Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[thunderofthedrum]

I agree. It's natural to be hormonal, to have sexual urges and desires. It's also very normal for GIRLS to feel that, although our society seems to look down on it as improper. HOWEVER - he is not respecting her values or feelings.

She should not be with someone who makes her uncomfortable. I dated someone who was ready to go further than I was and it made me feel uncomfortable. It didn't work out. Even if she gives in, the experience won't be a positive or healthy one for her; she will likely regret it, feel used, cheated, etc. It's really hard when you are pressured by someone that you like. When you want that someone to have a really great opinion of you. In young dating (or any dating really) there is that fear of rejection and sometimes we let that rule our decision-making.

Let her know you don't want to do something she regrets, that you don't think he will change. That you feel it's better for her to cut her losses and move on before the situation gets worse with him. Let her know you hate seeing her unhappy and you worry he will only make her more unhappy.

[Lioness626]

Kissed a guy who was acting very interested, went on holiday, and not heard from him since I got back. There is the into

Today I saw him, very awkward. He came up to our table, said hi to David (mutual friend) then sat down with us. He sat next to me, but twisted so he was facing me directly, between me & my ex crush (he doesnt know about that crush I dont think).
Made you all a pic for visual aid, CLICK! (yes our tables are weird)

It was so awkward, both said hi when he sat down, but then thats it. I was trying to work, he was messing on his phone, and others were talking. I had no clue what to do, and no clue why he sat there, he doesnt normally.

I ended up moving to talk to a girl I know, but left my stuff, and he moved when I went. He just kept walking in and out for the rest of the time, no clue what he was up to. Any idea how to make it less awkward?

Oh and I should possibly add, the girl I went to talk to is Davids ex, things ended badly. And David was trying to set me and the guy up, which was working till things went odd, as the guy "got confused and didnt know what he wanted"

[garnet.]

Okay here goess.

I'm bisexual. I have a crush on this girl. However, literally my entire year has guessed and now EVERYONE is telling her. She is incredibly doubtful, however, that it's actually the truth. I don't think she really believes them, so I'm kind of stuck because, it's true. So I don't know what to do. I can't tell her, I am far too shy, though I know she is bound to find out eventually. We still act the way we used to, like really close friends, because that's what we are and she still treats me the same. Also, she is defending me at every corner and getting really annoyed when people are saying stuff, more so than me.
I really don't know what to do, I really need help here people

[Outlander]

Okay here goess.

I'm bisexual. I have a crush on this girl. However, literally my entire year has guessed and now EVERYONE is telling her. She is incredibly doubtful, however, that it's actually the truth. I don't think she really believes them, so I'm kind of stuck because, it's true. So I don't know what to do. I can't tell her, I am far too shy, though I know she is bound to find out eventually. We still act the way we used to, like really close friends, because that's what we are and she still treats me the same. Also, she is defending me at every corner and getting really annoyed when people are saying stuff, more so than me.
I really don't know what to do, I really need help here people

You don't really have many options here. As shy as you are, I suggest you tell her yourself.

[Ｌᴀᴅʏ 美夜子]

Okay... so there's this guy. He's suuuuuuper cute. But the problem is one he doesn't like me, two my bff is dating him. But i liked him since 4th grade! And the ENTIRE SCHOOL knows I like this guy. Including him and my teacher. But the thing is he teases me and stuff... He says stuff like "Hey short stuff!" and he's like really (sometimes) mean to me. But thenm there are times when he's really sweet. He gives me hugs for no apparent reasons. He says Hi and stuff. But when he is mean, I just don't know what to do! Can anybody please help me?

[panhead]

Saga:....umm....like 2 or 3: Ethan
Well...now that he knows I like him it's gotten really tough. At lunch sometimes he'll turn around and look at me for a split second, which makes me feel so happy! It's ok he doesn't like me back, but I really really wish he did! I was talking to my literal BFF/Sister and she's in a cole classes with the girl Ethan likes. She described her and I'm disgusted and flattered in horrible ways.

On a worse note, he got beat up yesterday. I can't believe it! Some beast could have hated him that badly?! It gives me the chills. All I exactly did was not eat lunch that day I felt bad and just prayed.

