Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Kajaru]

My boyfriend is so cute but I just can't...
He's helping me so much with the money right now but I rly feel bad about it, because I can't make something to thank him..
He is always the one paying or food and helping me out if I have problems with the money. He even bought me Pokemon Omega Ruby!
Man.. I'm feeling so bad right now.. I'm always asking him if he wants something in return but then he always hugs me and says "I just need you."
But I WANT to do something for him. I don't want to be the girlfriend that just sits there and does nothing. But I really don't know what I should do for him.. Any advice? You can PM me too.

[ScarWitch]

The struggle is real...

My boyfriend works as a brick mason at his family's masonry and has so for a few years. He does a lot of labor intensive work, and has been injured quite a few times. Doctors have told him that he basically has the body of a 50 year old, when he's less than half that, including arthritus on top of the many aches and pains of long ago incidents.

Anyway, today his spine was acting up so bad he could hardly move, and when he did move his eyes were misted over from the pain. He's going to the chiropractor tomorrow, which is good, I'm just really worried about his injuries in general. His wrist acts up all the time at school, giving out when he's caring things or writing and his knees sometimes do the same thing.

This isn't really looking for advice persay, I'm just worried. My friends are busy at the moment and my mother would tell me that he isn't normal for his age. She likes him, but she has issues with men with long term obvious injuries... Sorry, just had to get it all out. Thanks for reading if anyone does...

Update: The pain hasn't subsided and he now has a fever due to the pain. I'm now even more worried... He says he wants to come to school tomorrow and will, since it's just pain not a sickness, but I don't think it's a good idea to put undue strain on himself... *sigh* stubborn sonofagun...

[Medusa72]

Too embarrassing...nvm ehehehe

PM me if you'd like.
In fact if anyone on here would like to PM rather than just respond to a thread, my mailbox is open, even if it's just ranting.
Why you ask? I know how disappointing it is not to get a response (back when I had boy troubles) and I'd like to give as much support possible.

Seriously though, if you want to PM, I'm here.

[Johnny Stevens]

Okay, I need to have a small rant on something that has to do with 4 friends, one a guy, 3 girls. Lets start this... So let's call this girl C, C and the guy J have been friend for years! In 7th grade they began dating and at the end of 8th grade she moved to Kansas. My other friend, let's call her N, was also very buddy-buddy with J. They did everything together and N crushed on J throughout 8th grade. Once 9th grade started, a new friend, let's call her A, begins crushing on J also and asks N for advice. N says go for it BUT J is still dating C (as far as we knew) and this why N has held off on sucking faces with J I believe. N has gotten much more flirtatious around J whenever A is around. A asked me 'why did N say go for it when she clearly wants him?' And I don't know myself because I know N would never purposefully do anything like that. J and I don't talk much because I am like C and I dont have many things at all in common with J. Any advice on helping me solve this love/crush thing? Also I think J also likes N. ;-;
So here is a bad diagram
C<->J
J<?>N
J<--N
J<--A
Please help ;-; N and A have begun to fight a bit and they are bringing me into it and I don't want to have them split as I have enough going on right now


Please PM me or just quote and reply. I also have something else to ask but its embarrassing and useless to ask because it will never happen.
Thanks!
-Alone

[ScarWitch]

...he's now in the ER... ;-;

[wolvesrule5]

omg me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 8 days and he is like never around but when he is he really shows he loves me. he knows i love him more that my own life and that there are plenty of guys who i know have a crush on me but there are 3 guys and i really want to be there friend and i've taken steps to be there friend but i feel like one of them likes me or i may just be imagining it but i think i really like them but i still am devoted to my boyfriend, night and day. i'm still a teen but i have very strong feelings for all these guys in my life and love them all. oh why can't we date more that one guy, it would be so much easier. and when i say devoted i mean that i have a freaking shrine of him, or at least a lot of reminders of him all over my house.
i seriously need help with my other love triange that i'm in. it involves me and my bf or course but there is also my other friend and he's like a brother to me (if there is a forum about stuff like jealousy can someone pm me about that) and he had a crush on my but now it's smaller and i have a crush one him and he said that if i ever break up with my bf that he would take me because he was that first person i told about him. i need serious help with this. WHAT DO I DO
I'M BARLEY EVEN CUTE LET ALONE HOT!

[not a talking cat]

my crush asked me out today as a joke. i freaked out and stuttered a 'no', and he sighed in relief and went back to his laughing friends, saying "it's okay, she said no!"

now i feel terrible
he didn't have to say that when I was right there ;-;

sorry, just a small problem i decided to share with y'all
does anyone think they can help me feel a bit better? c:

[goranski.]

my crush asked me out today as a joke. i freaked out and stuttered a 'no', and he sighed in relief and went back to his laughing friends, saying "it's okay, she said no!"

now i feel terrible
he didn't have to say that when I was right there ;-;

sorry, just a small problem i decided to share with y'all
does anyone think they can help me feel a bit better? c:

Yikes. No offense since I don't know him personally, but he sounds kinda tool-ish....
Maybe thats just me.
But, he might not be worthy of your affection if hes that rude to you!!!
Just my opinion tho

[luxray;]

My boyfriend is still in the ICU. I haven't been admitted to see him, since it's family only. I really hope he's okay, I haven't been able to get any info out of his parents, I'm really freaking out right now. They're thinking it's a problem with his lungs, lung cancer runs in his family.

[posidenwolf]

Alone, if J likes N, he'd ask her out. If not, and he liked A, he'd ask A out. If he is still dating C, then neither will get asked out. And if he likes u, he'll ask u out. its really simple and it's all up to J, unless A Or N ask him out.or U.