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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby s y n » Sun Sep 11, 2011 8:18 am

-Firesong- wrote:
I'm not sure how many dances we'll have this year. There's Homecoming, which is in two weeks, and I'm terrified of it. Not about the getting a date bit, I have a boyfriend and he's asked me to go, but the dance itself. I can't dance to save my life, and I really hate wearing dresses. -sighgrumbles- And then there's my parents, who are only the strictest people in the world. So I'm going to be sleeping over at my friend Jess's house for Homecoming. But I guess it's just the whole dance thing that's freaking me out here.




Don't worry about it! I was terrified for last night's dance, seeing as it would be my first, and I hate to wear dresses and I dance terribly. I ended up wearing a dress, and there wasn't actually much dancing. Most of the time we just randomly stood in groups or in one huge group and jumped around and stuff. The only real dancing is when you get to a slow song. With slow songs, everyone at my dance just basically moved really slowly and in a slow circle. You don't have to dance, either! I stood around most of the time since I got tired of jumping in high-heels xD.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Mardigraskit » Sun Sep 11, 2011 8:43 am

I need advice...

Alright, before I go into anything, Z is my best friend, female, J is my other friend, female, G is the guy, and K is J's older brother.
Z and I went skating last night. We met up with K, J, and G. K hit me in the face, then ran off. G helped me up, and stuff, and then I asked for them to watch me go around the rink. I went around the rink in a few seconds and then did a split in my skates, G helped me up and then said he wanted me to help him skate. I helped him get faster at skating. When all five of us were skating around last night, G grabbed me hand and pulled be away from the others, not letting me let my hand drop to my side. We were very close in contact and I was really embarassed. When I did get to let go, I tripped and stumbled onto him, causing an awkward silence. Z and J started to tease us.
Whenever we were leaving, G asked for my number. After we left, J and K told G that I liked him and that I got a fuzzy feeling around him. So, today, I have a long phone coversation with Z, then G calls and we have a three-way conversation. We all hang up and then G calls me a few minutes ago. We talk for a bit, he asks me to go with him somewhere [corn maze] on Halloween, and then he says J told him something last night about me and him, so I made an excuse that my dogs were fighting and that I'd call him back in a few hours.
This is my first real, actual crush. The others I just thought were cute and nice, but I get a really warm feeling and butterflies around this guy... and I don't think my parents or friends want me in a relationship, and I don't think I'm ready for a relationship either. I don't know what I'd say to him if I was. I'm kinda scared about this, and my heart is still racing.
What should I do ?
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Official-Enjolras » Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:10 am

Grrr I bet that eigth grader has a plan cause I kinda like him now! >.> I'm so angry with my self right now
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Sadie~Bronson~252 » Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:30 am

I'm so nervous for the Homecoming Dance this year. I'm going to ask this guy in my class, only he's NEVER gone to the dances, and he rarely even talks. He's nice and everything, but he just won't go, and I don't even know how to ask him (homecoming is on October 1st.). I mean, it's our Junior year, there Isn't much time left. Maybe if he's not going, I invite him over to play guitar hero or something. He could play guitar with my brother.

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby leah<3 » Sun Sep 11, 2011 12:27 pm

I<3TAYLORSWIFT wrote:
I<3TAYLORSWIFT wrote:
SlatePVST wrote:I gave you advice before, and you constantly post this same question numerous times, so it is a little annoying..sorry.

im sorry but now i actually really really like his friend and i think he likes me back he always looks at me weird like i like you werid and he always looks to see if im at my locker? does that mean he likes me?
i sorta still like my next door neighbour well okay i do but i think i like the guy at my school more

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Got any answers??


can someone please help me i really like this opther guy but i still like my next door neighbour
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby nikilynn12 » Sun Sep 11, 2011 12:30 pm

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nikilynn12 wrote:Hi ok SOOOO we have been in school for like hmm ten days now and there is this guy that sits in front of me in English :) He is really cute (well to me anyway although my friend laughed at me lol) well we had only ever really talked once, and today we had to pass up papers and i had set it on his shoulder because he hadnt grabbed them and he laughed and said "your names "Insert name here" right? and i was like yeah and he said it was an awesome name and gave me this REALLY cute smile and then he kept turning his head back and kind of glancing at me. And then he kind of kept up with me in the hallway and was talking to me and then i turned a different way, but the point is..... :) :D (thats my point) lol although i am not that pretty (in my opinion) so i am not sure what he thinks of me lol what should i do? oh and i am not assertive in anyway so going up and saying anything like that is not wanted as advise lol thanks :)


