Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Mythic]

I did tell him how I felt. And he said he felt the same way, but he can't date me since he's happy with his girlfriend.

[surfiez]

Well you should tell him that you are always there for him if he needs anything and he knows where he can go if things go wrong

[ScarWitch]

See I don't know about that. I've never enjoyed kissing...ever. It never gave me chills, or set off fireworks. No matter how long or short the kiss was. It always just...felt weird

That's kind of how I'm feeling. I love hugs and holding hands and whatnot, but kissing is just not my thing. It's awkward and just, like you said, a bit weird.

The first kiss is a very weird thing... at least it was for me. xD It was awkward and just... weird...
It may be something that you just have to get used to.
I definitely had to, especially when we moved past the first few pecks. xD
I love kissing him now and there are all kinds of little things he does(touching my hair, holding my chin, etc) that give me that hollywood hype feeling, as cheesy as it sounds.
You just need to figure everything out. ^^

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I agree with Latias., my first kiss was weird and so was my first one with my boyfriend. By now though, I've gotten used to the way we kiss and it sends shivers down my spine. Sometimes it just takes a bit of time to get over the new weirdness of it before you can honestly enjoy it fully. Also, as I've figured out by experience, it's usually not as enjoyable if there are people all around to see and you're nervous. It's much better when you're alone with no real means of being disturbed.

[vulture,]

Thank you guys for the advice ^^ By the sounds of it I just need to give it time and things will become more natural. I really appreciate the help <3

[thє dσctσr]

I have a big crush on this boy from my school. I don't know how to tell him or even if I want to. He's super cute and really funny and uggg. It's just that everybody has a crush on him. I feel like I have no chance. :c

[dozy]

I have a big crush on this boy from my school. I don't know how to tell him or even if I want to. He's super cute and really funny and uggg. It's just that everybody has a crush on him. I feel like I have no chance. :c

Befriend him! It's probably one of the best ways to be able to truly get to understand him, and for him to understand you. Then you can drop hints and it allows you (sort of) into his ways of thinking so you can know what he prefers in someone, or how he'd like to be 'told,' whether he can pick up on hints and stuff, etc, etc.

Just don't change yourself to be with him since your personality is worth more than a man.

If it doesn't work out you'll still have a (hopefully) reliable friend.

[dozy]

Oopsie daisy, didn't see yours.

Hm, I guess the age-old saying is 'date the second guy because if the first was important, you wouldn't think about anyone else,' but to be honest it's down to you. See if you can hang out with each guy separately and in your mind weigh up who you click with the most.

Communication is key, see who the conversation flows best with! Usually what sets a date apart for me is if I have to force conversation or if it easily flows into different topics and then you kind of sit back like 'Alright, we started off talking about cats and now we're on to politics."

I guess it's down to who you feel the most comfortable with, who won't judge you when you roll up to their house in a tracksuit with dirty hairspray all in your hair, but will appreciate you when you take the time and effort to dress up or do something nice for them.

Good luck! xo

[Mythic]

Sigh... I'm not sure what I want to do, or rather what I should do. There has been this wonderful guy I've had a crush on for about 3-4 YEARS. I know it's ridiculous, but I literally can't stop liking him. He went away to college and for the one year I didn't talk to him at all I still had feelings for him. He has since came back from college. He recently asked me randomly if I do/did ever like him, and I told him yes. He seemed sort of surprised but happy.

Situation is, he has a girlfriend, and it sorta hurts me because I know I can't have him. But I feel like giving up now would be useless, even if I really wanted to.

I'm just confused guys. Any help?

I'd like another idea of what to do here.

Also: I'd like to mention he isn't just a crush, he's been a good friend of mine through thick and thin for years and he is really the only person who seems to understand me.

[ScarWitch]

Question for all...

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What did you get your significant others for Christmas/Hanukkah/Kwanza/etc?

I got my boyfriend a Deadpool blanket, a pair of Deadpool fingerless gloves, a Supernatural sticker, two flavored coffee stirrers, and a book of songs and ballads of the American Civil War, including actual sheet music (he's a musician).

[dozy]

I guess it goes without saying, don't try and split them up because it turns into a huge mess.

Hold on to your feelings if you want, but if you do want to get over him, try going on dates with other people. College is a really great time for just some casual dating, and if it doesn't work out romantically, you still get some great friends out of it : )

The only thing I'd say is, don't jump straight on him if he does break up with his gf because it might well...not look great.

Good luck xo

Scarwitch: I don't have a significant other LOL.