Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Amethysts]

Weeeew, I'm in a situation.
Okay so, I'm in love with this girl, let's call her J. I've known J for years now, and we dated once but it was awkward, now I truly love her and I want to ask so bad, but one of my friends, let's call her O, loves me. And I don't wanna devastate her again. Also, to list people that love me, A, H, O, J, P, and J2.
Plus, I promised myself a break.
So, I dunno.

Sound exactly like me atm.

Take your time to figure things out.

[.yuanfen]

When you have a dream that your crush says he likes you in a more-than-a-friend kind of way...

...and then you wake up.

[Scarlett Redd]

I need help with this...
One of my best friends keeps flirting with my boyfriend. That on its own is irritating but harmless... But sometimes he flirts back. He doesn't realize it & then wonders why I seem ... confused & annoyed.
I don't know what to do - she acts like they're more-than-friends, but he says it's just 'cos they've known each-other forever & that I need to calm down. But it really annoys me that he can't see why I'm worried.
I've asked my friend to stop, but she hasn't.
But I feel threatened. I really love him & I feel like a rug has been pulled out from under me, so now I'm just sitting on the floor looking like an idiot... Again.
If they did go out, they would be a really cute couple too.
Help?

[Lucid Dreamer]

I need help with this...
One of my best friends keeps flirting with my boyfriend. That on its own is irritating but harmless... But sometimes he flirts back. He doesn't realize it & then wonders why I seem ... confused & annoyed.
I don't know what to do - she acts like they're more-than-friends, but he says it's just 'cos they've known each-other forever & that I need to calm down. But it really annoys me that he can't see why I'm worried.
I've asked my friend to stop, but she hasn't.
But I feel threatened. I really love him & I feel like a rug has been pulled out from under me, so now I'm just sitting on the floor looking like an idiot... Again.
If they did go out, they would be a really cute couple too.
Help?

My mates mate keeps flirting with her bf, and he flirts back, it turned out that he was going out with my mate to get to her mate, I'm not saying that your bf is doing that too, but does he seem to want to be around her? Even when your together? As that's what he did, they live across from each other, and when he was round at her house, he would want to call on her.

[Scarlett Redd]

I need help with this...
One of my best friends keeps flirting with my boyfriend. That on its own is irritating but harmless... But sometimes he flirts back. He doesn't realize it & then wonders why I seem ... confused & annoyed.
I don't know what to do - she acts like they're more-than-friends, but he says it's just 'cos they've known each-other forever & that I need to calm down. But it really annoys me that he can't see why I'm worried.
I've asked my friend to stop, but she hasn't.
But I feel threatened. I really love him & I feel like a rug has been pulled out from under me, so now I'm just sitting on the floor looking like an idiot... Again.
If they did go out, they would be a really cute couple too.
Help?

My mates mate keeps flirting with her bf, and he flirts back, it turned out that he was going out with my mate to get to her mate, I'm not saying that your bf is doing that too, but does he seem to want to be around her? Even when your together? As that's what he did, they live across from each other, and when he was round at her house, he would want to call on her.

That's what I'm scared is going to happen to me. D: And I think for her, he would just be a re-bound, as she's trying to get over a guy that she fell really hard for. (He moved to our school for 6 months then moved back to where he was from, and it broke her heart.)

[BlingBling]

Went through a tough breakup Friday. I still love her, but she's better not having to worry about silly ol me all the time ^^'

[Lucid Dreamer]

I need help with this...
One of my best friends keeps flirting with my boyfriend. That on its own is irritating but harmless... But sometimes he flirts back. He doesn't realize it & then wonders why I seem ... confused & annoyed.
I don't know what to do - she acts like they're more-than-friends, but he says it's just 'cos they've known each-other forever & that I need to calm down. But it really annoys me that he can't see why I'm worried.
I've asked my friend to stop, but she hasn't.
But I feel threatened. I really love him & I feel like a rug has been pulled out from under me, so now I'm just sitting on the floor looking like an idiot... Again.
If they did go out, they would be a really cute couple too.
Help?

My mates mate keeps flirting with her bf, and he flirts back, it turned out that he was going out with my mate to get to her mate, I'm not saying that your bf is doing that too, but does he seem to want to be around her? Even when your together? As that's what he did, they live across from each other, and when he was round at her house, he would want to call on her.

That's what I'm scared is going to happen to me. D: And I think for her, he would just be a re-bound, as she's trying to get over a guy that she fell really hard for. (He moved to our school for 6 months then moved back to where he was from, and it broke her heart.)

What may be the case, is that she is jealous of you because you have a bf, and she doesn't. That's why she could be flirting with him, thinking that he will fall for her and ask her out? She might not even like him, she just wants the attention from him.

[Scarlett Redd]

My mates mate keeps flirting with her bf, and he flirts back, it turned out that he was going out with my mate to get to her mate, I'm not saying that your bf is doing that too, but does he seem to want to be around her? Even when your together? As that's what he did, they live across from each other, and when he was round at her house, he would want to call on her.

That's what I'm scared is going to happen to me. D: And I think for her, he would just be a re-bound, as she's trying to get over a guy that she fell really hard for. (He moved to our school for 6 months then moved back to where he was from, and it broke her heart.)

What may be the case, is that she is jealous of you because you have a bf, and she doesn't. That's why she could be flirting with him, thinking that he will fall for her and ask her out? She might not even like him, she just wants the attention from him.

I guess that could be why... Why is it relationships I'm in are always really confusing? D:

[OceanBlast]

So there's this boy in my class who is a pretty good friend of mine, but I think he has a crush on me. Most of my friends say he stares at me loads and he talks to me a lot of the time. We're interested in the same things and he's really sweet and funny.

But there's a problem...

He is my bf's crush. and she really likes him. She flirts with him all the time (But he doesn't seem very interested in her) and gets angry when she sees us talking. She keeps telling me I'm flirting with him and to stop but the rest of my friends say we would make a cute couple and I should ask him out. If he asked me out, I'm not sure of what to say; If I say yes I will anger and upset my friend, but if I say no than the boy and I's friendship will become awkward. I dont know what to do, I'm almost certain he's going to ask me out soon ;_;

[Lucid Dreamer]

If your friend was a true friend, then she would surely understand if you went out with him. Yeah, she may be jealous, but I'm sure it will all blow over soon. She would want you two to be happy together, you cant not go out with a guy just because your mate likes him too.