Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Kagamemes]

Okay, so this is my first post on this thread and idk if I'm looking for advice or not (It's quite confusing actually lol) So I have a crush on this guy (J) Well to be honest I have only known him since the beginning of the school year (August) and I thought he was cute. My friends really like him and think he's cool, he even asked me to hang out (since he's shy he can't directly say it :3) So as our first hanging out type thing we went to the park and had a great time. Then he asked me to hang out again (Last saturday) we went to this gaming place and we had a fun time. I beat him in some fighting games a couple times and it was great! After like 3 hours of playing we were about to walk out and he held his arms out for a hug. Of course being me I messed it up by doing a weird hug (I don't know how to describe it but it was awkward.) I probably blushed hardcore; after that I waited for my parents and he waited with me, I thought it was really cute. J helps me a lot, I can text him anything and it makes me feel better to talk to him about it :). My friends keep asking me to ask him if we're dating but I think that would be awkward. I don't know how to approach him. . . And I think it would be weird if he said no. My gut is telling me to wait but I'm afraid my friend is going to push it onto him. I'm honestly confused and I don't know what to do. I've never been in a relationship before and I got rather nervous the day after he hugged me. My friend said it was normal and she did the exact same thing, but I don't know. Any help would be appreciated :3

[wolvesrule5]

i haven't seen my boyfriend of almost 1 year in 2 weeks
this is week 3 and i swear (he says i'm the only girl he loves but come on there, guys what do we expect)
if he is with another girl i will use my wrestling skills
he knows i'm good and i can kick him butt, HARD
i would do anything for him and i know he feels the same way but my friends say the same thing
he has to pull his head out of his rear end

[thunderofthedrum]

i haven't seen my boyfriend of almost 1 year in 2 weeks
this is week 3 and i swear (he says i'm the only girl he loves but come on there, guys what do we expect)
if he is with another girl i will use my wrestling skills
he knows i'm good and i can kick him butt, HARD
i would do anything for him and i know he feels the same way but my friends say the same thing
he has to pull his head out of his rear end

I'm confused, why do you say 'what do we expect'??

[wolvesrule5]

they are alomst always interested in another girl but stay with you

[kiddo.]

there's this person (who i will call B) who i seriously think is interested in me. so, B is always trying to get my attention by dancing (????) and for example if i am stapling a paper and he is stapling one too, he will be all like "THERE WE GO! ALL STAPLED!" and another thing is B stares at me. a lot. at least 3 times a day i've caught B staring at me. . at lunch i was sitting with my friend and i glanced over and great sweet potato i have never seen someone stare at me like that. lastly, B is always around me. like if i get up to go do something he either stares or gets up too. i have no clue if it's just B's personality (I've only known of B's existence for like 6 months) or what i think it is? adive? and no; i do not like B.

[JustDucky]

So I showed my boyfriend a message some guy left on my phone, where the guy told me he liked me. And my boyfriend said he was going to 'beat him up' not in those words, but close. And when we got to my house earlier my sister had her friend over, which happens to be the guy that likes me. I didn't tell my boyfriend that he had a girlfriend, though. He has no interest in her, anymore.
So my boyfriend cussed him out. He got kind of mean with it, though. He has jealousy issues. The kind where he's overdramatic when he is jealous, and those are rare times now that we are dating.
He said something along the lines of "Why are you leaving messages on my girl's phone? She won't ever like you, so there's no use trying."
After this he kissed me, and cuddled/hugged me almost protectively.
I'm not going to say he was wrong, because he wasn't. First off I am happy in my relationship. I know he would fight for me, and I would do the same for him. We've had our ups, and downs, and came out stronger than ever. So I don't see us breaking up anytime soon. I have no interest in any on else.
Second off, it has taken me three years to realise my feelings for my boyfriend. At first I thought it was hate, but quite the opposite, really. We were 'best friends'. And what I mean by that is he was always there for me, even when I didn't want him to be. So in other words I'm slow.
Third, he has a girlfriend. I don't think they're going to last much longer, though. Even if he don't have feelings for her, he should still be loyal to her.
To sum that all up it isn't likely I will like him, but I do feel kind of bad that he was cussed out. It dose take a lot of guts to confused feelings. He should have seen it coming, though.
My boyfriend rarely ever looks through my phone, but I tell him everything, so of course he's going to know about it. And I doubt any guy would be happy about another guy hitting on his girlfriend.

