Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Kisiel]

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How do I stop being anxious about the age difference between my boyfriend and myself? :c

[Lazy9248]

Two questions:
1. Do guys tell you really personal things when they like you??
2. He won't tell anyone that we text back and forth... Like he's never told anyone and he flips if people take his phone...
I was just wondering if anyone wants to pm me or post on here it'd be greatly appreciated... Thanks so much!

[-galaxie]

Ok so im posting again a little too soon from my last one but.. oh just listen im going to need some help....)

So I want to ask C out soon because, I really just wamt to try but, on the other hand I don't want to say or how to even start this conversation! I don't wanna ruin our friendship either if he doesn't feel the same way.. //He doesn't have a Girlfriend either// so yea now if yo an example of how we talk or something.. here.. Btw he laughs at the jokes ive said to him and I think he notices that I try not to make direct eye-contact..


Him= Italics + color
Me= normal
(Science Class, We sit beside each other)
"So ... I hate science.." Whisper
"Same here.." Whispered back
"When would we need this in life!?" I said
Looks at me.. "I know, right!" he said
"{Job interview} what are all the names of the Earth's mantle?" I said laughing
He joined in laughing "Uhhh, 24?" He said giggling
I just laughed again..

That went on for another 5-6 minutes.. so.. advice? please? Should I try and give it a shot? I really don't wanna mess ANYTHING up between us..

Edit: Oh and yea.. I forgot to mention I have issues with asking people out.. Im like the lowest possible popularity level at my school.. a nobody and he.. ;.; one of the best.. most popular boys.. /e.e/ Whyyyy... ;.;

Help Please?

So.. today.. same thing we joked around and.. I had eye contact... I blushed .. so hard that it was noticeable.. o.o why.. advice please? I wanna ask him out.. <:

[Wild.One]

Ugh. I'm practically un-date able. seriously.
-I have no phone.
-I am not allowed to go to dances.
I'm not a freak or anything. It's just that my parents are extremely overprotective. Not kidding. >.<

[Noni Gailin Ayrenin~]

Ugh. I'm practically un-date able. seriously.
-I have no phone.
-I am not allowed to go to dances.
I'm not a freak or anything. It's just that my parents are extremely overprotective. Not kidding. >.<

I don't have a cell phone either, so you're not alone there.
Plus, my computer seems to hate facebook, I don't have a twitter, kik, or anything of that nature.

One thing I have to ask, and i'm sure you're all sick to death of me, is this: Should I still try to be friends with N.C?
Personally, I say no, because I know myself all to well. While I have no real reason to hate his girlfriend, I know that I won't be able to converse with either of them properly. What I mean by this, is that I would be holding things back that, if he were single, I wouldn't think twice about. I won't function as myself.

But I do still want to get to know him, so, I'm stuck.

[Pikmin12]

Ugh. I'm practically un-date able. seriously.
-I have no phone.
-I am not allowed to go to dances.
I'm not a freak or anything. It's just that my parents are extremely overprotective. Not kidding. >.<

I don't have a cell phone either, so you're not alone there.
Plus, my computer seems to hate facebook, I don't have a twitter, kik, or anything of that nature.

One thing I have to ask, and i'm sure you're all sick to death of me, is this: Should I still try to be friends with N.C?
Personally, I say no, because I know myself all to well. While I have no real reason to hate his girlfriend, I know that I won't be able to converse with either of them properly. What I mean by this, is that I would be holding things back that, if he were single, I wouldn't think twice about. I won't function as myself.

But I do still want to get to know him, so, I'm stuck.

Being friends with NC can't hurt, and I know of a few cases where the boy decides he likes his female friend more than his romantic partner. It has happened a few times with my friends!

[Delah]

Noni Gailin Ayrenin~ , maybe it's just because I'm a weirdly loyal pup, but the idea of befriendng somebody you like seems like a bad idea. Even if you don't admit it you still have that interest in him and you don't want to hang around him and hurt yourself knowing you can't have him. And you definitely don't want to come between him and his lady, or worse have said lady come down on you for being around her boyfriend.
I know it sucks but it's best to look forwards and move on to somebody else.

[kal]

I have a problem...
My best friend that likes me, I like him too. But, whenever I try to talk to him about it he avoids me. I mean probably because it's an accident that I found out. And no, I can't write him a note, he just throws them away. I mean I at least want to be friends again.

[Dia.]

Noni Gailin Ayrenin~ , maybe it's just because I'm a weirdly loyal pup, but the idea of befriendng somebody you like seems like a bad idea. Even if you don't admit it you still have that interest in him and you don't want to hang around him and hurt yourself knowing you can't have him. And you definitely don't want to come between him and his lady, or worse have said lady come down on you for being around her boyfriend.
I know it sucks but it's best to look forwards and move on to somebody else.

I was good friends with my ex for over a year before we started dating.
And my boyfriend of nearly ten months was(and still is) my best guy friend.
Before we started dating, I had it in my head that I'd rather be friends with him than not be around him at all. Losing him all together would have hurt more than simply being friends. And as long as you only act friendly rather than desperately trying to flirt with him, his current girlfriend shouldn't have much of an issue with you unless she's clingy and insecure and distrustful.
I'm a strong believer that the best relationships stem from strong friendships. ^^ (even though the friendship to relationship thing failed with my ex, I don't think it would have if I hadn't dated him twice)

[Saren]

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How do I stop being anxious about the age difference between my boyfriend and myself? :c

That depends; how big is the age difference? Anything from 0-5 years is pretty okay if you're above about 20, in my opinion