Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Julia]

I need to rant. A lot. Too long for me to want to post it here. Can someone PM me? I'm having trust issues with a former friend and crush, involving a lot of blunders on my part and I just really need someone to talk to. There's not much advice that can really be given; I just need someone willing to listen to a really long (embarrassingly angsty) crush rant

Sure. PM me! (I can't promise to get back to you right now, but I'll be online tonight)

So, I KNEW he would forget about my birthday. But it just breaks my heart. We actually started talking normally (texting) after a month and today he sent me a picture of some trees and snow bla bla saying that he loves his holidays and i sent him a picture with some birthday candles and wrote "I'm pretty old now". He didn't respond to that..and changed his whatsapp picture in such a stupid picture with a terrible joke on it (that is against women).

Why why why why do I still want him. I love him so much it's insane. I'd do basically everything just to get him to say happy birthday to me. I'd forgive him right away - this is just so unfair. ;n: How can your mood depend on one person who doesn't even care...

[Child_of_Death]

So, I KNEW he would forget about my birthday. But it just breaks my heart. We actually started talking normally (texting) after a month and today he sent me a picture of some trees and snow bla bla saying that he loves his holidays and i sent him a picture with some birthday candles and wrote "I'm pretty old now". He didn't respond to that..and changed his whatsapp picture in such a stupid picture with a terrible joke on it (that is against women).

Why why why why do I still want him. I love him so much it's insane. I'd do basically everything just to get him to say happy birthday to me. I'd forgive him right away - this is just so unfair. ;n: How can your mood depend on one person who doesn't even care...

There comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans for people who wouldn't jump puddles for you. Drop the jerk. I hate people who think men are so much better than women; not that women are better than men, just that they are equals. One couldn't survive without the other. Anyway, if he's going to be a douche than you might as well say screw it and ignore him. It will teach him a lesson about just how rude you can be to other people before paying the price.

[Retrouvailles]

Me and this guy (let's call him A) have been talking for a few months or so now. Today he sent me a text saying, "Hey I just have to say this I'm happy you are my friend and I love having you as a friend I love talking to you it is so much fun and I hope we talk a lot more anyways happy new year." I thought it was very sweet, and I realized I had feelings for him. He has a gf though, but he can't get in touch with her because she never gave him her number. She lives far way from me and A. I feel bad for liking him, but I don't at the same time.

I also flirted with him, and he seemed to flirt back...I dunno what to do about this.

[Clarrissa]

Im a girl and I likethis boy (Ryan) and i talk to him all the time and he's always making me laugh and hes always so nice and hes so adorable but i dont know if he likes me ans my friend are always telling me to tell him that I like him but im affraid that he might regect me and hate me forever or just not see me the same what do i do just tell him or wait for him to sy somthing i dont really know just can someone help me

Ask him if he likes you. Hating someone forever for admitting they have a crush on you is not something that happens in the real world.

Trust me, it does. I've seen it happen loads at my school and I also have first hand experience of how embarrassing it can be, for the person who admits it as well as the person they admit it to... ;o

[Startedraining]

tfw you don't have any relationship problems because you're not an angst teenager.
Although, I do miss him sometimes :c

[kafka]

Me and this guy (let's call him A) have been talking for a few months or so now. Today he sent me a text saying, "Hey I just have to say this I'm happy you are my friend and I love having you as a friend I love talking to you it is so much fun and I hope we talk a lot more anyways happy new year." I thought it was very sweet, and I realized I had feelings for him. He has a gf though, but he can't get in touch with her because she never gave him her number. She lives far way from me and A. I feel bad for liking him, but I don't at the same time.

I also flirted with him, and he seemed to flirt back...I dunno what to do about this.

You should stop flirting with him.

He has a girlfriend, and even if they don't seem tight, it's unfair of you to barge in. Even if he's flirting back, that's something he shouldn't be doing. Arguing that they aren't a very good couple and you two seem like a better match will get you nowhere, because this is their relationship and until it's officially over, you shouldn't be having anything romantic to do with the guy. Sorry, but what if your boyfriend lived far away, you went back for a visit and some other girl was cosying up against him? Not cool.


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Okay so my crush's birthday is on Valentine's Day and want to make him a small birthday present. I'll have to give it to him the day before at school (his birthday is in the weekend). I think he knows I like him - I asked him to the formal this year and he was really nice about it (although he went with his friends) but otherwise he seems kinda clueless and unaware of my presence. My friend told me he's in my class next year but I'm not too sure. Anyway, I need some help —

• What should I make? He likes cats, soccer and his favourite colour is dark green but that's all I have to work with.
• What if he just doesn't like me? He doesn't know me too well, so will I come off as weird trying to do this?
• Any other comments or suggestions?

[Retrouvailles]

Me and this guy (let's call him A) have been talking for a few months or so now. Today he sent me a text saying, "Hey I just have to say this I'm happy you are my friend and I love having you as a friend I love talking to you it is so much fun and I hope we talk a lot more anyways happy new year." I thought it was very sweet, and I realized I had feelings for him. He has a gf though, but he can't get in touch with her because she never gave him her number. She lives far way from me and A. I feel bad for liking him, but I don't at the same time.

I also flirted with him, and he seemed to flirt back...I dunno what to do about this.

You should stop flirting with him.

He has a girlfriend, and even if they don't seem tight, it's unfair of you to barge in. Even if he's flirting back, that's something he shouldn't be doing. Arguing that they aren't a very good couple and you two seem like a better match will get you nowhere, because this is their relationship and until it's officially over, you shouldn't be having anything romantic to do with the guy. Sorry, but what if your boyfriend lived far away, you went back for a visit and some other girl was cosying up against him? Not cool.

I forgot to update this, but he said he was breaking up with her as soon as he can. I feel so guilty and I feel like a you-know-what now. I think I'll stay back from him.

[kafka]

I forgot to update this, but he said he was breaking up with her as soon as he can. I feel so guilty and I feel like a you-know-what now. I think I'll stay back from him. :(

It's not entirely your fault if he's leading you on like this, although until they're officially over, don't do anything drastic.

[JustDucky]

Having relationship problems because of other people sucks. It seems like everyone is against us. Mostly because his ex still has feelings. She is fairly popular. I'm quiet, so I'm not. He tried it with her, but never felt anything for her. So he gave it up, and a few weeks later we got together. I used to be his best friend. And he pretty much hated her in the end. Now she harasses him, and pretty much stalks him, which makes me mad. And I've got guys who harass me, and it makes him mad.
I'm so afraid this will hurt us in the end. ;-; I love him, and losing him just isn't an option. He's happy with me. I know he is, because I changed him from player, to an awesome boyfriend.

[alokesti]

when the guy you like says he likes you but then the week after he
tells you that he gets a girl friend.
heart = broken into a million pieces.

- akita.