Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[surfiez]

But tonight was the best! After he asked me we held hands and ice skated ❤️ I knew it was going to happen tonight I have that moment replaying over and over again in my head

[Cartier]

Alright thanks.

[riptide .]

i got a problem ;~;

so i like this guy that is a year older than me, and he already *had\has* a girlfriend. they are both on the gymnastics team, and gymnastics is basically their life. heck, i'm only in offseason track. they broke up not too long ago, and they still have a lovey dovey vibe... he rides my bus, and I've known him for 1 or 2 years.. hes a little bit of a trouble maker, and i told my friend that also rides my bus, that i liked him. i want to tell him that i feel something special for him, without having to talk much or to get on the bad side of his ex ( which i think he still likes ) i don't think he likes me, but i just want him to know. he is someone i can trust, and i feel that i should tell him this in a smooth quiet way... without it being too embarrassing... and i'm aware of there isn't very many ways to do that, but i need to know! <:c

help? ;~:

[Kim Jongdae]

Alright I never posted in this thread before, but...
aaah he said Merry Christmas to me ;-;
Im super happy, but Im sure Im taking it too deeply and it probably meant nothing more than a sincere Merry Christmas, but aahh ;-;
I dunno, hes like super cute, smart, but he is kind of a foreigner (like just came to america a while ago from korea) so he doesnt understand English's most complex phrases. But I want to say something, but I dont want to say it outright that I like him ;-; The struggles *Flops*
#ObviouslyILoveThisGuy #IDontHaveTheGutsThough

[kafka]

i got a problem ;~;

so i like this guy that is a year older than me, and he already *had\has* a girlfriend. they are both on the gymnastics team, and gymnastics is basically their life. heck, i'm only in offseason track. they broke up not too long ago, and they still have a lovey dovey vibe... he rides my bus, and I've known him for 1 or 2 years.. hes a little bit of a trouble maker, and i told my friend that also rides my bus, that i liked him. i want to tell him that i feel something special for him, without having to talk much or to get on the bad side of his ex ( which i think he still likes ) i don't think he likes me, but i just want him to know. he is someone i can trust, and i feel that i should tell him this in a smooth quiet way... without it being too embarrassing... and i'm aware of there isn't very many ways to do that, but i need to know! <:c

help? ;~:

You should definitely tell him, even if you think he doesn't like you back. Nothing bad can come from admitting your feelings! As for how, you can pull him aside sometime, or sit next to him on the bus maybe? You could always give him a note if you feel like you can't speak.

I wish you the best of luck!

[Bluemare40]

AHHHH I just had the best night ever! ❤️❤️ So I finally chose out of the two guys who I like the most. Anyway we were talking all day and we went ice skating with a bunch of friends. So towards the end I found out that he liked me from his sister and I kinda knew but this was like really good news. Anyway we were both scared to make the first move but I finally confronted him and asked him if he liked me. I he said he did and I said I did and then he asked me to be his girlfriend! Such a good night ❤️ We held hands and hugged ahhh such an amazing night that I will never forget

Awww how sweet! That sounds like you had a great time, I'm happy for you! I hope everything continues to be this great for you!

[Bluemare40]

I don't even know what to do anymore.

I have a huge crush on this guy at my school, but there's so many reasons I can't ask him out, even if I wanted to.
I've known him since middle school and have had a crush on him since.
We had a class together last year, but this year we... had none.
Even then, we'd pass each-other between classes and he'd occasionally glance at me or completely stop speaking at his friends and start staring. I can only assume that he was being playful, and nothing more.
We only spoke twice that year, because I was shy AND because it wasn't 'right' for our cliques to mix. Some did, just because they were what I'd like to call 'Superior' to everyone else in the group. A lot of girls in that group had a crush on him as well, but it didn't seem like he paid them any attention.
Once, he did that thing where we backed into a corner and he put one arm against the wall so he was leaning over me, but he only asked if I liked a certain type of music. I gave him an answer, and he nodded, said that he liked the band as well, and walked off.
Recently, school has been a huge stress for me so I've been trying to forget about him. And then, boom. I'm in Independent Studies. I didn't even get to say goodbye, even though it was my choice and I knew that it was my last day. So now the only way I can even 'speak' to him is through friends, and I never see them. He's on my mind all day, and I just can't help it. I feel so lost, and somewhat depressed because of my own acts. I knew I couldn't be with him anyway because he was the type to ask someone out even when he was still in a relationship, and I knew he had several girl's phone numbers.. Only 2 of my closest friends know that I have a crush on him, but I haven't spoken to either of them since I left. He's the type that your parents wouldn't want you to be with. I guess you can say he's a 'bad boy' but I can't help it. Gah... What do I do? I've debated going back but I know that I'll just end up back where I am, ignored and depressed. Not only by him, but by my 'friends' too. Life is so confusing...

