Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[thunderofthedrum]

chicken smoothie ...trade were long distance

Ah, gotcha, so this has been a really recent thing!

[claws990p]

naw ....about 2 months already

[JustDucky]

Christmas is almost here, and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend. For starters we're pretty serious, and only been together three months as of tomorrow. I know him pretty well, as we were best friends before we started dating, but I can't seem to find the perfect gift. Any ideas?

[surfiez]

Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-;

[JustDucky]

Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-;

If you had a crush on someone first, and realise you're getting feelings for someone else, then you're starting to accept the fact that you are just friends. Guy B seems to care about you, if he gave you his jacket. I suggest guy B, but if you would choose guy A over guy B, then go for it. Ask him out, or tell him you like him, because it will get that off your chest, and you know if he's not interested, then you always got guy B.

[Aaron✦]

☁ So, me and this girl have been sort-of-dating but not for maybe 3 months now? As in, we do couple things but neither of us have ever technically asked the other out.

Anyway, almost every week I sleep around her house on Saturday. This Thursday I mentioned I might not this week, and she said okay and the conversation moved on. When she woke up on Saturday she asked if I was coming, and I said no, and she just said "oh fine". I said, you know, I'd mentioned I wasn't coming before, but she hasn't really spoken to me since. I never start conversations, not with her or anyone, it's a big thing with my anxiety, and she understands this. I don't know if she's just not talking to me 'cause she's mad, in which case I just want to leave her be, but I don't know how to fix things. I honestly can't get her out of my head.

-sighs-
Any advice?

[[x]]

☁ So, me and this girl have been sort-of-dating but not for maybe 3 months now? As in, we do couple things but neither of us have ever technically asked the other out.

Anyway, almost every week I sleep around her house on Saturday. This Thursday I mentioned I might not this week, and she said okay and the conversation moved on. When she woke up on Saturday she asked if I was coming, and I said no, and she just said "oh fine". I said, you know, I'd mentioned I wasn't coming before, but she hasn't really spoken to me since. I never start conversations, not with her or anyone, it's a big thing with my anxiety, and she understands this. I don't know if she's just not talking to me 'cause she's mad, in which case I just want to leave her be, but I don't know how to fix things. I honestly can't get her out of my head.

-sighs-
Any advice?

If you've mentioned to her that you never start conversations because of anxiety, maybe starting a conversation with her will show her she means a lot to you, enough to go out of your comfort zone. She might think that you aren't going to her house because of another girl, or you just aren't interested in her anymore (girls can be pretty irrational). Assuming you aren't going because of a busy schedule, you could take time out of your week to do something romantic and unexpected (like formally ask her out?)

[thunderofthedrum]

Christmas is almost here, and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend. For starters we're pretty serious, and only been together three months as of tomorrow. I know him pretty well, as we were best friends before we started dating, but I can't seem to find the perfect gift. Any ideas?

Honestly, I sat down and brainstormed based on my guy's interests. He's mentioned reading a couple things, I know what he studied in college, and he commented on a couple things I've showed him in the past (such as a shirt). But generally, just sit down and jot down his interests and go from there.

For example, I'm getting iPhone cords and an organizational thing for my best friend (boring, but with no organizational skills and a kitten who enjoys chewing, these are good). For my other friend, I found a couple movies of her favorite actor that I don't think she has and I'm getting a pair of those plastic travely wine glasses (we're in our mid-twenties).

[Aaron✦]

If you've mentioned to her that you never start conversations because of anxiety, maybe starting a conversation with her will show her she means a lot to you, enough to go out of your comfort zone. She might think that you aren't going to her house because of another girl, or you just aren't interested in her anymore (girls can be pretty irrational). Assuming you aren't going because of a busy schedule, you could take time out of your week to do something romantic and unexpected (like formally ask her out?)

☁ I took your advice, spoke to her, and it was almost exactly like you said lol. She was surprised and pleased I started one for the first time in forever, and thought I was upset at her and not interested in coming over any more.
I might just follow the end of your advice too. If she's worried I'm going some where, it might just be time to show her I'm not

Thanks ever so much for your help!

[Retrouvailles]

So today, we had a special thing going on in the Gym. So I sat with the new guy again today. Instead he kind of ignored me and talked to his other girl, which was fine. When he got up to go to the office I told the girl "you should go out with him." She said ewww no, so I told her I really really liked him, and she gig led all girly like. After he came back they had to go to the Lunch room, and when they were walking away the girl pointed at me, but I didn't hear what she was saying. Does the new guy like me as a friend? Do you think the girl said that I liked him? I need help ;-;.