Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[ଳ omori ଳ]

Ok.

Yesterday.
Was.
AMAZING.

Me and Oli sat and had lunch on tables next to each other, and his and my friends
were throwing chips at each other. Best battle ever. Then, lots of his friends went
to hockey, so it was just me, Oli and a friend I shall refer to as N. We walked around
to say bye to them, and I gave him my phone so he could play FNAF 2. As the original
game didn't scare him, he didn't know what to expect but he was absolutely immersed
XD It was adorable. He wasn't watching where he was going so I kept having to steer
him, and it was super adorable. We sat on a bench and played it, but after 15m N
got bored and went away. So for the next 1/2 hour, me and Oli just sat on a bench
and play FNaF. We sat really close together and chatted, it was so adorable and
fun and he's becoimng one of my best friends. Also, he defends me when his
douchebag friends make fun of my period. I think I love him, but I'm not too sure.
And trust me, I don't use that word lightly. I've liked him for a year now - am I
just being stupid though? I'm confused. Boys confuse me.

[thunderofthedrum]

Ok.

Yesterday.
Was.
AMAZING.

Me and Oli sat and had lunch on tables next to each other, and his and my friends
were throwing chips at each other. Best battle ever. Then, lots of his friends went
to hockey, so it was just me, Oli and a friend I shall refer to as N. We walked around
to say bye to them, and I gave him my phone so he could play FNAF 2. As the original
game didn't scare him, he didn't know what to expect but he was absolutely immersed
XD It was adorable. He wasn't watching where he was going so I kept having to steer
him, and it was super adorable. We sat on a bench and played it, but after 15m N
got bored and went away. So for the next 1/2 hour, me and Oli just sat on a bench
and play FNaF. We sat really close together and chatted, it was so adorable and
fun and he's becoimng one of my best friends. Also, he defends me when his
douchebag friends make fun of my period. I think I love him, but I'm not too sure.
And trust me, I don't use that word lightly. I've liked him for a year now - am I
just being stupid though? I'm confused. Boys confuse me.

I find it weird that his friends would discuss your period at all, or know when you are on it. O.o'

Only people I mention to are my boyfriend (typically because I feel awful the first day and mention it) and perhaps a friend or two if we are hanging out and it feels relevant in some way (such as feeling icky or someone else brings it up first). But then, I've always been very private.

How do I get guys to stop flirting with me? I don't have any interest in them, and I have tried telling them I have a boyfriend, but they don't care.
And some good news is me, and my boyfriend had our first kiss the other day. We're like three months into our relationship, but he wants to take things slow, and I'm kind of glad he dose, because this is the first real relationship I have been in. My first kiss, too. Even though someone dared us to do it, but we kissed again afterwards.

That's frustrating to hear. Really, you shouldn't even have to say you have a boyfriend - saying you simply aren't interested ought to be enough, but sadly it often isn't. And that feels very disrespectful - it's like guys don't respect ME and that I'm not interested, but they will respect another GUY if I'm already his girlfriend?!?! It's ridiculous and sexist.

[ଳ omori ଳ]

Ok.

Yesterday.
Was.
AMAZING.

Me and Oli sat and had lunch on tables next to each other, and his and my friends
were throwing chips at each other. Best battle ever. Then, lots of his friends went
to hockey, so it was just me, Oli and a friend I shall refer to as N. We walked around
to say bye to them, and I gave him my phone so he could play FNAF 2. As the original
game didn't scare him, he didn't know what to expect but he was absolutely immersed
XD It was adorable. He wasn't watching where he was going so I kept having to steer
him, and it was super adorable. We sat on a bench and played it, but after 15m N
got bored and went away. So for the next 1/2 hour, me and Oli just sat on a bench
and play FNaF. We sat really close together and chatted, it was so adorable and
fun and he's becoimng one of my best friends. Also, he defends me when his
douchebag friends make fun of my period. I think I love him, but I'm not too sure.
And trust me, I don't use that word lightly. I've liked him for a year now - am I
just being stupid though? I'm confused. Boys confuse me.

I find it weird that his friends would discuss your period at all, or know when you are on it. O.o'

Only people I mention to are my boyfriend (typically because I feel awful the first day and mention it) and perhaps a friend or two if we are hanging out and it feels relevant in some way (such as feeling icky or someone else brings it up first). But then, I've always been very private.

Ahah, I hate his friends. I wouldn't tell them anything. But they can usually tell pretty easily - they're very aggravating, and I am very snappy. x3

[thunderofthedrum]

Okay, that makes more sense. I don't act any differently (aside from possible misery and pain/discomfort that first day).

