Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[vulture,]

Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling…he loves animals like me and my friends say that he's like a guy version of me XD UPDATE! : spent the day at the surf contest with guy A and he was super funny XD he kept coming over to me and my friends and making us laugh. He saw I was paddling out so he ran with me into the water and we talked the whole paddle out. We are always sarcastic around each other when it comes to surfing and it's really fun! However my friends occasionally catch him looking at me a few times when we are around eachother… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-; I'm pretty sure they both like me but do you think they do? UPDATE! Recently surfed with guy B and had a great time… I also saw him today at school and I noticed an occasional glance at me now and then... His friends also made fun of him when I asked for some paper… they said "guy B will give you some because he loves you!" I don't know if that was a joke or trying to embarrass him... But that's the first time they have said that and we've all sat together for a month now. Just to make sure but do you think they actually like me? Any opinions on this and what should be the next move?
Update
My friends want me to go for guy B but I really like guy A. They told me guy A parties a lot and is all over girls but he treats me so nice and different. I also saw guy B today and we talked until the bell rung and he walked me to my class... When it comes between the two I really want guy A but I know I will probably end up with guy B. Do you think Guy A and Guy B like me? Also what else should I do? I wanna take a step with both of them to see where all of this goes but it seems like I've been stuck in the same place for a little while.

Okay, honey, I'm going to be frank with you here. I have seen your post a bajillion times and your posts asking for advice ten times more. You just need to go for it. You obviously know which one YOU prefer. Don't worry about what others think (unless, of course, they are providing solid reasons. I.e. he's a criminal and does drugs.). Go for who you want to go for. Just tell the one you prefer how you feel. Get it out in the open and see what happens. My boyfriend always tells me I think too much, don't overthink or over analyze things and you will be much happier. There really is no one surefire way to know a guy likes you other than asking them. If you want to see results, then go with your gut, not with what the internet tells you. You aren't getting responses because you are flooding this forum for pointless reasons. People have given you their opinions. If you really want to see results then make a move.

[.MoonShy.]

My friend (a guy) kinda used me as a rebound last month, he kinda forced his affection on me. Then about 2 weeks ago he made a friend very upset and said some rude things. I told him off and he was acting like he had no soul. Then he told me to stop talking to him, so we did for a week, he apologized and we were friends again. All the emotions that I ever had for him were gone and I think of him as a friend. Now he asked me if I liked chocolates! And he said he wanted to buy me some! HELP! I don't like him and I hate rejecting people (Lat year that failed... He still claims I put him in a depression) What should I done if he ask me out, and I've told my friend (he was there) I DONT WANT TO DATE!

[JustDucky]

I've finally decided on a gift for my boyfriend. A gold chain. Do you think he'll like it?

[thunderofthedrum]

I've finally decided on a gift for my boyfriend. A gold chain. Do you think he'll like it?

Going to be blunt - this is a ridiculous thing to ask a bunch of strangers.
How the heck do you think we would have ANY idea what he would like?
I've met guys that wear jewelry and guys that dislike jewelry. Everyone is different.

I bought my boyfriend a cup. Think he'll like it?
It's the same concept. You don't know me. You don't know my boyfriend. You don't know his interests, what we have talked about, how well we know each other, his style, his preferences regarding material possessions, etc.

YOU are the best judge as to what he will like.
Trust in that.

[Medusa72]

I've known this guy (CM) for about 9 years now, he liked me once, I just thought he was a really good friend. We didn't see each other for about 4 years. Now I've liked him for about 2 years. He's dating someone now, a girl who I've known about the same amount of time. They're both really wonderful people and really cute together. I'm very ready to move on, I don't even see or talk to him anymore we only like each others pics on instagram, I'm barely jealous. I have this sliver of hope though that he'll like me again one day. I'm a bit old fashioned and I don't want to date anyone unless I know he's the one I would want to marry.
Call me crazy, but he's like... that one guy for me. I feel like I can't move on because he's still in the back of my mind. I've become interested in another guy but he's just... not CM
Have you ever watched FRIENDS? I'm the female version of Ross, CM is my male version of Rachel.