Haha! Why don't you think your pretty? I used to kinda think that, and then I found out 3 people had a crush on me. I was like :shock: Yousaywhatnow?!?! And when I did that my friend was like, "Why are you surprised?" And I was like, "Because I'm not all that attracive. Plus I can't pronounce the letter R!" I really can't. Example- Bored and bird sound the same when I speak.Then she said, "Are you kidding me?! Your like 85 pounds, have long hair, you are hilarious and buetiful!" Again, :shock: Then we kinda got into a half arguement me saying that she was lying, and her saying she wasn't. But after that, I never had low self esteem. I mean, I'm not like, "I'm so pretty! Who couldn't love me?" but I don't think of myelf of ugly or anything anymore. My advice is don't look down on yourself. Whether this particular guy likes you or not, don't think that your not pretty, or aren't good at anything. Be proud of who you are! :)



I really dont know why i think iam not pretty, i think its just because i have always been really self concious about anything and everything about me. idk, i am also the kind of person who always cares what other people think about me, i HATE that i am this way but i just cant control it or think otherwise. And i have never heard someone say they like me for any reason, so hmm idk maybe i am the way i feel who knows? Well anyway thank you i appreciate your advise :)
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby leah<3 » Sun Sep 11, 2011 12:34 pm

im sorry but now i actually really really like his friend and i think he likes me back he always looks at me weird like i like you werid and he always looks to see if im at my locker? does that mean he likes me?
i sorta still like my next door neighbour well okay i do but i think i like the guy at my school more

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can someone please help me i really like this opther guy but i still like my next door neighbour[/quote]

HELP ME PLEASE IM REALLY STUCK I WAS CRYING LAST NIGHT COZ I DIDNT NO WHAT TO DO?
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby nikilynn12 » Sun Sep 11, 2011 1:01 pm

I<3TAYLORSWIFT wrote:im sorry but now i actually really really like his friend and i think he likes me back he always looks at me weird like i like you werid and he always looks to see if im at my locker? does that mean he likes me?
i sorta still like my next door neighbour well okay i do but i think i like the guy at my school more

<3<3<3<3<3<3<3




can someone please help me i really like this opther guy but i still like my next door neighbour[/quote]

HELP ME PLEASE IM REALLY STUCK I WAS CRYING LAST NIGHT COZ I DIDNT NO WHAT TO DO?[/quote]


Um well i have read over your issue a few times and it seems really confusing, like i really doesnt make sense at all. So you like this guy but now you like his friend and he looks at you like ur weird but stares at u when ur by the locker. Yeah um no offense but i dont rlly think he likes you that much if he is looking at u like that. and if you like ur next door neighbor then go for it, why not. And another tip, if something is bothering you please dont always come asking random ppl on the internet, that is not always a good thing to resort too. Good luck with your situation.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Linsang » Sun Sep 11, 2011 1:02 pm

I<3TAYLORSWIFT wrote:im sorry but now i actually really really like his friend and i think he likes me back he always looks at me weird like i like you werid and he always looks to see if im at my locker? does that mean he likes me?
i sorta still like my next door neighbour well okay i do but i think i like the guy at my school more

<3<3<3<3<3<3<3




can someone please help me i really like this opther guy but i still like my next door neighbour[/quote]

HELP ME PLEASE IM REALLY STUCK I WAS CRYING LAST NIGHT COZ I DIDNT NO WHAT TO DO?[/quote]
You've posted this many times already.
Look, most people on this thread are teenagers, and we don't have a ton of life experience. Find an adult you trust, because we're not the best ones to help you.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

Postby Dangitbobby » Sun Sep 11, 2011 1:06 pm

I just love how I can give advice to a lot of people, yet I can't give any advice to myself. xD
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Food for thought:
What will you do when there's an evil that can't be beaten with justice?"

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