[huddson]

identity is weird and i was so confident in my identity literally this morning and now i'm not because i saw a male OC that i thought was attractive and i know that it's a common lesbian experience to be attracted to fictional men from time to time and i know that but i'm scared because what if i was just wrong and what if i really am transmasc and not a lesbian and AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

[☼find your wings☼]

identity is a confusing thing! if you can, try to not focus so much on labeling yourself and instead just see and feel what makes you the happiest ^^

[huddson]

identity is a confusing thing! if you can, try to not focus so much on labeling yourself and instead just see and feel what makes you the happiest ^^

the thing is that labeling myself brings me comfort and it is what makes me happiest, i'm autistic and a part of that is that i need everything labelled in order to just feel sane and have some control over my life. plus, i'm very much community-oriented, and having labels allows me to find a community
it's just. it's confusing, and i'm tired, but i appreciate this, ty ^^

[SOURCANDYBONEZ]

sob i felt this

[☼find your wings☼]

identity is a confusing thing! if you can, try to not focus so much on labeling yourself and instead just see and feel what makes you the happiest ^^

the thing is that labeling myself brings me comfort and it is what makes me happiest, i'm autistic and a part of that is that i need everything labelled in order to just feel sane and have some control over my life. plus, i'm very much community-oriented, and having labels allows me to find a community
it's just. it's confusing, and i'm tired, but i appreciate this, ty ^^

Ohh I see, sorry I didn't mean to make you feel bad! I totally understand the community feeling, it's nice when you're able to be with ppl who understand you and are going through the same thing. When I was questioning, talking to people w different identities helped me figure out more within myself! Hope you can find some clarity <3

[huddson]

identity is a confusing thing! if you can, try to not focus so much on labeling yourself and instead just see and feel what makes you the happiest ^^

the thing is that labeling myself brings me comfort and it is what makes me happiest, i'm autistic and a part of that is that i need everything labelled in order to just feel sane and have some control over my life. plus, i'm very much community-oriented, and having labels allows me to find a community
it's just. it's confusing, and i'm tired, but i appreciate this, ty ^^

Ohh I see, sorry I didn't mean to make you feel bad! I totally understand the community feeling, it's nice when you're able to be with ppl who understand you and are going through the same thing. When I was questioning, talking to people w different identities helped me figure out more within myself! Hope you can find some clarity <3

oh it didn't make me feel bad at all, don't worry at all!
tysm!!!