Hiya!
*WARNING I RAMBLE A LOT IN THS *
Okay... so it seems like I can semi-relate to this situation because I actually don't really get to see my crushes, like, ever.. I'm pretty sure I like two guys, we'll just call them Y and Z. (Only reason I say pretty sure is because I may have lost feelings for one of them for no reason and I might think of one as a friend.) So I see Y at my school once in a while, I get to talk to him once in a while also. I honestly am so confused why I like him, he is really nice and funny but is older than me. (Not by a crazy amount like 20 years or something haha just a bit though.) And then there's Z. I met Z through a radio recording thing, I help produce and record radio, I also have a show. But anyway, I recorded his show one time. (His friend also does the show with him, and Z's brother helped produce w/ me.) So yeah, I like to think I'm friends with all 3 of them (I'm pretty much friends with everybody at the studio .) I remember after they finished their show I had to wait maybe 10-15ish minutes for my ride. So all 4 of us sat and talked about random stuff. (A lot about video games and Youtubers.) Idk... I'm not sure if I think of Z as a friend or if I like him. I just felt... idk... well, crushy feelings I guess. I don't think I realized it until after talking with him. I actually listened to a few of his shows just for the heck of it. He is a really smart kid, also he has a fairly sarcastic sense of humor. I mean I think it's a minor crush... but yeah.

Anyway, enough about my life. My point is.... I know that it's really hard not getting to see your crush. Before Y and Z I had two other crushes. They went to my old school. I used to think about them a lot. But then, after being separated from them, I stopped thinking about them entirely. I never thought it'd stop. The one was a childhood friend, but he didn't pay much attention to me so I just kind of stopped liking him. The next was extremely talented and nice, but he liked another girl, so I stopped liking him too. (Wow, I'm super ramble-y today aren't I )

If you ever see him through friends, talk to him and be as friendly as possible. Then, if you ever want to, you could maybe ask him on a date. It doesn't have to be complicated, it could be something easy like going to the mall together, or maybe getting ice cream or something! If you want to get over him, it's okay, if you don't that's totally fine too!

So... if you don't see him that much, it'll be easier to get over him. (I know it seems really difficult, but it's okay, it happens.) There are plenty of other people out there to like :3 And, if it is meant to be (because you never really know), then your paths will cross again.

I hope I helped in some way, and if want to talk again feel free to do so!
Best wishes, and Merry Christmas!
~Bluemare

[amethyst,]

ahh, the anxiety. i might be going to my boyfriend's house today for a christmas eve party with his family.

my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year and a half, so i'm very comfortable with his family that lives in his house (i practically live at his house). the thing is, i've only ever met some of his more distant family once. they were super nice, but now i might meet even more of his distant relatives, and i'm worried they won't like me or something or that they'll judge me. i mean, i know i can do a pretty good job of being nice, charming, and likable, but i'm still worried. i don't even have social anxiety or anything. stupid brain, psyching me out.

[Solarize]

@ solarize

Hey there. DO NOT feel obligated to like someone because they like you back. If you simply do no like this boy, then he can deal with it. You do not have to feel bad for not liking someone. People do things like that end up getting abused. You decide who you want to go out with. Not him. Explain to him that you do not like him. You need to say that you are not interested. If he pressures you anymore, tell him to bug off.

@ amethyst,

Congrats! Here's to another happy rest of the year!
And that's so sweet of you. I'm sure he will love them.

@ besy

Have you tried asking him out?

@beebs

What a nice story! Remember, an argument here and there are good for you. Especially if it's on stupid things. I'm glad you two are happy together and hopefully will continue to be.

I guess i'm just scared I'll hurt him and he wont talk to me at all, because I do like having him as a friend. But thanks, I will try and talk to him properly about everything. c:

[narwhallama]

My crush talked to me <3 He's been ignoring me for ages because of his other friends, but everyone says he likes me back.. :3