Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[quitting,,]

Well.. I'm pretty upset right now.
I don't really know what to think right now. My ex girlfriend broke up with me this morning- I loved her so much though I guess I should have seen it coming. For the past few weeks she was growing more distant to me, and being the good girlfriend I was, I would occasionally ask her if something was wrong or if I did something.

Turns out she's likes someone else. I'm not sure who.. Though its obvious she tried her best to be as kind as she could about it. I just feel really upset. I'm not sure what to do now.

I understand entirely. I've had a fair number of exes, where I tried to do everything right and it just wasn't enough to them. Some of my exes, notably my very first, were very harsh about leaving me for someone else, though. I'm very glad she was at least up front, honest, and tried to be kind about it. There are certainly worse fates, though I do empathize with you completely. It's hard. It will be hard for a while. But life goes on.
I loved a girl dearly for five years, or at least as much as someone that young could, we dated for quite a while before she left me, as gently as she could, for someone else. It ached, felt empty, but I moved on. Just take some time to compose yourself. Don't be afraid to grieve, because yeah, it hurts bad. But I've been through this same routine, and let me tell you; it gets better. You will make it, and be stronger from the experience ^^

Thank you so much! ;-;
I just didn't think it would be me who was left behind like that.
Not to mention how I felt was entirely different- I mean, I had little crushes her and there on guys when I was younger, like 11 and 12 before I knew I was demiromantic bisexual, but I just really loved her and now I guess I have my first ex. Ah, I shouldn't be here moping around. At least I have other friends!

[ardentsongbird]

I have developed a new crush on this guy we will call Nick. My old feelings for M, (( A guy friend of mine)), have faded.
Today, we were talking in first period and he brought up the fact that his mom was the only person that was ever there for him. Then, smiled slightly and said, "Aww, I wanna give you the biggest hug right now!" His previous girlfriend told me that he never really liked hugs. Remember that.

The bell rang. So I stopped by my locker to grab my stuff for math, and then I see him. He says, "You can if you want." Nick scared me half to death. He walked me to my math class, as we discussed along the way. He's so cute, so funny, and very intelligent. I really like him. Then, one of my friends told me they would tell Nick to find me in the hallway and give me a hug. I told her I didn't really care what happened.
I'm upset that I won't get to see him tomorrow, but that's okay.

Any advice? He his literally my best-friend, and he seems to like me back, but I'm not sure.

[Fluffeh_Hedgehog]

This boy at my school :3 I just broke up my with who I THOUGH was going to be my High-School Sweet-Heart. He cheated on me >:U Anyway, every-time I see him at lunch, he stares at me And I stare back... and then my friend slaps me.

[Zadkiel]

ugh nevermind

[surfiez]

Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-; I'm pretty sure they both like me but do you think they do? UPDATE! Recently surfed with guy B and had a great time… I also saw him today at school and I noticed an occasional glance at me now and then... His friends also made fun of him when I asked for some paper… they said "guy B will give you some because he loves you!" I don't know if that was a joke or trying to embarrass him... But that's the first time they have said that and we've all sat together for a month now. Any help?

[Retrouvailles]

Is this a good or bad sign?

I sit by a guy that I like (I guess he's my friend) and it seems like I have to sit by him. He won't ever sit by me, I have to. Does this mean he's nervous? Because he always seems to smile at me when I come over.

[ardentsongbird]

I have developed a new crush on this guy we will call Nick. My old feelings for M, (( A guy friend of mine)), have faded.
Today, we were talking in first period and he brought up the fact that his mom was the only person that was ever there for him. Then, smiled slightly and said, "Aww, I wanna give you the biggest hug right now!" His previous girlfriend told me that he never really liked hugs. Remember that.

The bell rang. So I stopped by my locker to grab my stuff for math, and then I see him. He says, "You can if you want." Nick scared me half to death. He walked me to my math class, as we discussed along the way. He's so cute, so funny, and very intelligent. I really like him. Then, one of my friends told me they would tell Nick to find me in the hallway and give me a hug. I told her I didn't really care what happened.
I'm upset that I won't get to see him tomorrow, but that's okay.

Any advice? He his literally my best-friend, and he seems to like me back, but I'm not sure.

[queen quinn]

So, my best friend turns out to have a crush on me... He was playing truth or dare with the basket ball players and someone asked him who he liked, (I was not there, but my friend told me, she always tells the truth, and too much of it frankly) and he said, "I like -removed-, I cannot help it, she is just so pretty!" ! I already like someone, but I don't want to hurt him by saying no, because my friends convinced him to ask me out...?

[surfiez]

Help?

[Hano]

Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-; I'm pretty sure they both like me but do you think they do? UPDATE! Recently surfed with guy B and had a great time… I also saw him today at school and I noticed an occasional glance at me now and then... His friends also made fun of him when I asked for some paper… they said "guy B will give you some because he loves you!" I don't know if that was a joke or trying to embarrass him... But that's the first time they have said that and we've all sat together for a month now. Any help?

help??

Just try to spend time with both of them. Get to know them. Hang out with them and put yourself out there. See which of their personalities you mesh with. If you do that, you'll see which one is a better fit for you. There is no way to say which guy is better. That's all on you. But all you can do is really get to know them. I always say go for the one you consider to be a better friend.

I replied Surfiez C: