Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[briny]

Hello. I'm in a bit of a dead end, I think. So, I have a crush(maybe even a bit more than that?) on my best guy friend and he knows that I like him(To my knowledge). But you see the thing is, is that 1)he likes flirting with almost every girl he sees. It's only playful though and he doesn't do it when he's in a relationship. 2)His best friend might like me. 3)I don't consider my self any gender technically. I'm scared that because of some of these things he'll only consider me to be a 'best bro'. But what really confuses me is that when we are at the pool together, we will have these moments where he'll only focus on me. Agfhtgrfetghf. He even pointed out that the birthmark(A large patch of skin on my leg that is almost unnoticeably discolored from the rest of my leg) on my leg was cool, but I personally don't care for it. And the thing that makes me frustrated is that most of the girls that like him don't know him like I do. Which also makes me more worried that I'm closer to the 'best bro' than the 'being in a relationship' mark. So, should I just face facts and just accept that all we are is friends or do you think I should keep trying with him? Maybe I should just find someone else that doesn't also come with a posse of girls .-.

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[thє dσctσr]

Gahhh♥ today was amazing. I was with Collin (my crush) and we kissed. ♥ I've never been this happy before♥♥

[kay.]

Living life till fullest, packing sweets into gob, climbing trees (Desperate attempt to get alone), sobbing and listening to Adele songs I told my BFF about my crush on Robbie, she took it better than expected. She's not the reason for my behaviour. I have 2 stressful reasons for that:

I decided I will either tell Robbie how I feel on the last hour of Prom, although we still have 5 school days before we split up for holidays. I might tell him on last week if it doesn't work on Prom. Either way, I'll tell him sooner or later, since my bud knows she'll help me. I told her to hold me as I'll bolt as soon as I am before him to say the words. This has been making me stressed, making me act like that.

Second explanation, 2 weeks to go and I'll probably never see my friends ever again, although above them, I'm tearing up at the thought I'll never see my Robbie again... I cry everytime when I think of it, I wish I could pause time and rewind. But I can't, split up creeping closer with each day.

I will miss you forever Robbie, you'll know that when the time comes <3

[Rated R]

so, my crush and i hadn't talked in a while, i think mainly because we didn't know what to say to each other, and since we are both in the U.S. of A, and today in the fourth of july, i decided that i could text him first, since he had texted me first last time.

we talk a bit, catching up and then i say a joke, lemme type out our convo;;

me - have you heard the joke about the liberty bell?
him - nope, go for it
me - i've heard it - it cracked me up :3
him - hahahaha
him - nice one.
me - thank you, my goal is to make people smile : )
him - hahaha, well i think you're scoring that goal
him - (soccer joke requirement for the 4th has been completed :3)
me - hahaha, you know how to make someone laugh.
him - we aim to please : D
me - well, you can make someone laugh
me - i think people laugh at me 'cause i'm awkward
him - hahaha, no way velcro legs
me - you're tigger-ific, winnie
him - hahaha, you just had to bring that up, didn't you?

lemme explain, i told him like at least a month or more ago that i had a horseback riding nickname "velcro legs" because i can stay on horses despite bad behavior. he still calls me that and the fact that he remembers is great xD
my nickname for him is winnie the pooh, and so i decided to say that to him.
asdfghjkl, i can't tell if he thinks of us as more than friends, but i don't want to ask over text.

edit; he asked when i was coming to his city so we could hang out
and i told him near my birthday, which is true, and he said he's going to start planning :3.
asdfghjkl, people are confusing sometimes.

[cautiousculpeo]

Meep... How do you tell If a guy likes you...

My friend Nitsud swears he dosent... But his constant flirting tells me something else. He did like me before, and he told me he liked me like a best friend now. I'm happy that he dosent jaw feelings for me anymore, but he still flirts with me... Help?

[Venneris]

Single.

And surprisingly happy c:

I don't know if I have much else to say here, but I know that I won't be interested in dating for much longer. I guess I just have to wait. I don't think my age is really a good one for starting to have a serious relationship...

[greysilence]

@RatedR: I definitely have to agree that people are confusing. I would have to say that he considers you as at least a close friend. He might have a crush on you. I'm not sure whether he sees you as a close friend or anything more. (sorry, that was a pretty lame answer)

@~ThreeDaysGrace~: It mainly depends on the guy. Most guys flirt differently and show how they like someone in different ways. He might just be a very flirtatious person. He could also still like you. The only one that will honestly know is him.

@WhisperingDeath: There's nothing wrong with being single at all. Sometimes, it's a heck of a lot less drama. If you're happy, then good for you. Everyone has different maturity levels, and everyone feels ready for serious relationships at a different age. However, if you're in high school or even lower, I would say try to focus on school a bit more than relationships. You've got many more years to get things serious, and after high school a lot of things will change. It's best to just wait things out. However, there's nothing wrong with having a serious relationship before graduating high school. Like I said, it depends on the maturity of the person.

Sorry everyone, my advice is pretty lame. >.<

EDIT: Also, anyone can PM me whenever they want advice, and I'll do my best.

[areadbhar]

I can't see my crush because school's out. I miss him.

[cautiousculpeo]

Hm, he totally ignores other girls... Like flirting wise. Him and my other friend pinned me down and tickled me for twenty minutes just to hear me laugh... Idk if that's flirting or not... But he does in general too, ie. Taking Sprocket my fox pelt and wearing it like a scarf. When he talks to me etc.

[Keletheryl]

So, today I walked my puppy over to the pet store and I ended up talking with this cute guy who worked there. We really hit it off but the problem is that I don't know how old he is! He was talking about his mom so he can't be that old, but I'm only 16 and you have to be 18 or older to work there, and I figured he must be at least 19 if he's still talking about his mom in the way he was (like he still lived with her) and I dunno... Erp. Any advice on what to do in this all-confusing situation?