Silverspirit wrote:Silverspirit wrote:;-; I feel so alooone.
Help. Please. Somebody. Anybody.
So im one of the smartest people in my grade. No, im not being vain here. I get told this every. single. day. x.x So, Ive noticed recently that alot of my friends are quite likeable. What I mean is, boys arent afraid to approach them and flirt or play a bit. Not to me, though. I asked my mom about this. (Im that desprate.) She said it is natural for boys to like to approach girls that arent as intellegent as they are. It makes them more comfortable. And since everbody In my grade knows im supersmart + im quiet around strangers. I dont want a relationship like the ones that last 1 week. I want a guy that I connect with, thats kind and caring. LOLNOPE. I dont have anyone in my grade that is like that. They are quite immature, and its annoying actually.
Ive been listening to love songs and reading The Hunger Games. Ahh, torture. ;A; I have NO idea why I do this. For those of you who have read The Hunger Games, you know how it is. Love, Love, Love all around. Cute love. Caring love. Warm Love. ;-; It makes me feel even more alone. And the love songs....dont even get me started x.x
Need. Help.
I've faced a similar problem, with the intellingence thing. I even started acting incredibly stupid & incompetent because I thought more guys would like me. I wanted a real relationship, where the guy understood me and cared about me, but I was faking a lot of things to try to get that.
Honestly, you just need to find a guy that will appreciate the fact that you're so smart, and not a dumb, pretending girl. :3
Don't even pay attention to the guys that don't want smart girlfriends, because they are most certainly not looking for a good realtionship. Maybe, if you want a short, in-the-moment relationship [which, I'm not saying is a bad thing, coming from someone with experience with these types of relationships] just to see what it's like, go for one of them. But for the type of relationship that you're looking for, keep searching for a guy that either appreciates your intelligence or has equal intelligence, & I'm sure it'll be worth the wait when you're in a good relationship. :3
The solution to my problem was that I discovered that guys a year or two older than me often appreciated the fact that I was smart, and my first boyfriend ended up being a guy two grades above me, that liked my intelligence and liked how I was proud of it.
[granted, it ended up not being a good relationship, but that was because of non-intelligence issues]
Oh, god. Hunger Games. Made my expectations of relationships so much higher than they should've been. ;-;
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So, my best guyfriend used to act like he absolutely adored me, then for unknown reasons he started pushing me away & playing with my emotions. Some days, he seemed like the happiest person around me, sometimes he seemed like he just wanted to be left alone & would say some pretty weird stuff that didn't make sense [but he smokes cigarrettes & he's high almost everyday on who knows what drugs it is this time so I really never know what to expect anymore] It was like that for a while, but today things seemed like they were going back to the way they used to be. Yesterday, I had decided I was tired of it all and that if we were growing apart, it was for the best. Until today. I thought my moods might finally get a break. LOLNOPE. But even if it's annoying sometimes how he acts, he stills puts me in a really good mood when he's happy so I'm happy. :3
Honestly, you just need to find a guy that will appreciate the fact that you're so smart, and not a dumb, pretending girl. :3
Don't even pay attention to the guys that don't want smart girlfriends, because they are most certainly not looking for a good realtionship. Maybe, if you want a short, in-the-moment relationship [which, I'm not saying is a bad thing, coming from someone with experience with these types of relationships] just to see what it's like, go for one of them. But for the type of relationship that you're looking for, keep searching for a guy that either appreciates your intelligence or has equal intelligence, & I'm sure it'll be worth the wait when you're in a good relationship. :3
The solution to my problem was that I discovered that guys a year or two older than me often appreciated the fact that I was smart, and my first boyfriend ended up being a guy two grades above me, that liked my intelligence and liked how I was proud of it.
[granted, it ended up not being a good relationship, but that was because of non-intelligence issues]
Oh, god. Hunger Games. Made my expectations of relationships so much higher than they should've been. ;-;
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So, my best guyfriend used to act like he absolutely adored me, then for unknown reasons he started pushing me away & playing with my emotions. Some days, he seemed like the happiest person around me, sometimes he seemed like he just wanted to be left alone & would say some pretty weird stuff that didn't make sense [but he smokes cigarrettes & he's high almost everyday on who knows what drugs it is this time so I really never know what to expect anymore] It was like that for a while, but today things seemed like they were going back to the way they used to be. Yesterday, I had decided I was tired of it all and that if we were growing apart, it was for the best. Until today. I thought my moods might finally get a break. LOLNOPE. But even if it's annoying sometimes how he acts, he stills puts me in a really good mood when he's happy so I'm happy. :3
