Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Mako.]

Hey guys! I'm back, with a new situation xD

I've been posting in the last thread about me and my crush max, and how I liked him, told him, and how to get advice to get over him.

Well guess what.

7 months since I told him I liked him. And I still like him. A lot. He's helped gotten me through really bad times lately, and that made me like him more. Now I slightly like another guy friend of mine. But I still have strong feelings for Max.

What should I do? Should I move on with this new crush? If so, how can I get over max? Am i even ready to move on? If it helps, I've liked max for about a year now.

Thank you guys so much for any advice!

[[x]]

Yes, yes, YES! I was talking to my friend today and I asked who she liked. After she told me I noticed my crush, Mouse walking past with his group of friends we call "The Winners" (Long story short, we don't like them.) I sighed and said, "It sucks that my crush is in The Winners..." so she asked me who and I told her. After a while my other friend came and said she would die alone and I said, "Yeah, me too. No one likes me, ha!" and my friend who I told who I like said, "No, someone likes you." so I asked who and she said Justin. The boy I like. She was texting him once and was playing truth or dare and so she asked who he liked and he said, 'I might like a girl who pokes me a lot'
And yes, I am well aware of the MIGHT. Anyways, she also said that if I get to know him well enough, he'll start hugging meeee! Yaay!

[plaguemouse]

UUUGH! My boyfriend doesn't care where I go, or who I am with. He shows not a single thread of jealousy. He doesn't tell his friends, his family about me. It took an entire month for him to tell his parents about me, even though he lives with them! He won't put me as his relationship on facebook, he won't come see me, he won't do anything!

[garnet.]

I need a little help ^^"
Basically, my biology teacher and me were talking about careers today {I want to go into biology for a career and so I asked him} and he listed loads of stuff then said 'Or you could be a teacher'
I replied 'No, I'll fail, I can't explain thinggs'
He replied basically saying I would be really good, I replied.
'Is that a compliment?'
he replies
'yeah, don't tell anyone though'
and then winks at me.
Thing is, we don't compliment each other, we have this weird bantery thing, where we always insult each other, it seems weird between a teacher and student, but it just kind of happens.
One major thing I left out, I have a huge crush on him, not that he knows of course.

Please help, I am really confused.

[Wild.One]

im confused.
He's be acting weird...
He's still trying to be nice to me. I don't know why. I guess it's nice of him it just..doesn't seem like him. Like its fake. He's not generally nice to everybody.. He makes fun of the people like me. But we used to be friends. We were pretty close at one point. Maybe when he realized I was mad at him, he missed when we were friends. But I really don't know. Anybody wanna give me an opinion? I just really don't know what to think. I can give some examples if anyone wants.

[Noni Gailin Ayrenin~]

Yesterday, I came to the conclusion that I just can't have N.C(cute boy). But, last night, I had a slide-show style dream. The first image was of him and I sharing ear buds and just kinda jamming out. The second one was much like the first, but we were singing. And the third one.....It was just him, and he had the cutest, cheesiest, Naruto style smile and.....I just wanted to melt.

But....Why would my mind show me that when I've already decided I can't have him?

[Anuran]

So, I did something really stupid.

There was this guy, that I was semi-ok friends with. And he apparently liked me. A lot. Tried to kiss me twice, after I'd known him for barely a week. So, I did the thing that comes natural to me when guys I don't know well start to act like that - I do what it takes to get them off me. Only thing was, I didn't want this kid to think that I thought he was, well, rather weird and immature. That'd be rude to say to his face. I told him that I was going out with this other guy - kinda semi true, I like this guy a lot and he likes me, it's gonna happen anyways - so that he'd stop trying to get with me.

Only thing is, SOMEONE said SOMETHING to people I don't even know, and he changed the story to make it sound like it's one of my other friend's fault that I'm not gonna go out with this boy. She's upset that everyone's mad at her, and telling me to tell him the truth. Only thing is, doing that is NOT going to help; they're just going to get angrier at both of us. I plan on just telling them that it isn't even close to my other friend's fault; it's all me because I'm stupid and thoughtless and saw myself better with this other guy.

