Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Pyrrha Nikos]

I think it's so cute when two people really like each other, but are both too shy to do anything about it so they end up just acting like a couple. And everyone around them can tell that they like each other, and keep thinking that they are dating. I guess for some reason I find it really adorable :3

Edit: I got my boyfriend a Yanma plushie, since that is one of his favorite pokemon hehe

[Medusa72]

there's this person (who i will call B) who i seriously think is interested in me. so, B is always trying to get my attention by dancing (????) and for example if i am stapling a paper and he is stapling one too, he will be all like "THERE WE GO! ALL STAPLED!" and another thing is B stares at me. a lot. at least 3 times a day i've caught B staring at me. . at lunch i was sitting with my friend and i glanced over and great sweet potato i have never seen someone stare at me like that. lastly, B is always around me. like if i get up to go do something he either stares or gets up too. i have no clue if it's just B's personality (I've only known of B's existence for like 6 months) or what i think it is? adive? and no; i do not like B.

I've actually been in this exact same situation. You don't necessarily like him, and you don't know what kind if person he is, yet he's nice and makes it obvious he likes you.
Here's the thing, if you want to get to know who he is as a person with the possibility of starting a friendship: ask him for his number.
If you want to get that creeper to stop staring and liking you, give him the cold shoulder.

[LePuppy]

If a guy { let's say someone called Matt } teases you and sometimes makes fun of you, not in a jokey way, but just to look cool, then he will normal talk to you after, is he showing affection or what, I'm confused, read my SIG X'D

[Pyrrha Nikos]

If a guy { let's say someone called Matt } teases you and sometimes makes fun of you, not in a jokey way, but just to look cool, then he will normal talk to you after, is he showing affection or what, I'm confused, read my SIG X'D

I hate that. Normally, I would say it could be an age thing, but if he is doing it to 'look cool' then I doubt it. He is just being rude. If that is happening, and it hurts your feelings don't tolerate it. It's not cute, it's not attractive-at all. Teasing isn't meant to make somebody feel bad, if he is doing that then talk to him about it. If he is doing it 'just to look cool' then I would not pay him any attention. He is obviously too obsessed about his appearance to other people to care whether or not he is hurting you. Don't let him treat you one way and then another when he feels like it. I would say no, no affection there. And even if there were, I wouldn't go for it. Because he is being purposefully mean to 'look cool'. Which, isn't cool.

[Clifford95]

Can someone that gives good advice please pm me? I have a few questions about my crush and relationship stuff...even though he is transferring schools at the end of the semester. Thanks.

[Medusa72]

If a guy { let's say someone called Matt } teases you and sometimes makes fun of you, not in a jokey way, but just to look cool, then he will normal talk to you after, is he showing affection or what, I'm confused, read my SIG X'D

Maybe he likes you and just has self image issues and doesn't want to be teased about liking someone.
Honestly, I think asking him to stop would be a waste of your time, because he probably just likes getting a rise out of you.
Maybe tease him back? (But in a joking manner.) That's probably how I would handle it. Shock him by playing his game.
Then again that might be a bad idea. XD It's up to you.

[ardentsongbird]

Well... my boyfriend broke up with me. As soon as he did, he began dating this girl he was interested in during our realationship. And, I hated her before me and N ((my boyfriend)) began dating. Then, she acts all innocent. I can't stand it. I nearly cried in my next class after he told me.
But, I can't say I didn't expect it. He had ignored me a lot today, and it was blankly obvious he was interested in this other girl. I backed off, thinking he wanted space for a bit. Nope, he cheated.
I was invited to his party he was having on the 3rd of January, and I don't even think he wants me to go anymore. Such as, in the hallway today, he went from a smile to a straight face. As if he though I would act negitivly towards him. I'm not that girl that hates their ex for no reason. How hard is it for me to become friends with N again? He acts like we aren't friends anymore, just because he is my ex. I dunno... N is my first boyfriend, and I never expirenced such heartbreak. Maybe I shouldn't be so vulnerable..

