Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[kimmy1479]

Thank you very much Purplemarbles. ^_^ I appreciate the help.
Now, I have another problem though. X3 This one concerns me a little less, and is more of a general question.

What is the "rule" per say about dating someone who is a friend's ex, or whom your friend likes?

You see, this question was raised in my mind because of a recent situation.
It involves three people, whom I will call Snapple(M), Peach(F), and Bubbles(F). (Sort of an inside joke thing)

Okay so Peach and Snapple were dating. I never got the full story, but basically, a few months ago Snapple broke up with Peach, and I was informed liked someone else- unknown who though.
Well Bubbles is a girl who really likes Snapple, but is friends with Peach.

Recently, I felt like Snapple might be flirting with me. (and I'm actually generally a bit oblivious to that)
Like seriously I don't even know how flirting works.
This is me:

He'd do very excessively teasing type things, and we would get into little fun petty contests.
Example: Today we had water balloons, and we would continuously get payback on each other. He'd hit me with water balloon, I'd target him. And long after the game had ended we were still sneaking up behind eachother and splashing the other with cups of water.

But I'm honestly not sure if he's flirting with me, or with Peach. Because we would somehow both get into these contests against him. And also, he'd be the guy who would probably not ask to get back together because of his pride.

Example two: He called the two of us over to play soccer. Well, he played 'no blood no foul' so a lot of pushing, shoving, and the sort. But he seemed to be a lot more physical with me- picking me up, rolling around a bit, grabbing and lifting up my leg to make me trip a lot, etc. But I don't know if that really means anything, because Peach is also a lot smaller, and .... frail I guess? Definitely more girly- whereas I have 5 brothers and Snapple would know I could take anything he gave me.
So I don't really know.

So I sort of went over the idea of him liking me, and I thought about it. To be honest I don't actually know if I like him or not, or if he likes me.
But I think even if we both did, I might not go for it, just because it would be a lot of drama between Peach, Bubble, and myself.

I mean, on one hand, I don't think you should give up a chance to be with someone you like because of a friend- if their really a friend, they should look past it, right?

But at the same time, I don't know if being with Snapple (someone I'm not even sure I like) is worth losing two friends.

So, this just put me in a mindset where I was curious to know, in general, whats the rule or protocol for going out with guys who have some sort of drama with your friends- in particular, exes, and current crushing.

[a n d y.]

Okay. So schools' now over, and I can't see Vincent anymore. But hey, I got his number! And this kid I know, he lives right by me, and Vince knows where he livres. So MAYBE I can see him this summer<3

[kimmy1479]

Okay. So schools' now over, and I can't see Vincent anymore. But hey, I got his number! And this kid I know, he lives right by me, and Vince knows where he livres. So MAYBE I can see him this summer<3

Try inviting him and other classmates to do group events. ^_^ That's what I'm doing- a lot of us are going to different schools next year, so we're planning a lot of group summer stuff for us all to do.

[a n d y.]

Okay. So schools' now over, and I can't see Vincent anymore. But hey, I got his number! And this kid I know, he lives right by me, and Vince knows where he livres. So MAYBE I can see him this summer<3

Try inviting him and other classmates to do group events. ^_^ That's what I'm doing- a lot of us are going to different schools next year, so we're planning a lot of group summer stuff for us all to do.

I was thinking about doing that, but living in a condo is hard. Especially with a bunch of people. Maybe I can get a summer home or something xD
But I got his number, so I'll just casually say 'Hey' and hope he replies.

[iWonder]

*phew* thank goodness! I kept my distance from A (not intentionally, I was busy from 8:00 to 12:30 every day.)
And he got the message to slow down and chill.
Also he noticed that whenever I saw him somewhere I kinda freaked out. Not verbally but I tensed up and was really nervous. Not sure why I was doing that. PM me!

[northern downpour ;;]

Ahhhh I have the best boyfriend in the world I swear <3 I know I said that about Frankie, but this one is so much better <33 I love him so much! He puts up with me at my worst and best~ He cheers me up in the best ways >w< I love him a lot~

[Winterpool]

If I can get through half a year of school, and get together a mini-scholarship's worth of money, a boatload of my parents' trust, and lots and lots of patience...I might get to meet in him (in person) next March for our 1,5 anniversary!
<3

I hope this works out, I can't wait to tell him.
<3

[mindless.]

Okay, pointless post here...xD
So in drivers ed, there was this guy, M. He sat diagonally behind me and my friends. He was next to a guy from my class, R. I am pretty sure R kinda likes me, but not the idea here lol. Only the last like three days I noticed him. On Thursday. he actualy like chose to talk to me after class outside. <3 Friday the last time I saw him, he was messing with R, and I looked back and we were both laughing, but he smiled bigger when I looked at him. Miss him already :c

But anyways, starting tomorrw I will see my other guy, J! Booyah! x3 I will try to figure out how to act natural haha.

[kay.]

What you do for the guy you like <3

I've been hopeful Robbie would come to the park as it was the weekend, but he didn't. Saw his best friend thougj, I was so disappointed to see my crush wasn't with him. In school on Friday when I glanced at him, he looked up and when we quickly looked away at the same time... I dunno xD

I got plans for the next 2 days.

On Monday tomorrow:
My friend (he's boy, been buds with him for 6 years now) is friends with Robbie, so before school they usually hang out, so me following my friend get to join in conversations sometimes. So tomorrow if my friends' with Robbie, I can say 'Hi Robbie' with a smile. If he decides to talk to me I'll have a friendly chat, if not then I'll pop into a chat when he's talking to my friend. Then just glance at him and smile during the rest of the day.

Tuesday:
In the morning probably do the same thing as Monday. I decided Tuesdays are best days to act as my BFF is away so I can flirt with him without her finding out, as she'd probably spread the news. Basically I'll ask him if he's going to the ball, in a friend way. Might compliment him on shoes or something.

[cobalt.]

oh god, please stop sending me selfies, especially when you pull up your shirt.
i like you but that's too much, i don't even really know you. >.<
calling me "smexy"... idk about that one.
i feel so awkward :U

actually no, the top thing that i expect from a potential bf, is that i can feel safe around him but i also don't want to be pressured into anything, he is confident in himself, knows what he wants, and i can be myself.
he doesn't fit any of those qualifications.
i feel so bad for "leading him on" but, c'mon i've talked to you for 3 days, never met you or talked to you in person yet you're acting like this. no. i have my own insecurities, but i'm proud of myself how much my self-confidence has improved.