Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[DaydreamNarrator]

What Do Do when my boyfriend's mum is jealous and tries to keep us away from eachother whenever she can?

[ProudHufflepuff]

I have a question for everyone, for those of you with significant others, do you have a ship name for yourselves? My boyfriend and myself use "Kames"..

Heh my friend gave us one....Darew :3

[PandoraBanshee]

Ssoooo I've been extremely depressed lately and I even told her and she doesn't do anything to comfort me. In fact, she makes it worse by inviting her friend over to comfort her while I'm just sitting here bored, alone, depressed, and being ignored.
She even knows that ignoring me doesn't help my depression at all. It makes it worse..

And not once has she attempted to comfort me in the year we've been together. She's never comforted me at all.. just made it worse sometimes..
Yet all the times she's been depressed, I've comforted her. Every single time I tried and sometimes succeeded.

I absolutely have no idea on what to do in this situation and I'm tired of feeling like this, especially when it's because of her.. What should I do?

[cassanova .]

I have a question for everyone, for those of you with significant others, do you have a ship name for yourselves? My boyfriend and myself use "Kames"..

My friends made 'TnT' up for boyfriend and myself.

[spring.]

a = a kid i am having problems with
j = an ex-boyfriend
lex = my best friend
pop = a friend of mine
t = the girl who started it all

okay, so i have a friend, t, who told me about a problem she was having with a. she said he messaged her saying he has a crush on her, etc, but he doesn't know her. so, she said well, spring can set you up with someone/ you can ask her out. well, i don't want to go out with this kid. he messages me and wants to get to know me, and then he starts asking if i know anyone single. i am over here, snapchatting my friends pop, lex, and my ex, j (i still really like j, too). so i am putting on snapchat SOS and things like that, because i really don't want to get involved with this kid. so j starts snapchatting me regarding the situation, so i ask him for help. i ask him for things i can say to get out of it, things like that. j gives no indication of helping me. so i am over here, scared because of some of the things this kid is saying. i am asking pop and lex for help out of this, but they can't offer any help (i have been in situations like this before, and they couldn't help then. .-.). so finally, a starts letting up. but yesterday, he said, 'tbh, i wish i could be in a relationship with you', 'i wish you were single', things of that nature. i'm sitting over here like, but i am...?

the first thing i do is snapchat j and ask what he said to a, because he is the only one that has seen conversations between him and i. he says nothing, and finally this morning when i asked again, he responds with 'did he stop?' i said yes, and i asked what he said. he said nothing back.

i don't know what to make of it. lex thinks he's trying to hint at something.

pop says he's just trying to screw with my head because he suspects i still like him.

but it is especially weird because this would have been j and i's anniversary. i don't know if that plays into it, but i didn't think about it. this whole situation was not like the one i was in before, this has taken a turn for the worse... much worse than it has to be. now i'm stressed about what j said. i want to call him but i'm not supposed to have a phone. my mom knows a little about this situation, but not today's updates.

any ideas for help?

update -- i went to guidance for help, but i don't know how much good it will do. this kid is mentally disabled, and getting the hint across is difficult, but i don't have the heart to be rude and tell him to buzz off.

[kafka]

Ssoooo I've been extremely depressed lately and I even told her and she doesn't do anything to comfort me. In fact, she makes it worse by inviting her friend over to comfort her while I'm just sitting here bored, alone, depressed, and being ignored.
She even knows that ignoring me doesn't help my depression at all. It makes it worse..

And not once has she attempted to comfort me in the year we've been together. She's never comforted me at all.. just made it worse sometimes..
Yet all the times she's been depressed, I've comforted her. Every single time I tried and sometimes succeeded.

I absolutely have no idea on what to do in this situation and I'm tired of feeling like this, especially when it's because of her.. What should I do?

You need to tell her.

It may be hard, but you need to set some sort of expectation if you want to be in a happy relationship. If you don't speak up, she'll probably continue to ignore you because it's become the norm. Being in a relationship should be both give and take, and from your post, it sounds like she's only taking. I'm sorry that I can't help much because I don't know your circumstances - if you're still in school, if you live together, how long you have been dating... etc. But if I were in your shoes, I would confront her about it. If she still refuses to acknowledge that you would like some comfort, then I would break it off. Mental well-being is important, and if your significant other isn't helping you, and actually causing you to feel depressed, it's not healthy.

On another note, if she can't comfort you, I suggest you find comfort in other friends, your parents, et cetera, if you can. I wish you the best for battling through depression.

Hope I could help, x.

[purple.]

I have a question for everyone, for those of you with significant others, do you have a ship name for yourselves? My boyfriend and myself use "Kames"..

My friends call my boyfriend and I Mukas. Such a terrible name, I know.

[ardentsongbird]

On Friday, I went to my school dance with my boyfriend. He's very confident, and he doesn't care what people think of him, while I'm shy and very closed. So, we were walking around and a song we both knew came on. He asked me to sing, and I said no, because I was afraid of being judged. I went to go sit down, while he had fun with his friends.

Not too long after, a slow song came on. Since my boyfriend wasn't in the gym at the time, he didn't get to ask me to dance. I got a bit upset, but I told him I wasn't mad at him. Soon after, another slow song came on, one of my favorites. I sang, so he could hear me like he wanted and he asked me to dance. He's so sweet ^//^ I was glad not a lot of people teased us about it, except my older brother watched us the whole time cx

After the song ended, we sat on the bleachers. We hugged and held hands, and I wouldn't exchange that moment for the world. He's an amazing individual..

[violeta.]

I have a question for everyone, for those of you with significant others, do you have a ship name for yourselves? My boyfriend and myself use "Kames"..

Heh my friend gave us one....Darew :3

My friend has started calling my boyfriend and I: Litie

[Hawky<3]

I have a question for everyone, for those of you with significant others, do you have a ship name for yourselves? My boyfriend and myself use "Kames"..

i give everyone a ship name.
even if they arent dating.
o///o
well mine is berin :3