[melonzz]

Well... my boyfriend broke up with me. As soon as he did, he began dating this girl he was interested in during our realationship. And, I hated her before me and N ((my boyfriend)) began dating. Then, she acts all innocent. I can't stand it. I nearly cried in my next class after he told me.
But, I can't say I didn't expect it. He had ignored me a lot today, and it was blankly obvious he was interested in this other girl. I backed off, thinking he wanted space for a bit. Nope, he cheated.
I was invited to his party he was having on the 3rd of January, and I don't even think he wants me to go anymore. Such as, in the hallway today, he went from a smile to a straight face. As if he though I would act negitivly towards him. I'm not that girl that hates their ex for no reason. How hard is it for me to become friends with N again? He acts like we aren't friends anymore, just because he is my ex. I dunno... N is my first boyfriend, and I never expirenced such heartbreak. Maybe I shouldn't be so vulnerable..

awh): i'm sorry. sometimes it's just them, not you.

but you're not vulnerable, and it's okay to cry over it- it's like they say, we're only human & we bleed when we fall down.

and the guy- he sounds like a jerk...i know you want to stay friends with him, and it kills to not talk to him after everything that's happened, but i think you should stay away from him for some time. you're going to meet other boys, i swear(:

hope this helped, and pm me anytime if you want lol. i'm just really bored and don't feel like typing my essay haha

[ardentsongbird]

Well... my boyfriend broke up with me. As soon as he did, he began dating this girl he was interested in during our realationship. And, I hated her before me and N ((my boyfriend)) began dating. Then, she acts all innocent. I can't stand it. I nearly cried in my next class after he told me.
But, I can't say I didn't expect it. He had ignored me a lot today, and it was blankly obvious he was interested in this other girl. I backed off, thinking he wanted space for a bit. Nope, he cheated.
I was invited to his party he was having on the 3rd of January, and I don't even think he wants me to go anymore. Such as, in the hallway today, he went from a smile to a straight face. As if he though I would act negitivly towards him. I'm not that girl that hates their ex for no reason. How hard is it for me to become friends with N again? He acts like we aren't friends anymore, just because he is my ex. I dunno... N is my first boyfriend, and I never expirenced such heartbreak. Maybe I shouldn't be so vulnerable..

awh): i'm sorry. sometimes it's just them, not you.

but you're not vulnerable, and it's okay to cry over it- it's like they say, we're only human & we bleed when we fall down.

and the guy- he sounds like a jerk...i know you want to stay friends with him, and it kills to not talk to him after everything that's happened, but i think you should stay away from him for some time. you're going to meet other boys, i swear(:

hope this helped, and pm me anytime if you want lol. i'm just really bored and don't feel like typing my essay haha

Right c:
Oh, he's a real sweet-heart. I guess we looked better as friends than we did dating. He was my best guy-friend before we started dating. And, if he wants to be friends again, he'll come to me. I'm not going to bother with him if he won't put the effort to talk to me.
It's weird. I feel kinda... relieved.. To let someone else worry about him for a change..

[surfiez]

Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling…he loves animals like me and my friends say that he's like a guy version of me XD UPDATE! : spent the day at the surf contest with guy A and he was super funny XD he kept coming over to me and my friends and making us laugh. He saw I was paddling out so he ran with me into the water and we talked the whole paddle out. We are always sarcastic around each other when it comes to surfing and it's really fun! However my friends occasionally catch him looking at me a few times when we are around eachother… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-; I'm pretty sure they both like me but do you think they do? UPDATE! Recently surfed with guy B and had a great time… I also saw him today at school and I noticed an occasional glance at me now and then... His friends also made fun of him when I asked for some paper… they said "guy B will give you some because he loves you!" I don't know if that was a joke or trying to embarrass him... But that's the first time they have said that and we've all sat together for a month now. Just to make sure but do you think they actually like me? Any opinions on this and what should be the next move?
Update
My friends want me to go for guy B but I really like guy A. They told me guy A parties a lot and is all over girls but he treats me so nice and different. I also saw guy B today and we talked until the bell rung and he walked me to my class... When it comes between the two I really want guy A but I know I will probably end up with guy B. Do you think Guy A and Guy B like me? Also what else should I do? I wanna take a step with both of them to see where all of this goes but it seems like I've been stuck in the same place for a little while.