Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[miko.]

I know he won't text me for my birthday tomorrow. I know that. But I know it will make me utterly sad. ;n

I know that feel ;-;
Didn't even wish me a merry christmas
;-;
*sobs in the corner*

[Julia]

I know he won't text me for my birthday tomorrow. I know that. But I know it will make me utterly sad. ;n

I know that feel ;-;
Didn't even wish me a merry christmas
;-;
*sobs in the corner*

Same here. ;n: *hugs
I wonder if he even thinks about me. I always feel like the men I love become the center of my life and I'm just a small little redundant person in their life. ;n;

[JustDucky]

I know he won't text me for my birthday tomorrow. I know that. But I know it will make me utterly sad. ;n

I know that feel ;-;
Didn't even wish me a merry christmas
;-;
*sobs in the corner*

Same here. ;n: *hugs
I wonder if he even thinks about me. I always feel like the men I love become the center of my life and I'm just a small little redundant person in their life. ;n;

My boyfriend keeps telling me he's going to come see me, but always ends up being busy. He's called me every day this winter break, though. He even wished me a merry Christmas at twelve in the morning Christmas day. He's been so busy he didn't even get me a present. I understand he's been busy, and he was grounded, though. He says he's going to give me money for Christmas, but I don't want his money. He even offered to pay my phone bill for forever. I love him, though. I can't stay mad at him.
Sometimes I wonder if he even thinks about me. I guess I'll never know.

[SoundAndVision]

I like someone I should not like

Can I ask why you feel you shouldnt like her?

We are both girls and she is a bit older than me...

[Medusa72]

Okay so, I haven't had my first kiss (or first boyfriend ;n;) yet and I was wondering, how was your first kiss?

It was a normal day at Pre-K, my teacher saw potential in me, she started me on spelling before any of the other kids.
A certain boy (we'll call him Jim) was much cuter than all the other boys there. So automatically he was mine. ( .) So my much younger and overly ambitious self made my "feelings" known by kissing him right on the lips. I later wrote on my finger painting "I love Jim". (Which actually got me in trouble because my teacher tattled on me to my mom )

I know these don't usually count, but I still consider him my first kiss/boyfriend because at the time, that's how my mind registered him.

I did a similar thing when I was younger!
I had a huge crush on this boy in preschool, and so did my best friend, and we sort of competed over him 24/7. He ended up liking me back, and I told my mom how much I liked him and got in trouble because I was 'too young for that' haha

And then, when I started grade school (kindergarten) and no longer had class with him, I got a new crush and he kissed me on the cheek during story time. Our teacher yelled at us and we got yellow cards (it was a way of punishment openly displayed to the class: green meant you were a good student, yellow was a warning, and red was a call home/going to the principal's office. It was very embarrassing to get anything but green, though we put up with it). He used to come over during play time when I was building with blocks and help me make huge towers before we knocked them down together, it was so cute!

Man I was a player back then.. a new crush every 6 months or so.
I changed so much as I've gotten older, still no boyfriends or kisses (on the lips x3)

Same here! I went through so many boys in Pre-K and kindergarten! And I didn't see Jim anymore as I advanced through school.

And you don't need to explain the color card system to me. I pretty much always had a yellow card in my pocket file. My teacher always threatened to change it to red but never did.

I actually saw Jim a little while back we have a mutual guy friend (I'll call him Bro) who lives out of town and was visiting and kept inviting me to his reunions with Jim. Bro knows of my kissing and past liking of Jim, and back when I was in middle school I had Bro ask Jim if he remembered me so I guess Bro thinks I still might like him. Bro ' s sister (my age) and another friend of ours went and crashed his reunion with Jim and my actual brother (Bro's age). And Bro literally called me out in front of Jim and his parents,
"You could date any of those girls, " Bro said even though Jim had a girl there with him who hadn't whispered a single word the entire time.
Jim shook his head no, yet as we all went to play laser tag Jim attempted a brief conversation with me. So I'm pretty sure he remembers me very well.

Anyways, there's just a funny story for ya. Because Bro thinks we should date each other now. But that's a NO. LOL!

