by moonlily » Thu Jan 05, 2012 10:32 am
Saying your comment was "a relatively subtle sexual reference" is like calling a mountain a "speck of dust". I find it impossible to believe that you did not KNOW it was exceedingly offensive and disrespectful. As Leurai said, you might be better off if you avoid debates altogether if you cannot gauge where your comments lie on the scale of 'appropriateness'.
As Bernouli said, you need to remember we have children on this site. Yes, there are adult topics in the adult topics area, but they are still open for reading by -every- member on CS, including COPPA'd and non-COPPA'd children. We encourage debating in a civil manner. Not with offensive, sarcastic, goading, teasing, derisive, disrespectful, or downright hostile comments. You seem to be an intelligent person. I would hope you would understand that there are levels of "joking around" that are just not funny. And I'm sorry say this, but CS is not the USA, and it is not a democracy. You do not have freedom of speech here.
Locking this before it turns purely argumentative.