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[n3rvous]

this is from my friend who has been banned and therefore, cannot log on. x

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Helloooo i would like advice for umm this situation... So we just found out our classes for this year. and my boyfriend and i aren't in the same class and I'm rlly pissed lol. So basically he got in the same class as my Ex Best-Friend. Im really worried because she flirts with him practically every time she see's him, and even tho she has a boyfriend she still flirts with him A LOT. She is popular and prettier than me so I'm kind of worried that if she keeps flirting with him, he might break up with me for her... I know sometimes i get jealous and worried about this stuff and i can overreact sometimes but I don't really know what to do... i don't really tell him how i feel when he is with her, and when he is i get sad and kinda just walk about, pretending that i didn't see anything and just try to ignore it. My best friend now she tells my boyfriend a lot of stuff about me that i don't really wanna tell him myself and she tells me stuff he tells her that he does;t want to me know, nothing bad but I'm not sure if i should tell her to tell him how i feel in situations like this...
thanks x
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Ohhh I got this. (Hi Im Duke_'s girlfriend)

So I've totally been through this before.
First off, the basic foundation of any relationship is three things. Trust. Communication. And Giving.

As you explained the situation, (you dont tell your boyfriend how you feel.) There is no communication in the relationship. There needs to be. Sit him down and tell him how you honestly feel. What he does with that info is up to him.

You also seem to lack trust in him. You don't trust him around "pretty and popular" girls. Well you need to trust him, if she flirts with him all the time he must know she likes her. But hes with you, which means he wants you.

I dont know how much you guys give in your relationship so I cant say much on that. (Give time and effort.)

Love is not a feeling, or an emotion. Its a choice. You can either choose to love that person and give them everything, trust, comunnication, ect. Or you can choose not to.

Feel free to PM me if you want to further talk about this.

thank you c: i'll text my friend your response and let you know what she said/will do

[cherubim]

this is from my friend who has been banned and therefore, cannot log on. x

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Helloooo i would like advice for umm this situation... So we just found out our classes for this year. and my boyfriend and i aren't in the same class and I'm rlly pissed lol. So basically he got in the same class as my Ex Best-Friend. Im really worried because she flirts with him practically every time she see's him, and even tho she has a boyfriend she still flirts with him A LOT. She is popular and prettier than me so I'm kind of worried that if she keeps flirting with him, he might break up with me for her... I know sometimes i get jealous and worried about this stuff and i can overreact sometimes but I don't really know what to do... i don't really tell him how i feel when he is with her, and when he is i get sad and kinda just walk about, pretending that i didn't see anything and just try to ignore it. My best friend now she tells my boyfriend a lot of stuff about me that i don't really wanna tell him myself and she tells me stuff he tells her that he does;t want to me know, nothing bad but I'm not sure if i should tell her to tell him how i feel in situations like this...
thanks x
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ah, getting jelous and protective is okay! but there comes a time where you have to communicate, and with your situation, it seems that you need to communicate with both your boyfriend and ex best-friend.
by no means should they say stuff about you behind your back like that, and it seems that your ex best-friend wants to rub that in. you should tell them both how much that it a) hurts you
b) worries and stresses you
and c) how wrong that it is. especially on your boyfriend's part. he shouldn't say stuff about you that he doesn't want you to know to your ex best friend. that's kinda overstepping the line there.
I'm no expert in these things, but I highly recommend speaking your mind to both of them! it may be hard, yes, but at times drastic actions must be taken. if either of them don't agree and/or you loose a relationship? that's okay, because they clearly weren't treating you right anyway.
I hope this somewhat helped your friend, paris! let them know that they're supported by us ♡

[Duke_]

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thank you c: i'll text my friend your response and let you know what she said/will do

Your welcome c: and please, PLEASE tell her SHE needs to talk to him. Not her friend.

Its important that she talks to him about stuff that bothers her.

Dating is strictly to find who you want to marry...which means you have to talk to that person face to face about problems like this.

