Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[fuzzyanni12]

How do you casually bring up you like someone ... like telling my crush for instance how would I tell him ??? Without it being awkward

[claws990p]

How do you casually bring up you like someone ... like telling my crush for instance how would I tell him ??? Without it being awkward

its still gonna be awkard .....

[fuzzyanni12]

Okay but how would I tell him like what should i say!!

[claws990p]

why dont u pass him a note .....i always did that it worked.... my face would be soild red when he read it but ...still

[fuzzyanni12]

Should I write a note and give it to him ??? And give it to him after school...

[claws990p]

well if ur in middle school or high school and u have a class with him ...give it to walking out the door in the last class yall have together

if not yes when leaving school

[thunderofthedrum]

Should I write a note and give it to him ??? And give it to him after school...

Warning: bluntness.

I feel you post very often and are always looking for magical answers. Well heads up - there are no magical, cure-all answers. Every situation is a little different, every person is a little different, and there is no way that some stranger on the internet will magically know exactly how to handle things with guaranteed success. Of course it's going to be awkward. Of course it could end badly. That's life. That's the risk you have to take to put yourself out there.

Also, could you try to write more in each post? You aren't very descriptive of the situation which is likely why you don't often get answers. More information would be very helpful and perhaps would allow you to post less (giving others the opportunity to post before we keep hitting the next page). By posting so often, other people's posts get lost in previous pages before they get answered and I don't feel that is fair to them.

Lastly, I would try to offer suggestions but you two sound much younger than I could handle giving advice to; my advice is better suited for high school and up, which I get the feeling you guys are not. I didn't date until college and I certainly don't remember how things were when I was 10-15 regarding how people acted with popularity and crushes and stuff. (hence me not offering advice to you now)

[r.ddler]

Should I write a note and give it to him ??? And give it to him after school...

Warning: bluntness.

I feel you post very often and are always looking for magical answers. Well heads up - there are no magical, cure-all answers. Every situation is a little different, every person is a little different, and there is no way that some stranger on the internet will magically know exactly how to handle things with guaranteed success. Of course it's going to be awkward. Of course it could end badly. That's life. That's the risk you have to take to put yourself out there.

Also, could you try to write more in each post? You aren't very descriptive of the situation which is likely why you don't often get answers. More information would be very helpful and perhaps would allow you to post less (giving others the opportunity to post before we keep hitting the next page). By posting so often, other people's posts get lost in previous pages before they get answered and I don't feel that is fair to them.

Lastly, I would try to offer suggestions but you two sound much younger than I could handle giving advice to; my advice is better suited for high school and up, which I get the feeling you guys are not. I didn't date until college and I certainly don't remember how things were when I was 10-15 regarding how people acted with popularity and crushes and stuff. (hence me not offering advice to you now)

I agree, if you think he's worth it, just do it
gosh darn it, you're always posting here. WE'RE ALL GIVING YOU THE SAME ADVICE.

[Hawky<3]

I have a boyfriend (lets just call him Ben) and we've been dating for a few weeks now but our love is truly genuine. we text and talk all the time. it annoys both of us to death, however, when people go out of their way to alienate us. for example, if we hug. people will tease us or just flat out be rude. my best friend even joined in.
any advice for dealing with this?

the best thing you can do is to ignore the people being rude and just go on with your days. if you and your boyfriend are happy together, it doesn't matter what others think or how they react to it. it's really immature in the first place to be poking fun about a couple being happy together. as far as your best friend goes, maybe you could talk to them? let them know it bothers you? if they're really your best friend, they'll take the hint at you (and your boyfriend) being upset about it, and they'll care enough about your feelings to stop.

thank you so much for the advice rae, I tried everything out and it worked perfectly <3
now we can have a calm relationship C:

[fuzzyanni12]

Well I have one class with him and that's right before lunch so I would do it after school cuz I hang out with him during lunch..