[Mogwai]

I'm in an online relationship, and I have no clue what to do. My oldest sister is even married to someone she met on a video game. And my other sister (the middle sister, heh) has an online boyfriend which she's currently living with. I'm so unsure on how to get my relationship up and going. We can't go to the mall together, we can't do much. I'm also homeschooled, and stuff, if that's important. But anyway, we've been in a relationship for 6-7 months, all my other internet friends on Skype wouldn't stop shipping us, and it just kind of happened. We're currently happy in the relationship, but I want to go on dates and stuff with him. Do you guys have any suggestions for internet dates?

[Harpy•]

I'm in an online relationship, and I have no clue what to do. My oldest sister is even married to someone she met on a video game. And my other sister (the middle sister, heh) has an online boyfriend which she's currently living with. I'm so unsure on how to get my relationship up and going. We can't go to the mall together, we can't do much. I'm also homeschooled, and stuff, if that's important. But anyway, we've been in a relationship for 6-7 months, all my other internet friends on Skype wouldn't stop shipping us, and it just kind of happened. We're currently happy in the relationship, but I want to go on dates and stuff with him. Do you guys have any suggestions for internet dates?

Before I moved closer to my boyfriend (we now live together), we would have movie nights.
We'd pick a movie, pick a time, and start the movie at the same time while talking on the phone. It was pretty adorable :)

[Mogwai]

I'm in an online relationship, and I have no clue what to do. My oldest sister is even married to someone she met on a video game. And my other sister (the middle sister, heh) has an online boyfriend which she's currently living with. I'm so unsure on how to get my relationship up and going. We can't go to the mall together, we can't do much. I'm also homeschooled, and stuff, if that's important. But anyway, we've been in a relationship for 6-7 months, all my other internet friends on Skype wouldn't stop shipping us, and it just kind of happened. We're currently happy in the relationship, but I want to go on dates and stuff with him. Do you guys have any suggestions for internet dates?

Before I moved closer to my boyfriend (we now live together), we would have movie nights.
We'd pick a movie, pick a time, and start the movie at the same time while talking on the phone. It was pretty adorable

That's so cute <3. I think I'll suggest watching a movie tonight. Thanks~!

[thunderofthedrum]

I'm in an online relationship, and I have no clue what to do. My oldest sister is even married to someone she met on a video game. And my other sister (the middle sister, heh) has an online boyfriend which she's currently living with. I'm so unsure on how to get my relationship up and going. We can't go to the mall together, we can't do much. I'm also homeschooled, and stuff, if that's important. But anyway, we've been in a relationship for 6-7 months, all my other internet friends on Skype wouldn't stop shipping us, and it just kind of happened. We're currently happy in the relationship, but I want to go on dates and stuff with him. Do you guys have any suggestions for internet dates?

Before I moved closer to my boyfriend (we now live together), we would have movie nights.
We'd pick a movie, pick a time, and start the movie at the same time while talking on the phone. It was pretty adorable

Well, we have no idea how long your sister knew the guy only online, what the timeline was until marriage, or how long they have been married. And if your other sister is now living with the guy I wouldn't call him an 'online' boyfriend any more. That's cool that they both sound like they are in good relationships hopefully!

One question is how far away do you two live from each other? You say you can't go to the mall together so I wasn't sure if you were comparing that to a relationship in person or just saying you live close but that it would be difficult to make plans like that.

Anyway, the movie date is a decent idea - I do that with my guy. He's in the military so we Skype a lot and watch things on Netflix. We've watched a few episodes of like 4 different shows and there's one show we tried out together and like - we are even on season 2 now. We also text and I send him letters and the occasional package.

If you guys come up with some ideas, make sure you don't judge or throw any out too quickly. Get all the ideas out and then start to go over them. Do something you both are up for trying, and always make sure you feel comfortable with whatever you do.

[Retrouvailles]

Is this a good or bad sign?

I sit by a guy that I like (I guess he's my friend) and it seems like I have to sit by him. He won't ever sit by me, I have to. Does this mean he's nervous? Because he always seems to smile at me when I come over.

[ⓒⓞⓝⓣⓡⓐⓑⓐⓢⓢ]

i feel so happy right now ;w;
so, today during all of my classes, my crush (who is also my best friend) and i were emailing eachother because we don't have any classes together. right after third hour, i saw him in the hall, and when i did my signature hair fluff to him, his jaw basically dropped when he saw that i was wearing eyeshadow. he kinda started blushing when he saw me <333
then during my fourth hour, my friend said that she saw him and i walking together - and she saw his reaction to how i looked. so, here's the conversation i had with her about my crush...

her: i saw you two walking together...
me: ...?
her: oh, come on! you two have the best friendship ever!
me: *curses under breath*
her: you know its trueeee
me: him and i have a one-hundred percent brother-sister relationship.
her: *whispers* siblings don't look at eachother the way you two do...
me: I HEARD THAT.

my school has multiple ships
...and me and my crush is their biggest ship
*screams internally*