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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby APH Italy » Tue Dec 30, 2014 7:30 am

Charli3 wrote:
Charli3 wrote:I like someone I should not like




Can I ask why you feel you shouldnt like her?

We are both girls and she is a bit older than me...


And? My girlfriend and I are both girls
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby SoundAndVision » Tue Dec 30, 2014 9:04 am

Lye wrote:
Charli3 wrote:
Charli3 wrote:I like someone I should not like




Can I ask why you feel you shouldnt like her?

We are both girls and she is a bit older than me...


And? My girlfriend and I are both girls

Everything about it feels right but I know there are others who wouldn't approve of our relationship but I love her very much
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby boat » Tue Dec 30, 2014 9:43 am

      my mom just found out and me and my boyfriend
      and I'm not supposed to date
      ugh, she hasn't said anything yet, but I don't think this will end well
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Dia. » Tue Dec 30, 2014 9:48 am

boat wrote:
      my mom just found out and me and my boyfriend
      and I'm not supposed to date
      ugh, she hasn't said anything yet, but I don't think this will end well


Whatever you do, don't act like a child. Act mature and don't fight with her about it.
The better you handle it, the more likely things will end well for you.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby boat » Tue Dec 30, 2014 9:50 am

Dia. wrote:Whatever you do, don't act like a child. Act mature and don't fight with her about it.
The better you handle it, the more likely things will end well for you.

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Pyrrha Nikos » Tue Dec 30, 2014 11:13 am

Charli3 wrote:Everything about it feels right but I know there are others who wouldn't approve of our relationship but I love her very much

And?? Why should it matter what everyone else thinks? It doesn't involve them. The best advice I ever got was: "Don't worry about everyone else because it's all about us."
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Casistrophic » Tue Dec 30, 2014 11:17 am

Charli3 wrote:
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How many years older is she, and what stage of schooling are you in?

I'd rather not give out her age But I myself am about to begin my highschool yeah but technicly I was in high school last year (I went over to to the high school buildings for most of my classes and those classes showed up on my report card and I did their testing )


Can you give an approximate age that this person is? Because there's a big difference in the advice I would give if you are a 14-15 year old wanting to date someone in high school vs. if you are crushing on a person who is in their 20s.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby SoundAndVision » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:29 pm

Casistrophic wrote:
Charli3 wrote:
Casistrophic wrote:
How many years older is she, and what stage of schooling are you in?

I'd rather not give out her age But I myself am about to begin my highschool yeah but technicly I was in high school last year (I went over to to the high school buildings for most of my classes and those classes showed up on my report card and I did their testing )


Can you give an approximate age that this person is? Because there's a big difference in the advice I would give if you are a 14-15 year old wanting to date someone in high school vs. if you are crushing on a person who is in their 20s.

Imma get killed and problem have to hear a long threads from someone about the age difference but she is... 47...
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Casistrophic » Tue Dec 30, 2014 1:35 pm

Charli3 wrote:
Casistrophic wrote:
Charli3 wrote:I'd rather not give out her age But I myself am about to begin my highschool yeah but technicly I was in high school last year (I went over to to the high school buildings for most of my classes and those classes showed up on my report card and I did their testing )


Can you give an approximate age that this person is? Because there's a big difference in the advice I would give if you are a 14-15 year old wanting to date someone in high school vs. if you are crushing on a person who is in their 20s.

Imma get killed and problem have to hear a long threads from someone about the age difference but she is... 47...


I'm sorry, but a relationship with someone in there early teens and someone who is pushing 50 is never going to happen. Both of you being the same sex has absolutely nothing to do with it. You know that it's wrong, you know that people are going to tell you it's wrong, and a mature person would not wave that off with an "I don't want to hear it."

You need to move on from these feelings. You have a crush, it will pass. But don't go looking for advice online and then lie to get people to validate your feelings. And yes, leaving out the size of the age difference was a lie--that was a HUGE omission.
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