Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Always.]

My friend has been flirting with me for like a week. Yesterday she told me she loves me...yep. SHE. I'm straight...yeah...this is awkward. Excuse me while I crawl into a dark corner...forever.

[center]It may be awkward. But, think of what she is going through. You're experiencing a cakewalk in comparison. For her, there is no "win" scenario. So, yes. I may be awkward for you, but she's probably experiencing a rollercoaster of emotion that's not exactly easy in the first place, no less towards someone that doesn't share the emotions.


I understand, I feel bad because she's always really sweet, complimenting me and such, but I know that I'm straight. She'll find someone eventually, she has a great personality, but i felt bad telling her it wasn't me.

[Always.]

So, with a much more relevant topic, there's a guy. I know, I know, of COURSE there's a guy. Well, yes. Obviously though, he's not just any guy. He's my best friend. He's the person I'd do anything for. He's the love of my life. Please, excuse the cornyness of that statement, but I don't have any other way to put it. We talk every day for hours on end, whenever I see his face, I can't help but smile like a moron. He's always flirty with me, staring into my eyes as we talk, leaning against me when we talk, giving me his jacket when I'm cold, things like that. I know that he had a giant crush on me in 6th grade, but I didn't like him then. By 7th grade, he had given up on me, but my feelings were just beginning. It's the end of 8th grade now and my feelings just keep growing. All of my friends say that they think we're going to date eventually, so do my teachers. Many of my teachers have told me before that they think we're going to be married someday ( ). There's one problem though, he has a girlfriend. Lately though, he's been complaining about her constantly, although he won't break up with her as of now. Apparently he told one of my friends that he would date me when he was old enough to drive (next year!) but I don't know if he'll feel the same way then (even though I have no idea how he feels...). Every now and then I will just catch him gazing at me, a look of curiosity and confusion upon his face. When I ask him what he's thinking about he'll glance away and say that it's nothing. Any advice or ideas on what to do about this would be great!! Thanks for reading my extremely long dilemma...bye!!

You can't really do anything. He has a girlfriend. It's off limits until otherwise. If you think they'll break up, then wait it out.

I'm pretty sure they will, since he's at the point where he says that he "only has a girlfriend one day a week" since he only sees her on Sunday, and he forgets about her often, I just have no idea what to do after that ends.

[ღ Mother Hallow ღ]

Is it normal to like someone but then at different times like someone else a bit more, then less then back again...? Switch it around and it's still true.I can't decide who to like

[cautiousculpeo]

Is it just me, or is it awkward for every girl to be cat called in a hallway.
I know your probably thinking, he was probably meaning another girl, you just took it the wrong way
But if someone walks down the hall, points to you and says, that girl is hot! when you are the only girl in the hallway.
I highly doute he was refuting to my friend John as being hot... Or my friend Flyman. Both guys. We were the only ones in the hall...

So, do I have a right to be awkward? How should I handle that when it comes across me again.

[Outlander]

So, with a much more relevant topic, there's a guy. I know, I know, of COURSE there's a guy. Well, yes. Obviously though, he's not just any guy. He's my best friend. He's the person I'd do anything for. He's the love of my life. Please, excuse the cornyness of that statement, but I don't have any other way to put it. We talk every day for hours on end, whenever I see his face, I can't help but smile like a moron. He's always flirty with me, staring into my eyes as we talk, leaning against me when we talk, giving me his jacket when I'm cold, things like that. I know that he had a giant crush on me in 6th grade, but I didn't like him then. By 7th grade, he had given up on me, but my feelings were just beginning. It's the end of 8th grade now and my feelings just keep growing. All of my friends say that they think we're going to date eventually, so do my teachers. Many of my teachers have told me before that they think we're going to be married someday ( ). There's one problem though, he has a girlfriend. Lately though, he's been complaining about her constantly, although he won't break up with her as of now. Apparently he told one of my friends that he would date me when he was old enough to drive (next year!) but I don't know if he'll feel the same way then (even though I have no idea how he feels...). Every now and then I will just catch him gazing at me, a look of curiosity and confusion upon his face. When I ask him what he's thinking about he'll glance away and say that it's nothing. Any advice or ideas on what to do about this would be great!! Thanks for reading my extremely long dilemma...bye!!

You can't really do anything. He has a girlfriend. It's off limits until otherwise. If you think they'll break up, then wait it out.

