Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[ardentsongbird]

For some, strange reason, I think my crush finds me annoying...
The other day, I over-heard him talking negatively about me. I couldn't tell if he was talking about me or another person, but the information came in close contrast with me. Also, he doesn't talk to me like he used to. He seems to be, avoiding me. We make eye contact, and it lasts for about five seconds before we break, but it makes me feel uncomfortable to see a look in his eyes. I don't know, it's hard to explain. Could someone give me any advice about how I could deal with this? Thank you in advance!

I also have this other guy friend, let's call him DJ, and he is really sweet and positive around me. He walks with me down the hallway, and likes to keep conversations going. Me and a couple of other friends think that he likes me. Then, I have a feeling that he is just a good friend. I'm still debating wether I have feelings for him or not =P

Since you have talked to him before maybe now would be a good time to ask him about why he's been being mean to you. But, since you don't know if he was actually talking about you try not to talk to him and just leaving him alone. That way, if he was talking about someone else he will try to talk to you again, otherwise, he might have been talking about you. If that is the case then just ignore him, it's never good to have someone mean in your life because they might bring you down. Hope I helped!

Thank you for the advice! We talked a bit today, so that cleared up some of my doubts ^-^

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[ଳ omori ଳ]

Ugh. I am so confused.

I honestly don't know what he thinks of me. On the one hand, he's been totally sweet and chatty and giggly and hangs out and starts conversations. We have inside jokes, and he seems to blush a bit when I'm around him. He tried to crouch under mine and my (short) friend's umbrella earlier, it was so cute ^o^
On the other hand, he randomly ignores me sometimes for no apparent reason. One day we're best buddies, the next he hates me.
He also jeeps saying things like "Sorry Alice, I'm taken!" and then snogs a coin or something like that. T__T

He knows I like him. So does half the school; gossip gets around fast. What do? S:

[vulture,]

I should feel horrible, but I don't.

Maybe it's because I really don't like her, because she hangs all over him like a baby monkey, because I see how annoyed he is with her.

So, here's the deal. I heard today that my crush had a date to winter formal, which was a bit depressing, not going to lie. I was pretty torn up about it, since I had planned to ask him whenever I saw him today. However, when I saw him today, we ended up spending half an hour together, just talking and goofing around. We got talking about winter formal at which point he asked me if I was going with anyone. (It's a girls choice dance) So, I told him that I wasn't, I was just going with friends and goofing around. At that point, he mentioned that he was going with "a friend", just as that. Just friends. He was not at all interested in her in any other way shape or form. I just said that we'd see each other there and could hang out. I wanted to just ask him to go with me, but didn't want to create any drama. We carried on with our conversation until one of my other guy friends slides into the seat next to my crush. He gives me this sly grin and asks me, loudly I might add, if I had asked my crush to winter formal yet. Long story short, I asked him, as I couldn't escape, and he grabbed my hands and said that he'd "love to". Then he went on to tell me some random things and yeah.

Basically, he said that he would go with me. The other girl would just be there as a friend. But, he'd be my date. He seemed really happy that I had asked him. My friends had a bet going, apparently, that he was going to die of suspense before I actually built up the courage to ask him.

I feel like this is wrong, since I'm not sure if the other girl thought they were going as dates or not. I feel really bad, but on the other hand, I am so happy and super excited. I don't want to cause any rifts between anyone, especially since I know they are decent friends.

[Break free;]

Okay so my friend (let's call her K) she figured out my crush. To keep things short I was with her for a thing to do for school. Some credit card company called me and I was like, "I'm a __ year old girl! Stop calling me!" (I have gotten over 12 calls from them!!) anyway, K was looking at Instagram and was like,"look at this picture!" I looked at it and totally fell out of my chair because it was my crush. She just laughed at me. Then I was like,"who's your crush?" I asked.
K,"your gonna be mad at me."
Me,"just tell me!"
K,"it's your crush."
Me,"..." *pushes K.*

Even though she is one of my best friends what should I do. And what do I say to my crush that doesn't even know me!

[ardentsongbird]

Ugh. I am so confused.

I honestly don't know what he thinks of me. On the one hand, he's been totally sweet and chatty and giggly and hangs out and starts conversations. We have inside jokes, and he seems to blush a bit when I'm around him. He tried to crouch under mine and my (short) friend's umbrella earlier, it was so cute ^o^
On the other hand, he randomly ignores me sometimes for no apparent reason. One day we're best buddies, the next he hates me.
He also jeeps saying things like "Sorry Alice, I'm taken!" and then snogs a coin or something like that. T__T

He knows I like him. So does half the school; gossip gets around fast. What do? S:

I'll admit, being ignored isn't a good feeling. I can relate to your problem. If he ignores you, don't think about it too much. After a while of my crush ignoring me, he'll start talking to me again. Maybe it's just a thing guys do. But, him taunting you about "being taken" isn't very polite. You should tell him to knock it off, and it's not very amusing to you.
Sorry if I didn't help much, I'm in a situation of my own too •=•

[ProudHufflepuff]

MY BF WAS GONNA VISIT CHRISTMAS VACATION BUT NOW HE MIGHT COME WEDNESDAY INSTEAD I JUST FOUND OUT TODAY AND OMG I REALLY HOPE HE CAN I MISS HIM SO MUCH IM SO EXCITED ASDFGHJKL

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[Retrouvailles]

So today, we had a special thing going on in the Gym. So I sat with the new guy again today. Instead he kind of ignored me and talked to his other girl, which was fine. When he got up to go to the office I told the girl "you should go out with him." She said ewww no, so I told her I really really liked him, and she gig led all girly like. After he came back they had to go to the Lunch room, and when they were walking away the girl pointed at me, but I didn't hear what she was saying. Does the new guy like me as a friend? Do you think the girl said that I liked him? I need help ;-;.

[mars]

I'm a bit upset over something right now, could someone possibly pm me?
It has to do with my friend being really competitive with me over a guy that she doesn't even like :<