| TheComfortCorner | v.5

[.Blossom.]

i just. wow
do not have any friends anymore
and i guess i've been bracing for it for a while but just no one talks to me
and i feel so awful about myself
everything is so bad

[starstruck ★]

Okay, like I know I need to lose weight, but you really don't have to remind me. It's not like said person even told me this in a necessarily rude way, but it still made me feel fat. I already know I am, so you don't need to remind me, even if you didn't directly insult me. It's still pretty rude to point out that I need to lose a few pounds, even if you do have the authority to do so.

[amaoretto]

i'm literally on the verge of tears, i'm being guilt-tripped into dating this one guy. my friend is telling me that he is thinking of doing things because i reject him time and time. just a few minutes ago my friend told me that he was about to do something very very dangerous because i didn't answer his second message of his love confession. I've know him for about 2-3 years but i don't like him like that, not at all. i don't want to get into a relationship and I've told my friend and him multiple times, they're making me scared and they don't even know how i'm feeling over the messages i'm sending... whenever i think about it i get so much anxiety and almost have a panic attack and don't know what to do.

sorry for this wall of text

[trans]

gee, would you look at that? my dad is disappointed in me again, but honestly he's never been proud of me so i dont understand why he acts like he has or ever will be in such a screw up

[ausgdghsag]

gosh why are so many people getting to me recently?
i hate being so distant but at the same time if you push me from my comfort zone
then i freak the hell out wow

not to mention some body image issues i've been having
couple that with being harassed at school and you get a very angry me

[mr.robot]

i'm literally on the verge of tears, i'm being guilt-tripped into dating this one guy. my friend is telling me that he is thinking of doing things because i reject him time and time. just a few minutes ago my friend told me that he was about to do something very very dangerous because i didn't answer his second message of his love confession. I've know him for about 2-3 years but i don't like him like that, not at all. i don't want to get into a relationship and I've told my friend and him multiple times, they're making me scared and they don't even know how i'm feeling over the messages i'm sending... whenever i think about it i get so much anxiety and almost have a panic attack and don't know what to do.

sorry for this wall of text

Pleaseeeeeeeeeee don't fall for this. Even if the kid does anything, it isn't your fault and you don't deserve this at all. If you do going along with it he'll only manipulate you and emotionally abuse you further by threatening to do things like that AGAIN if you try to leave him. Tell your parents or some figure of authority.

[atii]

can i get a pm please...

[W A R R I O R S .]

I can't breath from crying. I hate my parents, thinking I can't do anything right. Its not my fault I have depression, They keep asking and it makes it worse. They think my life will be 'peach-perfect' thank to they're so called 'help.' I hate their guts, I just hate looking at them! They think they can curse at me because I'm 'old enough.' So, since i'm old enough apparently I can't get respect and love anymore, is that what you're saying here?!?!!!?....I just really miss the old days when we would all laugh together....I want that back....

Sorry about the rant, I just can't.

[MEAT!]

Okay, like I know I need to lose weight, but you really don't have to remind me. It's not like said person even told me this in a necessarily rude way, but it still made me feel fat. I already know I am, so you don't need to remind me, even if you didn't directly insult me. It's still pretty rude to point out that I need to lose a few pounds, even if you do have the authority to do so.

no one ever has the authority to tell you about your
own body size! remind them that your body is none
of their business, and body shaming you is not going
to make them any better of a person. if you feel like
you need to gain/lose weight, you make that decision.
not anyone else. dont ever let someone pressure you
into doing something with you're body that you are
not on board with! <3

gee, would you look at that? my dad is disappointed in me again, but honestly he's never been proud of me so i dont understand why he acts like he has or ever will be in such a screw up

i know parents can quite literally suck for most of our
young adult lives, but soon you'll be out of the house and
away from his negativity. for now, try to surround yourself
with people who love and care about you, because you
deserve nothing else. please hang in there, i believe in you<3

i'm literally on the verge of tears, i'm being guilt-tripped into dating this one guy. my friend is telling me that he is thinking of doing things because i reject him time and time. just a few minutes ago my friend told me that he was about to do something very very dangerous because i didn't answer his second message of his love confession. I've know him for about 2-3 years but i don't like him like that, not at all. i don't want to get into a relationship and I've told my friend and him multiple times, they're making me scared and they don't even know how i'm feeling over the messages i'm sending... whenever i think about it i get so much anxiety and almost have a panic attack and don't know what to do.

sorry for this wall of text

no one is ever allowed to pressure you into doing something
like that. its called sexual harassment if he is forcing you to
date him/ do things with him that youre not comfortable with
and him saying hes going to hurt himself is also a form of
sexual assault. the best thing you can do here is tell an adult
that you are being forced to date this kid because if you dont
he will hurt himself. is unfair for you and inhumane of him to
treat you like that.

gosh why are so many people getting to me recently?
i hate being so distant but at the same time if you push me from my comfort zone
then i freak the hell out wow

not to mention some body image issues i've been having
couple that with being harassed at school and you get a very angry me

if they are online people, blocking them will be your best
shot. if they are people in real life, tell them straight up
that they are making you uncomfortable and you need to
have some time to yourself.
as for body image, i know learnin to love yourself is a long
and hard process, but it helps to take baby steps and start
accepting yourself, and if you want change, then go out and
strive for it.
and if youre being harassed at school, tell a faculty member!
youre there to learn and get an education, not to be picked on
its not fair for you! definitely talk to someone that can help you
work something out with those horrible kids.
hang in here, love. you can do this <3

can i get a pm please...

pm'ing <3

I can't breath from crying. I hate my parents, thinking I can't do anything right. Its not my fault I have depression, They keep asking and it makes it worse. They think my life will be 'peach-perfect' thank to they're so called 'help.' I hate their guts, I just hate looking at them! They think they can curse at me because I'm 'old enough.' So, since i'm old enough apparently I can't get respect and love anymore, is that what you're saying here?!?!!!?....I just really miss the old days when we would all laugh together....I want that back....

Sorry about the rant, I just can't.

parents think that what theyre doing is always right,
but most of the time they are wrong. i think what
would benefit all of you is to have a sit down with them
and explain what youre going through. i know its so hard
to talk about your emotions, but once they have a sense
of what youre going through, they are one step closer to
getting you the medical help you need! let them know that
instead of helping you, theyre currently making you feel
worse. i promise you they want the best for you, they are
just confused and overwhelmed about their child, and they
want you to get better, as do it <3

[chooch]

so I told my best friend who I liked and today she told me she had a confession to make and I said "yes?" and she told me she liked him and she always told me she hated him and I started crying my eyes out and I told her and I said it's ok you can ask him and now I feel lonely and I am really sad and I can't stop listening to this one song and feeling upset. It feels like my heart is sinking in my stomach. I don't know what to do. I feel so upset.