Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[surfiez]

Can anyone help me with my problem please?

[Retrouvailles]

Is this a good or bad sign?

I sit by a guy that I like (I guess he's my friend) and it seems like I have to sit by him. He won't ever sit by me, I have to. Does this mean he's nervous? Because he always seems to smile at me when I come over.

[surfiez]

Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-; I'm pretty sure they both like me but do you think they do? UPDATE! Recently surfed with guy B and had a great time… I also saw him today at school and I noticed an occasional glance at me now and then... His friends also made fun of him when I asked for some paper… they said "guy B will give you some because he loves you!" I don't know if that was a joke or trying to embarrass him... But that's the first time they have said that and we've all sat together for a month now. Any help?

help??

[Hano]

Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-; I'm pretty sure they both like me but do you think they do? UPDATE! Recently surfed with guy B and had a great time… I also saw him today at school and I noticed an occasional glance at me now and then... His friends also made fun of him when I asked for some paper… they said "guy B will give you some because he loves you!" I don't know if that was a joke or trying to embarrass him... But that's the first time they have said that and we've all sat together for a month now. Any help?

help??

Just try to spend time with both of them. Get to know them. Hang out with them and put yourself out there. See which of their personalities you mesh with. If you do that, you'll see which one is a better fit for you. There is no way to say which guy is better. That's all on you. But all you can do is really get to know them. I always say go for the one you consider to be a better friend.

[quitting,,]

Well.. I'm pretty upset right now.
I don't really know what to think right now. My ex girlfriend broke up with me this morning- I loved her so much though I guess I should have seen it coming. For the past few weeks she was growing more distant to me, and being the good girlfriend I was, I would occasionally ask her if something was wrong or if I did something.

Turns out she's likes someone else. I'm not sure who.. Though its obvious she tried her best to be as kind as she could about it. I just feel really upset. I'm not sure what to do now.

[❝steℓℓar❞]

Man this is getting sort of frustrating. I've just about completely lost all hope. I've been attempting to talk to my crush for about a week now but he leaves too fast to give me a chance. His locker is across the hall from mine which would seem to make it easy for me to walk over and tell him I like him. Well apparently not. Every day I've tried, he's already left by the time I get to my locker. Hopefully this gets better. Also I need a little help on what to say. . . Maybe just a simple "I like you". . ? But what if he just looks at me weirdly? Advice?? Thanks in advance ^w^

[JustDucky]

How do I get guys to stop flirting with me? I don't have any interest in them, and I have tried telling them I have a boyfriend, but they don't care.
And some good news is me, and my boyfriend had our first kiss the other day. We're like three months into our relationship, but he wants to take things slow, and I'm kind of glad he dose, because this is the first real relationship I have been in. My first kiss, too. Even though someone dared us to do it, but we kissed again afterwards.

[malteser]

How do I get guys to stop flirting with me? I don't have any interest in them, and I have tried telling them I have a boyfriend, but they don't care.
And some good news is me, and my boyfriend had our first kiss the other day. We're like three months into our relationship, but he wants to take things slow, and I'm kind of glad he dose, because this is the first real relationship I have been in. My first kiss, too. Even though someone dared us to do it, but we kissed again afterwards.

My boyfriend wants to kiss me but
I want to
But I dont
Lifes so complicated >.<
But I hope you and your boyfriend have a great time together xx

[GIGABITE]

Well.. I'm pretty upset right now.
I don't really know what to think right now. My ex girlfriend broke up with me this morning- I loved her so much though I guess I should have seen it coming. For the past few weeks she was growing more distant to me, and being the good girlfriend I was, I would occasionally ask her if something was wrong or if I did something.

Turns out she's likes someone else. I'm not sure who.. Though its obvious she tried her best to be as kind as she could about it. I just feel really upset. I'm not sure what to do now.

I understand entirely. I've had a fair number of exes, where I tried to do everything right and it just wasn't enough to them. Some of my exes, notably my very first, were very harsh about leaving me for someone else, though. I'm very glad she was at least up front, honest, and tried to be kind about it. There are certainly worse fates, though I do empathize with you completely. It's hard. It will be hard for a while. But life goes on.
I loved a girl dearly for five years, or at least as much as someone that young could, we dated for quite a while before she left me, as gently as she could, for someone else. It ached, felt empty, but I moved on. Just take some time to compose yourself. Don't be afraid to grieve, because yeah, it hurts bad. But I've been through this same routine, and let me tell you; it gets better. You will make it, and be stronger from the experience ^^

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no one has really told me anything about my thing, kinda frustrated[/quote]
What ever one asks you first. I have the same problem... If you like both maybe the 2nd one is the best for you. im thinking guy B for me will end up being the guy even though I really want guy A ;-; listen you can't just wait around for your prince to come. Some people might actually like you and you don't know because your blinded by a what could be. I'm realizing that I might never be with guy A and its heart breaking yet I'm starting to find other guys. Sorry im trying to help you and link it to my problem at the same time XD guy B for me is showing that he is more nice and open about it. Guy A for me is either shy or doesn't see an us even though we flirt and stuff... Guy B is exactly like your 2nd guy so if you like your 2nd guy then go for it! Your first guy isn't going anywhere [/quote]
wow thanks :3