Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[luxray;]

Okay.
A week ago, someone in my literature class asked me, "Would you be interested in going out with me and (his friend's name here)?" I freaked out and didn't reply, because I wasn't sure what to say, and he took that as a no. I feel really bad about it, but I don't know if the guy that asked likes me, or if his friend likes me ;-; I just need some advice, because it's been really awkward around him ever since.

[Kiliann]

I've been friendzoned before... but this is new.
Now I'm in the 'non-exsistent zone.' Like, my crush never initiates conversation, never acknowledges that I'm there, and whenever I try to say anything to him it's super awkward.
What's even worse is that there's another girl that I'm pretty sure he likes and she likes him back. He's a bit of a country guy... like, from Alabama and has a sort of accent (he's super cute :3) and this girl is kind of wild (a bit reckless, she's nice but I don't think the have equal religious views or anything) and really not his type unless he stops being all goofy and sweet.
I'm being unbiased when I say this- if they ever had a relationship it would be based solely on humor and wouldn't last long.

Anyways. How the heck do you get a guy that barely knows you exist to at least be an acquaintance or distant friend?

[Rated R]

I've been friendzoned before... but this is new.
Now I'm in the 'non-exsistent zone.' Like, my crush never initiates conversation, never acknowledges that I'm there, and whenever I try to say anything to him it's super awkward.
What's even worse is that there's another girl that I'm pretty sure he likes and she likes him back. He's a bit of a country guy... like, from Alabama and has a sort of accent (he's super cute :3) and this girl is kind of wild (a bit reckless, she's nice but I don't think the have equal religious views or anything) and really not his type unless he stops being all goofy and sweet.
I'm being unbiased when I say this- if they ever had a relationship it would be based solely on humor and wouldn't last long.

Anyways. How the heck do you get a guy that barely knows you exist to at least be an acquaintance or distant friend?

pfft, well here you have to make it happen.
if you don't try, he will continue to be oblivious to your existence.
you have be confident and show him that you're here, so a friendship can exist.
say hey to him one day, or ask him about summer plans, etc.
you have to make it exist too, it can't be all him c:

[kelly.]

I've been friendzoned before... but this is new.
Now I'm in the 'non-exsistent zone.' Like, my crush never initiates conversation, never acknowledges that I'm there, and whenever I try to say anything to him it's super awkward.
What's even worse is that there's another girl that I'm pretty sure he likes and she likes him back. He's a bit of a country guy... like, from Alabama and has a sort of accent (he's super cute :3) and this girl is kind of wild (a bit reckless, she's nice but I don't think the have equal religious views or anything) and really not his type unless he stops being all goofy and sweet.
I'm being unbiased when I say this- if they ever had a relationship it would be based solely on humor and wouldn't last long.

Anyways. How the heck do you get a guy that barely knows you exist to at least be an acquaintance or distant friend?

you should at least try to talk to him. i remember when i first asked my crush for his number, and he right away gave it to me. i don't think i've talked to him before that, but he was in one of my classes. we are great friends, so you should give it a shot. if you guys have yearbooks, write down your number or email in his and ask him if he could write down his number or email in his yearbook.

good luck!

[bola11]

I thought my crush was ignoring me, but it turns out he lost his phone.
Phew.
Then he texted me with his new phone number so that I would have it.
I don't even know why, but
BIGGER PHEW.

[Snowy13]

My crush is also my friend's brother andhe is extremley popular-which Im not and all the other girls like him and I thought he didnt know me at all but then when I was in the town centre he noticed me and called out my name and nudged my friend (his sister). What should I do?

[Outlander]

My crush is also my friend's brother andhe is extremley popular-which Im not and all the other girls like him and I thought he didnt know me at all but then when I was in the town centre he noticed me and called out my name and nudged my friend (his sister). What should I do?

What do you want to do?

[Rated R]

My crush is also my friend's brother andhe is extremley popular-which Im not and all the other girls like him and I thought he didnt know me at all but then when I was in the town centre he noticed me and called out my name and nudged my friend (his sister). What should I do?

this is a bit vague, but if i were you, i'd befriend him. what's the harm? he obviously recognizes who you are, so just be casual and nice to him. be friendly and once he's used to being friends/doesn't think its weird, just drop a few subtle hints through quiet flirting and such.

[kay.]

I haven't updated about me, Robbie & Phoenix for past few days. Not like many people are reading anyway. Well, since Phoenix is dating my friend, I decided to get over him. It's working so far, we're just friends. Now lucky Robbie is getting all my attention. Although, here's the part you scream at me and say to forget about him and am I crazy. Yes, I guess I am a little :3

Robbie... Tried to kill someone. Not only that, it's H, his ex... Why? Because she threw a rugby ball, it accidently hit him, so he attempted to strangle her. The friend who is dating Phoenix told me that as I asked what's up with H who was looking into space. You'll never believe me... I - helped H, but now I realise it helped me to get closer to Robbie... A few weeks ago I met them at the park, and Robbie afraid of Xena, so then I used that information. I went "Because of what you did, Xena will be haunting you." He was really stupid then. He started whining (He's too cute when he does that <3) about how people tell him off when he doesn't know what he did wrong. Obviously didn't remember himself strangling H.

At home, I drew Xena's face with red eyes and sharp fangs, and writ 'Xena is watching YOU!" underneath. Before school I showed him it, and explained why. He seemed as if the strangling was a game when he replied. Next thing I know, this conversation started;

Robbie: How do you pronounce the dogs name?
Me: Xena (Saying it properly)
Robbie: Why is it spelt that way then?
Me: Because it's Polish.
Robbie: Oh, I thought it was Russian?
Me: Robbie, I'm from Poland, we live in England, it's a GERMAN shepherd, why on earth would it be Russian?
Robbie: Well there are German shepherds in Russia.
Me: I know, but Xena isn't a Russian dog!

Then he took his phone out, and started singing and dancing to a Minecraft Song. I just hung my arms and chuckled helplessly at how he changed the subject so fast. I keep showing him Xena (I wrote (Still!) under it for today) to tease him, and he seems it funny.

So yay, Xena's making progress!

[cobalt.]

I need help, xP
My friend and I both like the same guy from another school, and he likes both of us too. He and my friend have known each other longer and have been talking on facebook, she's older than him but he's the same age as me. He invited us to his game at our school, which happens to be my (insert age here) birthday. He told me he'd make baskets for me for my birthday, but he also told my friend the same thing, minus the birthday part. I don't want to ruin my friendship or my opportunity with this guy, help!

This is where major "girl code" comes in. The typical way for things to work is the whole 'I saw him first rule but some people leave it to the one with the least number of past boyfriends. Lol but I would suggest talking to your friend about who gets "dibs" and if that doesn't work out I'd just let it play out if I were you. Why should you decide and it not be what he wants and someone be left heartbroken? Sometimes it's best to just stand back and see who he chooses (it adds a bit of competition ;) ) But whatever you do don't let it get in the way of your friendship with her. Girl-friends are always to have around when times get tough.

Ok, well if we were to go by who has the least number of past boyfriends that'd deff be me xD we've been talking, all three of us and she told me to go after him if I like him but she likes him too. We both don't want to hurt eachother's feelings. xP
Thanks for the advice. c:

ok, so this guy is talking to me again, after my friend screwed things up for everyone. he ended up deleting his facebook because she and i were "fighting" over him, but she also told him we were actual sisters and some other lies, yada, yada yada. but now he is back on fb and he's been messaging me again and he's wondering if i still like him, i don't know what to do, i sorta do but at the same time we haven't talked for six months. curse my awkwardness xp