Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[thunderofthedrum]

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Omg asdfghjkl<3
My boyfriend sent me a huge paragraph yersterday saying how he was sorry he hasnt been acknowledging me a lot lately and that when he was busy, he forgot a very important thing, me. It was like 3 texts long, and just the most adorable thing ever and i just love him so much<3 { { Not literally, im not at the point in the relationship to say i love him just yet } } but still he's the sweetest guy I've ever met and I thought I was losing him at first, but now I see that our relationship might've been falling apart, but we can fix it. Thank you whoever took the time to read this, although it's just me ranting. :3

I'm definitely happy for you and all, but I find myself rather confused:

How can you love him but not literally? Figuratively? Metaphorically? It just doesn't really make sense with the concept of love.

Thank you, I've been paranoid for the past few days, but I understand why he hasn't been very responsive lately.

I mean it like, the type of 'I love yous' you say through text. You know what I mean? The ones you'd only text, but not say in person. I'm very serious when it comes to the concept of love. I only ever say it if I'm being sarcastic, or I'm talking to my best friends. I refuse to say it to anyone unless I actually do love them. A lot of people say I need to relax a bit about the topic, but they don't understand. If you say it too often, soon there's no meaning left in it.

No, I don't. xD I only said "I love you" when I was ready for it, no matter whether it was typed or spoken. Personally, I held back from texting it until I was able to say it verbally. If one thing shouldn't be taken seriously over text, I feel like that opens the door for not taking anything else seriously, or perhaps it's more to me like just being able to trust in what someone says at all. My boyfriend is more "We'll be together forever!" via text than in person and it's kind of hard because I have to balance everything he says. I wish I could just take it at face value instead of holding myself back and thinking "Well wait, he tends to get excited over text and may exaggerrate.."

He first said it when we'd been together about 6 months but I couldn't quite say it yet for a couple months after that. It also depends on how you grew up - my parents grew up being friendly but also private. We were never gushy-talky-feelings and even "Love you" was short and said from a parent to me whenever I left to go to my own residence for a week or more; I never really said it back. My boyfriend still says it more than I do although I have made progress. I very much feel they are powerful words and should not be said without full meaning. However, I'm also not as confident as he is and saying things like that can feel very.. vulnerable, perhaps.

Oh man, I just remembered I have a bill due in two days; gotta go pay it!

[Quitting1015]

Alright, So the guy I like, Likes me back, and he has even told me so at the dance two weeks ago. Okay, So lately, He seems to be avoiding me, with an occasional hello. On facebook, I will ask him if he is excited for school, and ask him what he is doing for summer, he will just say, Yea,Whatever,Dunno, or nada. Before he knew, We would have full blown conversations.....Any idea whats going on? Any help with tying to get him to talk to me more?

[Lazy9248]

I just found out that no one knows that J and I text... Not even his best friend knows and he pretty much tells him everything... I'm trying to figure out what to make of it because he is awful at keeping secrets... I don't know I think I'm making a big deal out of nothing... What do you guys think? Any advice at all? Please feel free to pm me if you'd like I've never actually gone out with anyone so I honestly have no idea what I'm doing at all

[kay.]

Anybody remember my story about C & H? ((Summary; C who is boy broke up with his girlfriend H because of a dare, she thought it was real, so she broke up with him for real.)) Well, they got back together. However, now C found out H only got back together with him to brake up with him. While it's still heartbreaking, I don't feel all that depressed. Though, I have been split in my own life -.- I also posted about my crush Two. BTW, for this post, C will be called Robbie and Two Phoenix.

Well, I have a big crush on Phoenix since not that long ago. We are good friends, and he has made a few signs of interest of me. That's alright, isn't it? Let me tell you what I found out about myself yesterday.

I was on a 4 day trip with the school (Both boys were there), I came back earlier today. Yesterday we went to a big park, and me and Robbie were goofing around, there was a place with fake jails so we pretended Robbie had to be arrested. That's normal, me and Robbie... Aren't as close as me and Phoenix but don't mind each other. In the theatre later that day, me and Robbie had some fun. When we left, I realised something... That I always had a teeny crush on him. I would never try to do anything when he was with H, them 2 together were perfection. But now, I realise his door is open, and nothing could stop me, he wants a new girlfriend. He did say a something usually you don't tell people that you hardly know (Meaning me), although I dunno. I like him more with each thought.

Help. Help. Help. Please.

Phoenix, everybody would make fun of me if I went out with him. Robbie, no one would blame me, every girl has some sort of eye on him. A disco/prom thingy is coming up. I worked out that Robbie is the only boy it'd be worth saying yes to. But then Phoenix...

Please help.

Could someone please reply? I have decided to list a few things I'd like in a boyfriend to compare to the two boys. Yes, it's come to it ._.

What I'm seeking in a boyfriend;

Can Protect me;

Phoenix I think is more protective in the 2 boys... I just assume I'd feel safer. One time a boy said something mean to me, and Phoenix found out, and made the boy regret it. IDK the real reason why, I just do not think Robbie would react the same. Well then again, I knew Phoenix a lot longer than Robbie, so maybe I don't know entirely. I've seen Phoenix with his past girlfriends, and he would keep any harm away, or make harm pay.