That is, if I even saw him again. We hadn't hung out since I'd told him off.

But now, I'd invited that girl friend of mine to a movie, and I guess she went at fricken' told him, and he's coming.

I don't know what to do this time.
I feel really guilty.

[[x]]

Well... I thought we-...
I was hanging out with Mouse at lunch because he asked my friends and I to but when someone asked why he was hanging out with us he replied with, "I'm not hanging out with them! They asked to hang out with me! It's pretty creepy..." I-... But I thought he liked me...
I'm so confused.
We get along and he doesn't act like I creep him out... We laugh together and share stories and...


Help...

[thunderofthedrum]

UUUGH! My boyfriend doesn't care where I go, or who I am with. He shows not a single thread of jealousy. He doesn't tell his friends, his family about me. It took an entire month for him to tell his parents about me, even though he lives with them! He won't put me as his relationship on facebook, he won't come see me, he won't do anything!

How long have you guys been together? Also, do you guys differ in dating experience? And are you minors? I can understand keeping a secret from parents if you worry they will disapprove, be very nosy, or generally be overbearing in some way. He may not feel ready to tell the world yet; some people prefer to keep things like that private. I'd been dating my boyfriend.. I think nearly 9 months or so and I still didn't put it on facebook; I simply don't think it's anyone else's business. I definitely waited more than just a month to tell my parents and I'm not even a minor!

Now, if he's simply acting secretive about you, then that could suggest an issue. Not being willing to spend time with you also rings an alarm bell in my mind.

I need a little help ^^"
Basically, my biology teacher and me were talking about careers today {I want to go into biology for a career and so I asked him} and he listed loads of stuff then said 'Or you could be a teacher'
I replied 'No, I'll fail, I can't explain thinggs'
He replied basically saying I would be really good, I replied.
'Is that a compliment?'
he replies
'yeah, don't tell anyone though'
and then winks at me.
Thing is, we don't compliment each other, we have this weird bantery thing, where we always insult each other, it seems weird between a teacher and student, but it just kind of happens.
One major thing I left out, I have a huge crush on him, not that he knows of course.

Please help, I am really confused.

What do you want help with? You already know your own feelings for him. Whatever his feelings may be doesn't matter - because he is your TEACHER. That's all there is to it.

On another note, biology is awesome. I have a degree in it.

im confused.
He's be acting weird...
He's still trying to be nice to me. I don't know why. I guess it's nice of him it just..doesn't seem like him. Like its fake. He's not generally nice to everybody.. He makes fun of the people like me. But we used to be friends. We were pretty close at one point. Maybe when he realized I was mad at him, he missed when we were friends. But I really don't know. Anybody wanna give me an opinion? I just really don't know what to think. I can give some examples if anyone wants.

Sounds to me like he was a jerk and took you for granted. Perhaps he's just trying to be nice to get back into your good graces and hopes that just behaving differently for a short while will get things back to the way they were. The problem is the risk you take if you let it happen that way - will he just be a jerk again? That is something none of us can guess for you.

[Wild.One]

im confused.
He's be acting weird...
He's still trying to be nice to me. I don't know why. I guess it's nice of him it just..doesn't seem like him. Like its fake. He's not generally nice to everybody.. He makes fun of the people like me. But we used to be friends. We were pretty close at one point. Maybe when he realized I was mad at him, he missed when we were friends. But I really don't know. Anybody wanna give me an opinion? I just really don't know what to think. I can give some examples if anyone wants.

Sounds to me like he was a jerk and took you for granted. Perhaps he's just trying to be nice to get back into your good graces and hopes that just behaving differently for a short while will get things back to the way they were. The problem is the risk you take if you let it happen that way - will he just be a jerk again? That is something none of us can guess for you.

Thanks for the response. I guess I will just be cautious. I probably won't trust him like I did last year. He probably won't keep this up very long though. He gets everything handed to him except me. And its going to stay that way.