[n3rvous]

this is from my friend who has been banned and therefore, cannot log on. x

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Helloooo i would like advice for umm this situation... So we just found out our classes for this year. and my boyfriend and i aren't in the same class and I'm rlly pissed lol. So basically he got in the same class as my Ex Best-Friend. Im really worried because she flirts with him practically every time she see's him, and even tho she has a boyfriend she still flirts with him A LOT. She is popular and prettier than me so I'm kind of worried that if she keeps flirting with him, he might break up with me for her... I know sometimes i get jealous and worried about this stuff and i can overreact sometimes but I don't really know what to do... i don't really tell him how i feel when he is with her, and when he is i get sad and kinda just walk about, pretending that i didn't see anything and just try to ignore it. My best friend now she tells my boyfriend a lot of stuff about me that i don't really wanna tell him myself and she tells me stuff he tells her that he does;t want to me know, nothing bad but I'm not sure if i should tell her to tell him how i feel in situations like this...
thanks x
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ah, getting jelous and protective is okay! but there comes a time where you have to communicate, and with your situation, it seems that you need to communicate with both your boyfriend and ex best-friend.
by no means should they say stuff about you behind your back like that, and it seems that your ex best-friend wants to rub that in. you should tell them both how much that it a) hurts you
b) worries and stresses you
and c) how wrong that it is. especially on your boyfriend's part. he shouldn't say stuff about you that he doesn't want you to know to your ex best friend. that's kinda overstepping the line there.
I'm no expert in these things, but I highly recommend speaking your mind to both of them! it may be hard, yes, but at times drastic actions must be taken. if either of them don't agree and/or you loose a relationship? that's okay, because they clearly weren't treating you right anyway.
I hope this somewhat helped your friend, paris! let them know that they're supported by us ♡

thank you! i'll definitely let her know x

[EmilineRose]

Ugh, okay, so, i'm getting pretty annoyed and upset.
when i offer you something out of the kindness of my heart, the least you could do, is reply to me.
i get it if you have to go offline and dont read it right away, or you read it then go offline,
but when you read my message, then go and post on threads, that to me, is rude.
At the least. Reply. With. A. Thank. You. Or. Something. Please.

[Eagle's Eye]

Ugh, okay, so, i'm getting pretty annoyed and upset.
when i offer you something out of the kindness of my heart, the least you could do, is reply to me.
i get it if you have to go offline and dont read it right away, or you read it then go offline,
but when you read my message, then go and post on threads, that to me, is rude.
At the least. Reply. With. A. Thank. You. Or. Something. Please.

I feel you!!Exactly that happened to me a few days ago. I spent so long helping someone and didn't even get a reply back. At least now you know who you shouldn't talk to :/

[Thalassic]

I'm so crushed
so scared
I can't believe onopened up to someone, believing it was a safe space, only to wake up and find out it's full with disgusting, hateful people
I can't believe there could be a single safe space in this country
I'm an idiot
why would I ever think that

[*Infinity*]

I'm so crushed
so scared
I can't believe onopened up to someone, believing it was a safe space, only to wake up and find out it's full with disgusting, hateful people
I can't believe there could be a single safe space in this country
I'm an idiot
why would I ever think that

You are not an idiot to be trusting... It takes a lot of courage to be trusting!!

Sometimes, though, people are not who we think they are, and they betray that trust. That doesn't mean that we should stop trusting people, though.

Be strong. We are here with you, a community, a safe space, caring.

Just keep being you, and you will find your place!

[rainbowwrowell]

Pm me anyone? Please..?

[Radiation King]

[[It's 9 AM
Family member has been yelling at me about politics for an hour
I agree with them on some things and I certainly see their POV but
I really just want to eat my breakfast I'm hungry and kinda sick
And they won't let me get a single word in about my own opinions

And now the subject has changed from politics to my choice of profession
I am not a morning person it's too early for this
I'm fine with - and I actually enjoy - civil debates, where everyone kinda
has a general "yeah I get where you're coming from but I have a different
opinion" but I don't like being argued at when I have no intention of yelling
or arguing back, and I don't particularly fancy being walked all over either

For the love of the universe I just want to eat my cheese and crackers in peace]]