Workshop Three - Day One ExerciseKalon Name:Aster
Link to kalon:Here!Has your kalon ever met their grandparents? If so, what do they think of them?Yes, she has, and while they're okay for a little while, they get kind of annoying for extended periods of time. A weekend at their place isn't so bad, but having to stay for more than 3-4 days she starts to see their less fun characteristics and… quite frankly, she can only do the old people thing for so long.
What is your kalon's relationship with their parents?While it certainly isn't bad, it's not the best either. She hasn't really ever felt terribly close to them, and while they've never done anything wrong, their relationship with them in her adult life has always been more of a mutual existence and general friendly-enough closeness. They don't see each other too often and she doesn't make a real effort to get home. Some of her friends things it's a little weird, but to her it's no big deal. It doesn't bother her. She finds more engaging relationships with people her own age, really.
Do they have any siblings? Are they blood related or adopted? Nope, Aster grew up an only child with busy parents. She mostly clung onto her daycare peers and to a small degree her daycare provider, as both of her parents were working full time through her entire childhood. But they had to to keep the rent paid and groceries in the fridge, so she understood pretty early on that they didn't have a whole lot of options. She had a pretty good understanding of their financial situation from a young age, which led to a bit more of a survival attitude than a loving family one in the household, but hey, they got by.
Does your kalon have children? Do they/did they ever want to have kits?Aster is sterile, which she found out when she was pretty young. She'd had some issues with her cycle that turned out to be caused by a genetic condition she'd gotten from her dad's side of the family. She knew from the time she was twelve that she wasn't going to be able to have kids, which again got her pretty used to the idea. And while there are certainly times she wishes she could, for the most part, she's enjoying her independent attitude and lifestyle right now. Kids would weigh her down but maybe someday she'd consider adoption.
Which family member is your kalon closest to? Why?Out of everyone in her family, Aster has the most respect for her mom, because there are definitely times where she's seen her mom's frustration with not being able to be there for her daughter more, and she knows that it was hard for her to think about basically not even raising her own child in order to pay for raising her own child. She's got a strong attitude about it all, and Aster respects that, as she's kinda the same way.
Is there a family member your kalon wishes they could know better? Who is it?To spin off this a bit, she always wanted a sibling, specifically a brother. She thought it'd be really fun to have a boy in the house and someone she could always turn to to play with or mess around with.
But she'd also be interested in knowing either of her parents a little better, too. She doesn't know a whole lot about their lives before they met or had her, so it's something she's wondered about for a while, despite never acting on it.