[kafka]

{not too sure what this is, kinda looking for advice but not really?
just a series of cute things that happened to me today, i guess.
note: i have never been in a relationship before and i am fine with it.

so there's this guy in my class [ m ] who's really popular with the girls. he's got a pretty cute face, but when we first met we absolutely hated each other. he left the worst first impression. but then, throughout the year, he began to realise that i wasn't as stuck up and prissy as he thought [i'm the a+ student/teacher's pet, you see] and we began to somewhat get along. not as friends, but acquaintances.

then, a few weeks ago, as i was walking home after school i passed him and he jokingly called him "babe". noone's ever called me that before, and soon i started saying it back as a prank kind of thing. m was definitely surprised, and up until today i thought it bothered him. but when we sat down in a circle after lunch to open secret santa gifts, he wouldn't move over when another boy wanted more space to sit because he "want[ed] to sit next to isabel. she's my babe." the whole afternoon he lent on me, made rude jokes, etc., and it was nice. i'm sure i don't have feelings for him [even if i do, just a tiny bit] since he's not my type. still, it made me feel special. the populars usually don't like people like me.

also, today another boy [ l ] hugged me because he thinks i'm a good drawer and i drew him in his favourite anime [snk]. i'm not usually a physical contact person - i don't hi-five, and when people hug me i never hug them back. but for some reason, i actually hugged him back [maybe it's because of his cute face or personality?] and everyone was really surprised, haha. he's still not my type though [in the same clique as the boy mentioned above], but i'm gonna miss my class this year [today was the second-to-last day.]


i also have good news - i'm going to college [high school] next year and today i finally received the extension studies programme email. they were all sent out on friday and i had been internally panicking for days - apparently they sent it but we didn't receive it. my crush is also in the extension studies programme, but i was thinking-

- do any of you ever feel that you're too young for love and s.o's, but at the same time you can't wait and you're afraid that if you put it off someone else will get them? that's the exact feeling i'm drowning in right now.

sorry for my massive-ass rant-story-thing. i'll go now.

[~IronRose~]

I honestly do not understand these feelings, and really, I don't want to have them. Why do I still love him, I know he doesn't love me, or care about me, so why do I still care? Why do I still have this flame of hope that I can't blow out. I still dream of him, of him loving me, holding me, hugging me, in my actual dreams when I sleep. My dreams are better than reality, I never want to wake up, I cry when I open my eyes. So why do I jave themes dreams, I've had dreams of turning other guys down because I'm still loyal to him. But why? I don't know?? What's happening?!?! What is happening to me! Why can't I move on, a year and 3 months later? Oh why? He's moved on, yes he has, but why can't I? I'm still unwillingly in love with him. And no matter what anyone says I will still chase him, I will forever love him because I know that this is what love is, I've never felt this way before. I need someone to tell me why this is happening to me, please tell me...why?

[SoundAndVision]

My crush said her and her boyfriend probly will break up at sompoint she said they all break up with her. I was thinking like well I wouldn't leave you but I didn't say it out loud instead I said good.

[miko.]

♚ Im not gonna post a problem here so I can be different. My crush... Lets call him Luke. Well, earlier this morning I did something ridiculous. I wore shorts for the christmas party. Everybody in my class knows I hate shorts. So they were all surprised when I showed up wearing a polo with a black shirt inside,shorts and a beanie
I noticed that he was always talking to me. Whenever he goes to get a refill (Since im near to the water dispenser) he would always talk to me. And my friend was wearing my beanie and he grabbed it from her head and placed it on mine <3. He said to me "Don't forget my gift next year. Since you did not give me one" I laughed and said "Of course. But will you give something back?" I was expecting no for an answer since I dint think Im that special to him but you know what he said? He smiled IN A CUTE WAY and said "Of course"
Ehmehgeeeddd
And later after the christmas party we hitched in his car to go to the mall and play in the arcade
All in all tis is a memory to be preserved <3