Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[thunderofthedrum]

I want love so bad like I can't wait till I actually get it with the guy for me ❤️

It's not easy though.
Life is never easy.
There will be tension and stress, misunderstandings, arguments. People will say things they regret. And you don't magically know it's the right person. You wonder, especially if it doesn't feel like what they show in the movies like fireworks and perfection. Because you are a human and he will be a human. You are both flawed. I don't feel fireworks but I feel steady and hopeful and happy. He doesn't have a lot of money and I don't know if my family will like him. He has a few bad habits and I of course have my own flaws I need to work on.
It takes effort.

[JetFNPWind]

So, I'd love if someone could give me some advice for this situation cause It's kinda bothering me and I really don't know what to do and/or how to feel towards it.

Ok, so me and this guy have been friends for a while and he admitted that he liked me over Thanksgiving break. I liked him too, and I told him that. We talked a lot for the next few weeks and suddenly he just disappeared? We'd talk and he text back (Not even a minute later) and then just poof, he was gone? I realize that he works and that may take up a lot of time and such but usually he texts me anyways? And I mean, when he texts me he flirts with me non-stop. I guess I'm just getting mixed messages and don't understand. Can anyone give me any advice on what to do? He's seriously the only person I talk to and is my best friend and I just feel lost without talking to my best friend. We don't really see each other at school considering he's a Junior and I'm a Sophomore and we don't have the same classes but occasionally when we do see each other he'll playfully pick on me (For example, if I'm trying to text someone he'll walk up to me and put his hand over me phone and when he has to turn to go for his class he'll kinda shove me to the side). I am so confused???????

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Thank you so much to anyone who offers to help <3

[surfiez]

Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling…he loves animals like me and my friends say that he's like a guy version of me XD UPDATE! : spent the day at the surf contest with guy A and he was super funny XD he kept coming over to me and my friends and making us laugh. He saw I was paddling out so he ran with me into the water and we talked the whole paddle out. We are always sarcastic around each other when it comes to surfing and it's really fun! However my friends occasionally catch him looking at me a few times when we are around eachother… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-; I'm pretty sure they both like me but do you think they do? UPDATE! Recently surfed with guy B and had a great time… I also saw him today at school and I noticed an occasional glance at me now and then... His friends also made fun of him when I asked for some paper… they said "guy B will give you some because he loves you!" I don't know if that was a joke or trying to embarrass him... But that's the first time they have said that and we've all sat together for a month now. Just to make sure but do you think they actually like me? Any opinions on this and what should be the next move?

[vulture,]

So, my boyfriend kissed me for the first time last night. That was my first kiss. But, it's bothering me because I don't feel any different? There was nothing amazing or exciting about it like I expected. It's just like nothing happened and that's driving me insane. I thought I'd be really happy or all excited, but really I'm just mellow. Should I have felt more? I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend, I definitely like him, but I just didn't feel anything extraordinary.

[ScarWitch]

So, my boyfriend kissed me for the first time last night. That was my first kiss. But, it's bothering me because I don't feel any different? There was nothing amazing or exciting about it like I expected. It's just like nothing happened and that's driving me insane. I thought I'd be really happy or all excited, but really I'm just mellow. Should I have felt more? I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend, I definitely like him, but I just didn't feel anything extraordinary.

Sometimes that happens. If it was just a peck, then that's a warrented reaction. Not all the Hollywood hype is right, but if you feel absolutely nothing, that may be an issue.

[Pyrrha Nikos]

See I don't know about that. I've never enjoyed kissing...ever. It never gave me chills, or set off fireworks. No matter how long or short the kiss was. It always just...felt weird

[vulture,]

So, my boyfriend kissed me for the first time last night. That was my first kiss. But, it's bothering me because I don't feel any different? There was nothing amazing or exciting about it like I expected. It's just like nothing happened and that's driving me insane. I thought I'd be really happy or all excited, but really I'm just mellow. Should I have felt more? I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend, I definitely like him, but I just didn't feel anything extraordinary.

Sometimes that happens. If it was just a peck, then that's a warrented reaction. Not all the Hollywood hype is right, but if you feel absolutely nothing, that may be an issue.

It was just a peck, yes. I feel like I was overwhelmed and couldn't just enjoy it. But then again, I don't know. I have a knack for psyching myself out and have passed out due to my nerves before. I was so worried about not passing out that I was thinking too much. Also, I think that Hollywood hype may have gotten to me. It wasn't as dramatic as the movies make it out to be and that threw me off. Nothing much has really changed in our relationship like I thought it would. We both carried on like nothing had really happened, if anything we just stuck closer together than normal.

See I don't know about that. I've never enjoyed kissing...ever. It never gave me chills, or set off fireworks. No matter how long or short the kiss was. It always just...felt weird

That's kind of how I'm feeling. I love hugs and holding hands and whatnot, but kissing is just not my thing. It's awkward and just, like you said, a bit weird.

[Dia.]

So, my boyfriend kissed me for the first time last night. That was my first kiss. But, it's bothering me because I don't feel any different? There was nothing amazing or exciting about it like I expected. It's just like nothing happened and that's driving me insane. I thought I'd be really happy or all excited, but really I'm just mellow. Should I have felt more? I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend, I definitely like him, but I just didn't feel anything extraordinary.

Sometimes that happens. If it was just a peck, then that's a warrented reaction. Not all the Hollywood hype is right, but if you feel absolutely nothing, that may be an issue.

It was just a peck, yes. I feel like I was overwhelmed and couldn't just enjoy it. But then again, I don't know. I have a knack for psyching myself out and have passed out due to my nerves before. I was so worried about not passing out that I was thinking too much. Also, I think that Hollywood hype may have gotten to me. It wasn't as dramatic as the movies make it out to be and that threw me off. Nothing much has really changed in our relationship like I thought it would. We both carried on like nothing had really happened, if anything we just stuck closer together than normal.

See I don't know about that. I've never enjoyed kissing...ever. It never gave me chills, or set off fireworks. No matter how long or short the kiss was. It always just...felt weird

That's kind of how I'm feeling. I love hugs and holding hands and whatnot, but kissing is just not my thing. It's awkward and just, like you said, a bit weird.

The first kiss is a very weird thing... at least it was for me. xD It was awkward and just... weird...
It may be something that you just have to get used to.
I definitely had to, especially when we moved past the first few pecks. xD
I love kissing him now and there are all kinds of little things he does(touching my hair, holding my chin, etc) that give me that hollywood hype feeling, as cheesy as it sounds.
You just need to figure everything out. ^^

[Mythic]

Sigh... I'm not sure what I want to do, or rather what I should do. There has been this wonderful guy I've had a crush on for about 3-4 YEARS. I know it's ridiculous, but I literally can't stop liking him. He went away to college and for the one year I didn't talk to him at all I still had feelings for him. He has since came back from college. He recently asked me randomly if I do/did ever like him, and I told him yes. He seemed sort of surprised but happy.

Situation is, he has a girlfriend, and it sorta hurts me because I know I can't have him. But I feel like giving up now would be useless, even if I really wanted to.

I'm just confused guys. Any help?

[surfiez]

^ just tell him how you really feel. I've liked my guy A for a little while a few years ago then I stopped and now I really like him again. Ugh I just feel so confused right now because now I have 2 guys that I like but I really want guy A… agh