*end of rant*

[fowauke]

I've got a question...

I recently moved schools, and its great and all, but there is a guy that seems to really like me, and he's always talking to me and such. But in my old school, I went through a really bad experience with a guy I liked (he crushed me), and I don't want to talk to the new guy not because I don't want to be his friend, but I don't want him to begin to like me more. But when I say it like that, I feel selfish... What should I do? I don't want to hurt his feelings... (I would've asked my friend, but they seem to be going through some stuff right now so... I don't want to bother her with my problems...)

[-Glass Wolf-]

There's a guy that likes my friend and I love him I know I should tell him but I don't know how I can't just say I love you I'm scared

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[thunderofthedrum]

I've known this guy (CM) for about 9 years now, he liked me once, I just thought he was a really good friend. We didn't see each other for about 4 years. Now I've liked him for about 2 years. He's dating someone now, a girl who I've known about the same amount of time. They're both really wonderful people and really cute together. I'm very ready to move on, I don't even see or talk to him anymore we only like each others pics on instagram, I'm barely jealous. I have this sliver of hope though that he'll like me again one day. I'm a bit old fashioned and I don't want to date anyone unless I know he's the one I would want to marry.
Call me crazy, but he's like... that one guy for me. I feel like I can't move on because he's still in the back of my mind. I've become interested in another guy but he's just... not CM
Have you ever watched FRIENDS? I'm the female version of Ross, CM is my male version of Rachel.

*end of rant*

Just a comment about something you said. I personally disagree about dating only people you might marry. Sure that may be the end goal, but I feel that dating is the way you see how you fit with someone and see if marriage could be a possibility. If you come to the conclusion that it's not, then okay, break up and start seeing other people. That happened to me. We didn't want the same things, I didn't feel we were compatible enough, and he wanted marriage while I knew I didn't want that with him. Now I'm with someone who also likes the idea of marrying me but in this case, I feel very compatible with him, communication between us is great, we care about each other immensely, and yes - I feel pretty serious about him too. Our values are more in sync and we have the same concept of right and wrong. He's a nerd and I'm weird and we feel completely comfortable with each other. :3

There's a guy that likes my friend and I love him I know I should tell him but I don't know how I cat just say I love you I'm scared

I agree that you should not say you love him. Love is a very strong word and may make him feel surprised or even uncomfortable. I would suggest starting with something smaller, like asking if he wants to hang out or saying you like him. I know you may feel about ready to burst with feelings but be gentle and realistic if you can; start small with him and see how it goes!

Note - just because you like someone A LOT does not necessarily mean you love them. I've always felt that people jump to 'love' a little too quickly, but perhaps that's just me. I take the word 'love' very seriously.

Also - that blue really hurts my eyes. Just a heads up, I don't even read posts in colors like that. Only read yours because the coding was wrong. For the love of Merlin please don't use colors like that if you hope to get a response.

[-Glass Wolf-]

Thank you thunderofthedrum I know it is bright lol

But ya I guess you would say that I jumped to love because I didn't tell you the story about knowing him for a really long time but he played violin and his are will it broke and he can never play again I give him music and hang out with him but he seems to like my friend better

But ya this will help me thank you

[kotalicious]

So there is this boy that I've been talking to for a while now. He confessed that he liked me a few weeks ago. I told him that I didn't like him that way, or at least don't right now. He was very understanding and said he didn't care because he was willing to wait for me and even if I never liked him he would still be fine. He says he just wants me to be happy no matter what my choice is. I've actually started to have feelings for him, not enough to date him yet but they're still there. I wouldn't mind dating him if my feelings grow, but I'm slightly cautious. He used to be a really bad boy, cheating and all that kind of stuff. He's stopped that now, but I'm not so sure he won't start again. He is also my older sister's ex boyfriend. She broke up with him so I didn't see a problem in me liking it but she does. She doesn't want me to like him because she will feel awkward. I personally think that's rather selfish but she's still my sister and I don't want to anger her. My mother also does not approve. She doesn't know how much he has changed and how much he genuinely cares about me. I just don't know what to do.