Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[greysilence]

Wow. A while ago I had posted that my crush finally asked me to be his girlfriend. We've been dating for almost three months now, and it's been wonderful.

He does everything he can to make and keep me happy. Being goofy when needed, always complimenting me, sending long goodnight texts, etc. He's doing more than I ever could've asked for. So, my question is, how can I return the favors? I do those things too, but not as often. I don't want to just feed his words back to him. Basically I'm just looking for cute and simple ways to surprise him.

[Harpy•]

My boyfriend's christmas present FINALLY came in the mail: some brand new steel toe work boots to replace the ones that melted on him xD

[kaplantai]

so i started talking to this guy a few months ago, at first i had just the intentions of being friends but he made it seem he was looking for something more than a friend relationship, so i started flirting with him and talking to him in between my passing periods. about a month or so after i started talking to him, christmas break came and i didnt get to see him at all (we only texted over break), that is, until the last week of christmas break. [im not the type of girl that want to put all the work into this sort of thing so i didnt text him for a while to see if he would be the one to text me first.] i waited a few days, then a week, and never got a text. he hasnt talked to me at school and his friends are saying he's been really grumpy lately. but im too shy and uncomfortable to confront him about it. i wish he would at least explain to me why he isn't even attempting to talk to me. i glance at him in class but i never catch him glancing at me like he used to. maybe he doesn't want to be friends with me or maybe he has found someone else that would be easier. T^T why must boys be so complicated?!?

[surfiez]

Anyone can on me questions :3 I'll reply with some good advice

[Inevitablis Orbivium]

I need help with one more thing
How do you get him out of reach from his friends? I could only do it on Tuesdays. That also won't work. Errrr. Help meh. IF anyone has advice that would be great

[surfiez]

Why don't YOU invite him somewhere :3 ^ that way his friends aren't invited

[surfiez]

Since we are nearing the end of this thread (900 pages) I've decided to make a new one, I believe the original author quit so I will be taking over here's the link of you wanna start posting early : viewtopic.php?f=5&t=2585739&p=82262487#p82262487

[thunderofthedrum]

I believe it's a bit, eh, presumptuous, to be blunt, to take over when there are several other people who frequently post here as well. I don't mean to be rude, just that I don't know if it's best to 'call dibs' on something like that without anyone else having a chance to speak up. If you are determined to post the new thread, you might want to make a clear note stating that you are not the original creator. People may assume that you wrote up the starting post. Couldn't hurt to give appropriate credit where it is due to keep things clear and avoid the hassle of sorting things out later.

[Inevitablis Orbivium]

How do you invite a guy somewhere when you are still kept on a leash by parents?

[thunderofthedrum]

How do you invite a guy somewhere when you are still kept on a leash by parents?

Well, consider what options you DO have. Perhaps a school event, such as a sports game, dance, etc? Or could you suggest a group activity like going to see a movie or to mini golf so that there would be 4+ people? If going on a date alone is out of the question, then consider 'safe' places like school things that your parents will feel more comfortable with, or doing something as a group with friends so that it's not so obvious that you are doing it to spend time with one particular person. Something like those ideas could allow you to see this guy again while still being within the restrictions of your parents. As you get to know him, then you can consider talking to your parents and seeing if it's possible to compromise for a more date-like situation, such as a double date to a movie or something.