Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[thunderofthedrum]

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Please don't over post....its taking chances from others


Make sure the like u before u decide

I'm pretty sure they do and im not over posting… im posting my problem once per page and this is only the 2nd repost. I've been helping people with their problems

What Claws meant is that you double posted instead of just editing your post to include everything.

[JustDucky]

So my boyfriend made plans to come see me yesterday, and instead he went to his grandmas. His grandma lives pretty close to ex-girlfriend, and he said that he was talking to her mom. Well she went, and said he was over at her house, and gave her his phone number, that didn't work, and left. He is a pretty friendly person, but I don't know.... I trust him, and everything, but I almost broke up with him today over it.
He kept saying he loves me, and stuff. Well he told his ex-girlfriend that, too. How am I supposed to know that's not an act?

[kierran.]

Hey, can someone PM me? Thanks :3

[Retrouvailles]

So my boyfriend made plans to come see me yesterday, and instead he went to his grandmas. His grandma lives pretty close to ex-girlfriend, and he said that he was talking to her mom. Well she went, and said he was over at her house, and gave her his phone number, that didn't work, and left. He is a pretty friendly person, but I don't know.... I trust him, and everything, but I almost broke up with him today over it.
He kept saying he loves me, and stuff. Well he told his ex-girlfriend that, too. How am I supposed to know that's not an act?

What you can do is wait a day to see what happens. If you hear any other things about it, I'd break up with him. He seems like he can't choose who he loves.

[JustDucky]

So my boyfriend made plans to come see me yesterday, and instead he went to his grandmas. His grandma lives pretty close to ex-girlfriend, and he said that he was talking to her mom. Well she went, and said he was over at her house, and gave her his phone number, that didn't work, and left. He is a pretty friendly person, but I don't know.... I trust him, and everything, but I almost broke up with him today over it.
He kept saying he loves me, and stuff. Well he told his ex-girlfriend that, too. How am I supposed to know that's not an act?

What you can do is wait a day to see what happens. If you hear any other things about it, I'd break up with him. He seems like he can't choose who he loves.

Thanks. I don't think I will break uo with him, because of what other people are saying. I know all his ex-girlfriend is trying to do is break us up, and I'm determined not to let her. I just found out that he told his cousin that he loves me, and me only, and don't want anyone else, because I'm all he needs. He was ashamed to tell his cousins he was even with his ex-girlfriend, because he used to be a player. I don't think he would do that to me, and to even tell his cousins about me, and say he was in love with me, was kind of a big deal.

[thunderofthedrum]

So my boyfriend made plans to come see me yesterday, and instead he went to his grandmas. His grandma lives pretty close to ex-girlfriend, and he said that he was talking to her mom. Well she went, and said he was over at her house, and gave her his phone number, that didn't work, and left. He is a pretty friendly person, but I don't know.... I trust him, and everything, but I almost broke up with him today over it.
He kept saying he loves me, and stuff. Well he told his ex-girlfriend that, too. How am I supposed to know that's not an act?

Because it's NOT an act. People don't typically 'act' like they love someone. He likely felt he DID love her at the time, then as he learned more he realized he wasn't as interested in her as he thought. That's life. That's how it often goes.

Granted, I'm guessing you mean he said that before you two were together, regarding the ex? Your post was very hard to understand.

[andy;]

I'm a new student at my school and I've had people come up and talk to me, but now I've fit back in and strangers don't usually come to me anymore. Today, at lunch, a guy in my lunch period decided to sit next to me. The guys around him were not his friends and I took more interest in their antics than he did. Well, about halfway through lunch, he turns and starts trying to start a conversation. These were general questions that I always find hard to answer. My favourite animal (I don't wanna be known as the odd fish girl, so I told him it was a cat), favourite band, and favourite colour. I told him that I didn't have one, and he tried to push blue-green as my favourite colour. About that time I realized his eyes were blue-green. It has to be a coincidence, right? He kept talking until the bell rang and found me in the hall on the way to fifth period. I didn't really seem too friendly to him the entire time and I found our conversation awkward, yet he still caught up with me? Could he possibly like me? Most people aren't like this around me, especially since I've finally gotten used to everything and have a group of friends that I talk to during lunch. What do you think?

[JustDucky]

So my boyfriend made plans to come see me yesterday, and instead he went to his grandmas. His grandma lives pretty close to ex-girlfriend, and he said that he was talking to her mom. Well she went, and said he was over at her house, and gave her his phone number, that didn't work, and left. He is a pretty friendly person, but I don't know.... I trust him, and everything, but I almost broke up with him today over it.
He kept saying he loves me, and stuff. Well he told his ex-girlfriend that, too. How am I supposed to know that's not an act?

Because it's NOT an act. People don't typically 'act' like they love someone. He likely felt he DID love her at the time, then as he learned more he realized he wasn't as interested in her as he thought. That's life. That's how it often goes.

Granted, I'm guessing you mean he said that before you two were together, regarding the ex? Your post was very hard to understand.

I know it was an act for her, because he would always talk about her behind her back. And he cheated, and he would come tell me about it, and sometimes he wouldn't feel bad at all. He was only with her for two reasons. He wanted to make me jealous, and for sex. Though he never did get that second one from her.
He broke up with her for me I guess, and he lead her on, and she still has feelings. He talks about her nonstop, but it's mostly stuff like "she was trying to add me on Facebook," or something.
I know now I just have to trust that he loves me back, and trust he isn't doing anything with her.

[[x]]

My crush (kinda -itscomplicated-) and I were chatting and joking during class with our other friends, and after a while, when we were cleaning up, he turned his ENTIRE body forwards to face me to ask me a question! It was such a warming feeling because no one really respects me / likes me, and that's the first time someone has ever done that to me!
Haha it was nice to see. It was such a small gesture, but I was probably blushing cX

[fuzzyanni12]

I have a problem I don't know how to deal with....[here's the story]

So on Friday last week there was a school dance and one of my guy friends(j) asked me if was going and I said Idk ..and j said if you go ill go so I said okay and j gave me his number just to make sure that if I couldn't go I could call him anyway I was texting him and we were just chatting and he gave me a Nick name then at the dance j danced for a while and kept leaving and because I didn't feel good ..(i didn't tell him that) I wasn't dancing and at one time j went by the stands with his hands on his face like what am I doing sort of look and then he found out I didn't feel good and I told him my legs felt with wobbly like hello and then he picked me up and carried me ...

And today we haven't talked at all and there was a play going on at the school and I went and he was there I also forgot to mention that j and this other girl like each other so it's awkward for me... any way I was giving huggs to my friends I waited for him to hug me be cause he always hugs me and then I saw him run into the cafeteria where it was pich black and no one was there he looked like he was crying but I don't know why but I think it's me and he doesn't know what to do about the awkward Ness so what should I do ?? I need help!!