calfreezy wrote:why am i so freaking stupid?! i've failed geometry twice and i still can't freaking understand it. i hate being so stupid and i'm sick of people my "friends" making fun of me for it
not only that but my mom keeps calling me fat, i don't get it, i weigh 120-ish pounds and i'm five foot eight that isn't fat? it's like she is trying to live through me and i'm tired of it because it's making me struggle with eating
i'm irritable to no end, i'm sick, i'm tired, i'm failing classes already and it's a week in the semester, but let's not forget the fact that i've already failed about seven or eight classes so far, my parents want to combine my birthday party with my best friends but i don't want to but i can't tell them that now can i, i want to dye my hair but i can't, i want a haircut that helps me with being genderfluid and would work with whatever gender i am feeling but i can't get it, and my parents keep nagging me about getting a tutor for math, i get i need it but i doN'T WANT TO ADMIT THAT I AM A COMPLETE IDIOT AND A FAILURE
i just need a big hug and a giant cat to cuddle with
We all aren't good at math all the time, I used to be good but now I get freaking B's ughhhh I hate B's! If your friends are making fun of you just because you learn a bit slowly means that they probably arent your real friends. You need to keep trying to find real friends who you can trust and won't make fun of you. If you truly think they are your friends you should tell them to stop. Tell them that it's annoying and a bit mean. Tell them that all humans aren't perfect and the best at math. It's not nice to be teased because you learn slowly. My parents think I should go to tutor because I'm getting B's but I don't want to. I can understand you, but sometimes you have to do what's best for your grades. Tutor isn't actually bad! I'm going to tutor on Saturday, and I heard the people are nice there. I have a friend who goes to tutor for math even though she already gets A's without a tutor. Yeah. Your not a complete idiot or failure, it's just that we learn at Diffrent paces. Have you ever asked a teacher for help after school? You know when they say that you ask for a teacher for help it actually really does help. I asked a teacher for help on math and now she does like math lessons during lunch to help those who learn slowly, and there are a ton a boys who always go. You should really ask a teacher or a friend if you don't really want to go to tutor! Don't worry, I'm always here for you, and so is everyone else. ♥
I get teased by being fat, I weigh the average and I get called being fat by my grandparents. ;-; I only been bothered by this once, because she called me fatter than my sister but I know she is probably just joking around. And so is your mom. If she isn't, well then your not. You weigh average and who cares how much people think about you? I've been called fast by the backs of people but I don't care. I just go "Ya I'm fat, like I'm soooooo fat!" to those who call me fat. The thing is, you shouldn't be worried about how much you eat, just eat all the food you need to be full and get the energy you need from the food. If your really concerned about your weight, maybe have a jog every morning on the weekends or eat fruits and veggies. Man I don't understand why people hate fruits and veggies, I mean apples, oranges, watermelon, their all sweet! Their delicious, and amazing! Veggies like carrots and cucumbers or salad are really good with the sauce. Beans are delicious to me and I don't even thin that broccoli is
that bad. I just don't understand why people don't like them. Their actually really good, if you haven't tried, you should!
Maybe combining a birthday with a best friend isn't that bad? I share a birthday with like what 2 siblings ever since I was born to this world! Sharing a birthday isn't actually half bad, it's like a regular birthday party. Sometimes you have to make sacrifices, but we all know the birthday is
both of yours. It's not like people are going to forget about you, it's YOUR birthday ! You should sometimes open up to things I've never done before! Maybe it could be fun? If you really don't want to, straight up tell your parents. Tell them why your don't want to. It's your birthday, the day of your birth. Isnt that alone important to your parents?
About the haircut, maybe you should explain to your parents why you want this haircut so badly. If your parents say no, you should listen to them. Parents know what's best. I've heard many times that dyeing your hair is actually bad for it. You don't need a haircut to show your gender fluid! People can probably tell with our personality! You are you, you don't need to change your body in any way to show someone who you are.
I hope this helps with your problems. Everyone is always here for you!