Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Keletheryl]

So, today I walked my puppy over to the pet store and I ended up talking with this cute guy who worked there. We really hit it off but the problem is that I don't know how old he is! He was talking about his mom so he can't be that old, but I'm only 16 and you have to be 18 or older to work there, and I figured he must be at least 19 if he's still talking about his mom in the way he was (like he still lived with her) and I dunno... Erp. Any advice on what to do in this all-confusing situation?

[jayus]

*squishes in sideways*
Um... So I like this one guy, Nathan. He may like me back, I'm not sure.
We talk, laugh, totally relaxed and happy around each other. Obviously that's not the problem.
The problems is that there are other males in the world.
And 4 of them like me, making it an awkward love... Heptagon?
Two guys told people I know that they had crushes on me. I have a way of prying things out of people.
One asked me out.
Another tries to impress me every single time I talk to him.
So they're all crushing on me and then I'm over here mooning after this one guy that I don't even know if he likes me back.
Advice?...

[catgirl9900]

hi everyone! i have a small problem and i was bored so i guess i will share it with you all:3 theres this guy whos really great and i have a crush on him. the problem is hes been flirting with this other girl a bunch lately and its getting a bit annoying becuase me and him like each other and shes starting to slowly break up our relarinship:( another problem; that girls my best friend!!!:(
any tips or suggestions would help tons!! Thanks!!

[kafka]

hi everyone! i have a small problem and i was bored so i guess i will share it with you all:3 theres this guy whos really great and i have a crush on him. the problem is hes been flirting with this other girl a bunch lately and its getting a bit annoying becuase me and him like each other and shes starting to slowly break up our relarinship:( another problem; that girls my best friend!!!:(
any tips or suggestions would help tons!! Thanks!!

First of all, you guys aren't in a relationship, I'm guessing? Having "crushes" on each other doesn't actually count. So he can actually flirt with who he wants, meaning that your best friend isn't trying to annoy you on purpose, and your crush isn't either. Sometimes, for situations like these, there is nothing you can do, because they don't know it's annoying you, and you can't tell them because it's not like you guys are even in a relationship either.

[catgirl9900]

we are we've been in a relationship for about 2 months now sorry i didnt make that clear enough:)

[ojoku]

Posted this a page ago, but it's really starting to bother me... any help or should I just wing it?
My friend and his girlfriend recently broke up. He's getting all the dirt about her he can. I don't know what he's up to, but it makes me nervous since I'm friends with them both. They fight over who I like more sometimes and I can't say anything because they shut me up to start fighting again. Is there anything I can say to him so he understands that it's over and that revenge on her, whether it's spreading rumors or just knowing those things, isn't going to be as sweet as he imagines it?

[underland.]

Somebody explain to me how friends can be such d-bags? Every time a guy likes me, that's at least more to my liking, one of my jerk face friends always say that one of my other buddies like him and that it would be so wrong for me to like god forbid date him! Like please can't she get over it she was snogging your brother last week! But anyways, I've been dating my M for six months and my friends are still on my case about how I "stole" him from my best friend E who actually thinks we look quite cute together and adores being with her boyfriend of TWO YEARS!!!! She even documents every relationship milestone with me and my M in a bloody scrapbook! Somebody please tell me how to get them off me and M's back cause they're in fact effecting our relationships to the point where date night is now in the house as never a nice dinner anymore cause they grill us the next day.

Edit #1: @catgirl9900 have you tried talking to your friend about how you feel? Or what you think is going on? I've had problems with my friends, obviously^ jerk faces, but my best friend E and I have helped each other through so many relationships we could write a book about it but we gad a situation like this we not only me but a friend of her boyfriend. She and I actually sat down and she told me she felt like I was flirting with her boyfriend and I realized how she felt and why she had been upset with me. And I fixed the problem. We're still besties and they're still together

Edit #2: @BoardToTheEnd I'd say wing it I have no advice for that except for try to help your guy friend realize its over between him and the girl and that there's nothing that could change that and revenge want feel as great as he thinks. If he does pull something on his ex try to help her through it.

[Aloaei]

Somebody explain to me how friends can be such d-bags? Every time a guy likes me, that's at least more to my liking, one of my jerk face friends always say that one of my other buddies like him and that it would be so wrong for me to like god forbid date him! Like please can't she get over it she was snogging your brother last week! But anyways, I've been dating my M for six months and my friends are still on my case about how I "stole" him from my best friend E who actually thinks we look quite cute together and adores being with her boyfriend of TWO YEARS!!!! She even documents every relationship milestone with me and my M in a bloody scrapbook! Somebody please tell me how to get them off me and M's back cause they're in fact effecting our relationships to the point where date night is now in the house as never a nice dinner anymore cause they grill us the next day.

Honestly, I would have an upright talk with them. I mean its YOUR relationshop....NOT theirs. And if your friend has been with her own bf for 2 years!! Thats crazy, she should be over the guy your dating by now..I mean if shes been dating this other guy for 2 years, holy cow! I mean she's got to really love this new guy right?! She shouldn't give a care about your guys's relationship.

[cautiousculpeo]

Ok, well my friend Nayr wont leave me alone... He keeps flirting with me and bla... so anyways. I was facebooking my friend Nitsud and this was our message.

Me: Bla.... Nayr keeps flirting with me... And idk what to do, can you help me?
Him: I have one idea that will make him stop. You and me pretend to date.
Me(Thinking): What! Are you insane! How do you.. What?!
Me: Um... 1. No, I don't want to lie, 2. I told him I didn't want to date anyone.
Him: Oh.. Ok, well, it could work
Me: No thanks, but thanks bro. Im happy where besties. haha
Him: Thanks

Oh no.. Not again... After he was all like... flirty and cute again.. noooo.....

[Exia]

Posted this a page ago, but it's really starting to bother me... any help or should I just wing it?
My friend and his girlfriend recently broke up. He's getting all the dirt about her he can. I don't know what he's up to, but it makes me nervous since I'm friends with them both. They fight over who I like more sometimes and I can't say anything because they shut me up to start fighting again. Is there anything I can say to him so he understands that it's over and that revenge on her, whether it's spreading rumors or just knowing those things, isn't going to be as sweet as he imagines it?

Honestly, if this was happening between my friends, I would just tell them both outright that I don't like the fact that they're fighting over who I like better. I would tell them both that they're being silly, and if they can't act like adults and come to some sort of agreement soon, I won't be speaking to either of them that much.


Of course that's just me and I realize that depending on your friends personalities this could be a bad choice.