To make you happy from reading that depressing story, he stole my friends phone and talked to me! all we did was talk About golf, school, his Parents work, what we have in common, ect. nothing exciting. im kind of at dead end. now that hes gotten beat up, he usually misses part of lunch to talk to the principal.


i dont know how to do this....im so lost and confused!


PS i gave him an oreo at lunch today. i also think someone turned off autocorrect on this...so sorry for all the errors.




thanks! xoxoxo perky

[garnet.]

Okay here goess.

I'm bisexual. I have a crush on this girl. However, literally my entire year has guessed and now EVERYONE is telling her. She is incredibly doubtful, however, that it's actually the truth. I don't think she really believes them, so I'm kind of stuck because, it's true. So I don't know what to do. I can't tell her, I am far too shy, though I know she is bound to find out eventually. We still act the way we used to, like really close friends, because that's what we are and she still treats me the same. Also, she is defending me at every corner and getting really annoyed when people are saying stuff, more so than me.
I really don't know what to do, I really need help here people

You don't really have many options here. As shy as you are, I suggest you tell her yourself.

Okay, Im sure we will still be friends after but the way I was, I was HAPPY not knowing. If she rejects me, I'll have to face the fact that she definitely DOESN'T like me.

[provolone]

Okay... so there's this guy. He's suuuuuuper cute. But the problem is one he doesn't like me, two my bff is dating him. But i liked him since 4th grade! And the ENTIRE SCHOOL knows I like this guy. Including him and my teacher. But the thing is he teases me and stuff... He says stuff like "Hey short stuff!" and he's like really (sometimes) mean to me. But thenm there are times when he's really sweet. He gives me hugs for no apparent reasons. He says Hi and stuff. But when he is mean, I just don't know what to do! Can anybody please help me?

BFF is dating him? Off-limits. You can like him for sure, but it doesn't really matter that everyone knows you like him. You can't flirt with him or try to get him to like you. When he has a girlfriend its an automatic no. If you best friend is dating him, I'm sure she'll understand if you have a friendship with him. But flirting with him will hurt your relationship with her. If she knew you liked him and then started dating him, that's rude on her part. But now they are taken you can't do much other than be an admirer.

[dαєnєrчѕ tαrgαrчєn]

I fall in love with people at the wrong time...

I met this guy online and he didn't know it was me talking to him, he thought I was a friend of mine. Anyway, we were talking about me and he admitted that he wanted to ask me out, but he was too shy to and that he loved me more than just a sister (Cause I said that we were brother and sister). He's gay yet I think I turned that around. Problem is is that I have a boyfriend already, he is a few years older than me, and lives on another continent. Plus...I like him back. I know that I probably shouldn't because then again I still love my boyfriend. I don't know what to do about them though. My boyfriend and I get into little fights sometimes, are kind of distant at some moments, and he upsets me sometimes. The other guy, Z, well I already mentioned it earlier. Please help me! -drops down onto knees at your feet-

[Ｌᴀᴅʏ 美夜子]

Okay... so there's this guy. He's suuuuuuper cute. But the problem is one he doesn't like me, two my bff is dating him. But i liked him since 4th grade! And the ENTIRE SCHOOL knows I like this guy. Including him and my teacher. But the thing is he teases me and stuff... He says stuff like "Hey short stuff!" and he's like really (sometimes) mean to me. But thenm there are times when he's really sweet. He gives me hugs for no apparent reasons. He says Hi and stuff. But when he is mean, I just don't know what to do! Can anybody please help me?

BFF is dating him? Off-limits. You can like him for sure, but it doesn't really matter that everyone knows you like him. You can't flirt with him or try to get him to like you. When he has a girlfriend its an automatic no. If you best friend is dating him, I'm sure she'll understand if you have a friendship with him. But flirting with him will hurt your relationship with her. If she knew you liked him and then started dating him, that's rude on her part. But now they are taken you can't do much other than be an admirer.

Okay thanks! Yeah I really don't want to hurt my frend! But would you have any advice on what to do if and when he is really mean to me?