I'm pretty sure they will, since he's at the point where he says that he "only has a girlfriend one day a week" since he only sees her on Sunday, and he forgets about her often, I just have no idea what to do after that ends.

Just because he only sees her one day a week does not mean they're on rocky terms (That could be seen other ways). I only see Ninja once a week, and while it's not ideal, I still love her.

[cautiousculpeo]

Is it just me, or is it awkward for every girl to be cat called in a hallway.
I know your probably thinking, he was probably meaning another girl, you just took it the wrong way
But if someone walks down the hall, points to you and says, that girl is hot! when you are the only girl in the hallway.
I highly doute he was refuting to my friend John as being hot... Or my friend Flyman. Both guys. We were the only ones in the hall...

So, do I have a right to be awkward? How should I handle that when it comes across me again.

Simply bumping to a new page. Since it's alowed to be once on a page.

[kafka]

My crush admires my drawings <3
We had art for specialist and I heard him say "Isabel will be so pro at this specialist!"
He sat down next to me and flicked through my art project book one day Cx
The other day he sat beside me to sit beside his best friend in specialist and when I started drawing all he did was watch me. It was really awkward, even when he knew I noticed he was watching he didn't stop.. He commented on stuff and asked what I was drawing. He said that it was so hard to draw perfect stars (referring to my picture) and I showed him a technique ^o^ Then I started drawing feathers and the teacher came and told him he had to draw the outline first so he turned over his sheet of paper and started to draw...feather...<3
And last specialist class I was bored so I doodled on my folder a random girl. He asked me what I was doing and I was all "just drawing..?" Then he told me it looked gay and I told him he looked gay. Then he said he was joking and it looked cool...-speechless-...

But he likes this other girl in the class next door who he's close friends with, and her name is the same as mine ;n;

[dead poets society]

My best friend (who happens to be my crush, as well) is so amazing in every way. He always knows exactly what to say when to say it, and I feel like we've known each other forever even though its only been about six months now. He has made my life worth living more than it was. I make myself look beautiful now because I have someone to dress up for. My entire outlook on life has changed because of him. I have a better attitude for life in general.

but...

I break rules for him, too. Like during English. I totally respect my English teacher, she's awesome and has a great personality, and often times I'll hang around after class to chat with her. There is only one rule she asks that we follow: no phones during class. Everyone follows this because they respect her, but me... Ha, I'm so in love that texting during English is just an obstacle. It's harder, but hey, it's worth it. Whenever I think about it, I feel bad. She hasn't caught me yet, but I know she'll be disappointed if she does. It may not seem like a big deal, but to me it is. I text him during all of my classes, so I usually miss assignments and things like that. It's really hard and I need a hug because its getting to the point where I don't know what to do. There is something going on between us, it's insanely obvious to anyone who stands near us. So I don't want to not text him because I want him to like me and still want me, but yeah... any advice would be helpful. thanks guys!

[vvoland]

Is it just me, or is it awkward for every girl to be cat called in a hallway.
I know your probably thinking, he was probably meaning another girl, you just took it the wrong way
But if someone walks down the hall, points to you and says, that girl is hot! when you are the only girl in the hallway.
I highly doute he was refuting to my friend John as being hot... Or my friend Flyman. Both guys. We were the only ones in the hall...

So, do I have a right to be awkward? How should I handle that when it comes across me again.

Simply bumping to a new page. Since it's alowed to be once on a page.

Nah, it's always very awkward. When it's happened to me, I'm always wearing a very short skirt, which is unfortunate, and then I never want to wear that skirt again... Though I do. I got the whistle I've only ever seen in old cartoons ^-^;
I don't think the awkwardness will ever go away.

[dead poets society]

Is it just me, or is it awkward for every girl to be cat called in a hallway.
I know your probably thinking, he was probably meaning another girl, you just took it the wrong way
But if someone walks down the hall, points to you and says, that girl is hot! when you are the only girl in the hallway.
I highly doute he was refuting to my friend John as being hot... Or my friend Flyman. Both guys. We were the only ones in the hall...

So, do I have a right to be awkward? How should I handle that when it comes across me again.

Simply bumping to a new page. Since it's alowed to be once on a page.

This actually happens to me quite often. Whenever an older guy does it to me, I just yell back "Heck ya I am!" After I do this a couple times they leave me alone because I'm no longer fun to tease. Maybe you can try this if you aren't too out of your comfort zone. ^.^