[Julia]

My boyfriend keeps telling me he's going to come see me, but always ends up being busy. He's called me every day this winter break, though. He even wished me a merry Christmas at twelve in the morning Christmas day. He's been so busy he didn't even get me a present. I understand he's been busy, and he was grounded, though. He says he's going to give me money for Christmas, but I don't want his money. He even offered to pay my phone bill for forever. I love him, though. I can't stay mad at him.
Sometimes I wonder if he even thinks about me. I guess I'll never know.

My past boyfriends were the same when it came to presents. ;n: I don't want money, expensive things or necklaces and bracelets and stuff like that. I want a rose and a letter with 3-4 sentences about what he loves about me or anything. I've never met a boy who would even think about gifting me something like that.

I would be pretty mad and rather have nothing than his money. But on the other hand, some people just don't value and don't care about gifts or anything.I love generous and kind people, with big smiles and a shining heart. I hate greedy or avaricious people.

I'd try to talk to him! Say a little more clearly what you want and need. Maybe something else happened in his life. There is always time for a few nice words and a little present - I think. Talk to him when you see him next time. He is important to you and you are important to him. I know how you're feeling, even if it doesn't help at all ;n

[Mari_hadalittlelamb]

No one said long-distance would be easy, but dear god I never imagined it to be this hard.

He lives over a thousand miles away, and I'd give anything to see him. I don't have much relationship experience (I've probably had 3 boyfriends in my entire 15 years of existence) and I worry that will be what ends this. I haven't even had my first kiss yet....

Sometimes just the thought of him makes my heart seem like it'll crack in two, considering he doesn't live here the only way we can communicate is through Facebook and Skype, so this days where we fail to talk just.. kill me on the inside.

I trust him..of course I do, I just worry he'll wake up on day and find someone else...someone prettier, smarter, and nearer to him. He's the longest relationship I've had and he's just different from past relationships, so different..but a good different.

I'm just blubbering now, but if anyone wants to PM me so I could just explain more, I'd appreciate it so much.

[JustDucky]

My boyfriend keeps telling me he's going to come see me, but always ends up being busy. He's called me every day this winter break, though. He even wished me a merry Christmas at twelve in the morning Christmas day. He's been so busy he didn't even get me a present. I understand he's been busy, and he was grounded, though. He says he's going to give me money for Christmas, but I don't want his money. He even offered to pay my phone bill for forever. I love him, though. I can't stay mad at him.
Sometimes I wonder if he even thinks about me. I guess I'll never know.

My past boyfriends were the same when it came to presents. ;n: I don't want money, expensive things or necklaces and bracelets and stuff like that. I want a rose and a letter with 3-4 sentences about what he loves about me or anything. I've never met a boy who would even think about gifting me something like that.

I would be pretty mad and rather have nothing than his money. But on the other hand, some people just don't value and don't care about gifts or anything.I love generous and kind people, with big smiles and a shining heart. I hate greedy or avaricious people.

I'd try to talk to him! Say a little more clearly what you want and need. Maybe something else happened in his life. There is always time for a few nice words and a little present - I think. Talk to him when you see him next time. He is important to you and you are important to him. I know how you're feeling, even if it doesn't help at all ;n

I know his life is a mess. He has to pay bills, his wrecked car off, and food. He lives in foster care, so his foster parents aren't nice. Like I said he wrecked his car. I sometimes give him rides to work, but I can't always do that. He usually walks.
He said he wanted to get me roses, and a huge teddy bear, but all I wanted was a simple hug, and kiss. I am definitely not the romantic type.

[Casistrophic]

I like someone I should not like

Can I ask why you feel you shouldnt like her?

We are both girls and she is a bit older than me...

How many years older is she, and what stage of schooling are you in?

[SoundAndVision]

I like someone I should not like

Can I ask why you feel you shouldnt like her?

We are both girls and she is a bit older than me...

How many years older is she, and what stage of schooling are you in?

I'd rather not give out her age But I myself am about to begin my highschool yeah but technicly I was in high school last year (I went over to to the high school buildings for most of my classes and those classes showed up on my report card and I did their testing )