i've let everything build up and come to a boiling point, and though it was okay in the time, that point eventually has to come to. when it finally did, it was like my entire perception of reality had been altered. the tinted lenses in which i viewed reality were suddenly lightened, and now i'm faced with the results of bottling things up for too long.
i can't handle negative situations like i had thought i could. even now, just the slightest hint of something going wrong throws me so off guard that i'm trapped in a spiral for days. letting everything build and bottle up for so long had its long-term effects, and now i'm put into a position where i have to deal with that. i've learned how hard it truly is to handle myself while trying not to let anyone else down in the process. it's tricky to convince myself to even speak when i'm so afraid of the idea of something going wrong.
i worry that i've upset others so much because of myself, but i've just worked myself up so much to the point that i exert my worries everywhere else. it's inconvenient at any times, though it's really just a part of me that i need to know how to balance properly. letting my friends down or taking too long has always been one of my greatest worries, but i know that really they will be okay.
now, i'm stuck in a state where i don't know what's real or what i've made up in my head. it's troubling to come to terms with thoughts and ideas like this, but really, part of me is glad to have finally been able to admit all of this. nothing is easy, and it's time i learn to accept that. nothing will be able to get better if i continue to deny and hold myself back. i will try to shut things out, i'm sure of it, but an important step in the process is understanding when i do this.
opening up about this sort of thing is not easy for me. but i felt that sharing something so personal might help to ease my mind in some way. sharing my experience with coming to terms with myself and the perception of my own mind might even help someone else out there. if i want to be there for other people, then i need to better myself before i can do any of that. recovery from any sort of mindset is not an easy process, and it can take as much time as it needs. my patience for it runs thin often, but i think that first addressing it might help me to acknowledge what i need to understand.
it's okay to feel upset or distressed. it's alright to own up to your emotions and know where your faults are. there's nothing wrong with addressing it. there are people who care, and there always will be. no matter how long it takes to get out of rocky spots, it's never your own fault and you should never blame yourself for it.