Robbie, while I'm sure if something that was really bad hurt me he would protect me, however I'm just not too sure. I can't say much about him for this part.

So I think this quality would go for Phoenix. BTW, I do not need a 24/7 protector (My GSD Xena does that well enough ^__^) and can fend for myself, I just want to feel more secure.

Has A Sense Of Humour;

Both boys are funny and good to hang around with. Unlike with the protection part, I won't do 'Phoenix, Robbie, Winner' as there isn't much difference in the two in humour. As the Winner I think Robbie, it's hard to get him feeling sad, and by being around him you can't be sad either!

Can Rely On;

Phoenix never really goes outside to places I go, and rathers playing football with mates than hang out with girlfriends. So this part doesn't really fit him. He often wouldn't do what his girls asked him to do, which isn't good.

Robbie is often seen at places I go, and I have observed him with his past Gf's and he will pretty much be happy to hang around them when they ask. He would do anything for them, so you can rely on him.

Clearly Robbie Wins here. Sorry Phoenix.

There are more reasons, although I'm too tired to post them. Please just reply.

[Snowy13]

Xena.- Nobody can tell you who to choose but
I would just try amd get to know both more and then when youre ready decide.
I have a crush but he is my friends brother and is 3 years older then me. Most girls fancy him but he hasnt asked anyone out yet. When I came round to my friends house I said hi but he didnt reply then on a weekand he was walking with his sister and he spotted me and said hey and nugged my friend. What should I do? Should I tell him I have a crush on him? Should I send him an anonymous letter or should I ask his number?

[Quitting1015]

Alright, So the guy I like, Likes me back, and he has even told me so at the dance two weeks ago. Okay, So lately, He seems to be avoiding me, with an occasional hello. On facebook, I will ask him if he is excited for school, and ask him what he is doing for summer, he will just say, Yea,Whatever,Dunno, or nada. Before he knew, We would have full blown conversations.....Any idea whats going on? Any help with tying to get him to talk to me more?

[dead poets society]

On the last day of school, I made a present thing for my crush. It was just a letter and then ten notecard with thing I liked about him, and at the very end of the letter, I told him to text me when he was done reading it. He texted me about six hours later and told me that I was his BFF and that everything I said was exactly what he needed to hear. <3

My friends all think he likes me. One of my best friends is actually his cousin, and she said that he acts way different around me. I really hope he likes me. We went to a theme park as a school and me and him hung out together all day. Before then, I had a crush on him but we didn't really know each other. After that, we sort of clicked and went from not knowing each other to being best friends. He is so cute, and he always laughs at stuff I say even when it kind of flops. He bites me when he doesn't know what to say. It's super cute. And he hugged me on the last day of school, which is so flippin' perfect.

Any opinions? Do you guys think he could like me? We've only known each other for about five months now, but we've only been besties for about one month. Help? xp

[Snowy13]

Alright, So the guy I like, Likes me back, and he has even told me so at the dance two weeks ago. Okay, So lately, He seems to be avoiding me, with an occasional hello. On facebook, I will ask him if he is excited for school, and ask him what he is doing for summer, he will just say, Yea,Whatever,Dunno, or nada. Before he knew, We would have full blown conversations.....Any idea whats going on? Any help with tying to get him to talk to me more?

Well, im quite a proud and vengeful person so I would just -depending on how much you lile him- reply to him in a cool and relaxed way. He may feel overwhelmed if you ask too many questions. If you really like him then ask where you are. Or throw a scene but personally I would reply like he does and ask h where you are in this relationship.

[iWonder]

@viva la vida,
Sounds like a normal crush relationship, I wouldn't stress about it. Sometimes it passes and others it doesn't and it hangs on.



My question or comment about A.

So today I accomplished a great feat and I told A. He replied (via email)" You ARE the woman!! " I expected that much... "you are the petal to my flower, the Yin to my Yang." and some other things. I did not expect him to ever say that.
I said " awwws! *blushes* do you mean it? Really?" . I didn't know what to say. He compliments me all the time, even when I am not there. He tells me I am pretty, and "pulchritudus" which means, beautiful, fair, and stuff like that.

What do I do now?

[quitting¿]

Hey guys!!Ineed help with my freinds online relationship...
Ok so it all stared about 1 month ago...My BFF started bragging on about some dude she met on a online game.And they were good freinds,I accepted because online friens are safe if you REALLY know them!
And a few weeks pf this dude past and then I heard from another Bestfriend of mine that L(BFF with onliner) was dating F(online guy).I was shocked because my bestfriend ALWAYS tells me these things...I was alittl upset because this was a secret fpr four weeks but she has been texting him she loved him and her info and such and its not safe...he acts funny,and strange towards us on chatrooms...I have tried talking to her about how unsafe this was because she didn't know him...What can I do to show her how dangerous an online relationship can be?
(Is this on the right thread x3)