Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[provolone]

I am so, incredibly, hurt right now.

One question. Would you guys take a chance for a boy you might love, and risk being hurt like crazy all over again... or, give up, walk away, try to move on and not cause yourself anymore pain?

We had been dating for half of a year, minus 10 days. We broke up a week ago, it was a tiny bit mutual, but mostly him. He says he did it for parents/sports, and he originally said he wanted to get back together after state track meet (in two weeks)... but everything I hear is completely different. I've heard 100 different stories from 100 different people about why he broke up with me. Some say he misses me like crazy, some say he doesn't want anything to do with me. He says he wants to get back together to my face, then doesn't act like it unless we're alone.

Would you rather live life wishing you would have done, or be sad about what you did?

In my opinion, I would rather be taking risks in life. Doing crazy things. I don't want to look back and think Man, I wish I would have done that. I would rather look back and think Wow, I remember when I did that. Love is a crazy thing. If you might love him, then take a chance. If I was you, I would rather do something about this than wondering what would of happened if I had. Does that make sense?

People aren't one to trust with this. Ask him personally why. When my boyfriend broke up with me, my friends all gave their opinions on why. I asked him the next day only to find that everyone was wrong. To know the real truth, you have to get it the hard way. Any one of those stories could be true, and all of them could be wrong. You'll never know if you don't try.

[Rated R]

so, i have to rant. a good rant though.

my friend from my old school, whom i haven't seen in a decade, came over yesterday.
she and i talked.
and for the first time, i told someone, who's like a friend of my own age, i had a crush.
and she did too.
and then, she showed me his facebook profile, and she wasn't friends with him. she was too scared to friend him.

like i was with my crush, until a week ago.

and so i said, " i know you're nervous, but i'm not, so i am going to send the request."
so i pushed the send request button.
later that day, after she'd left, i was checking my newsfeed.
and lo and behold, it says that they are now friends.
and i flip out and chat her immediately.
she was so happy. i'm glad i made her happy.
i made her feel like how i felt when my crush accepted my request.
i was happy for her for getting that great feeling and that reminded me of my own feeling
and then i got happy.
and for the first time i can remember, i got out of bed on this monday morning feeling good.

[Anza]

Ok! So I'm good at helping other people with there problems but I'm not able to solve my own:
So there are two guys that like me: lets say named L and S.
S is popular; sporty; cute and basically a copy of me
L is the least popular guy in shchool; he has some of my quality's and he is nice!
They both like me and I'm compleetly stuck because there both my friends!
My other friends tell me to choose S but I have no idea!!!
HELP!!#

[Rated R]

well moonlily, it IS your decision.
if you let your friends pressure you, it's THEIR decision.
and it'd be YOU who's going out with the guy.
so choose who you like. try hanging out with both of them
and see who you like.


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and another rant.
prom season. bleh, but not bleh.
i know it sounds stupid, but i really wanna go.
with my crush. he can go. he can invite someone.
he lives down the street from me and i'm anxious.
i want to hear the doorbell ring.
BLEH WHY DO I LET MYSELF GET SO HYPED UP.
WHY CAN'T I WAAAAAAAIIIIIIIIIIT.
WHY DO I HOPE FOR SOMETHING THAT HAS BARELY ANY CHANCE OF HAPPENING.
i guess it's hope.

[Anza]

I know what you mean and Im not taking there advise!
But L liked me but he hasn't done anything and has been basically ignoring me for a year and S is a popular Brat but hes so kind and nice and every time he smiles at me I feel so happy!

[Roonil Wazlib]

To everyone who's wishing someone will ask them to prom or out or something:
I know you've probably heard this everywhere, but just go for it! Instead of waiting around pining away over them, ask them out! Even if he says no and you embarass yourself, in the future you'll look back at it and laugh. Would you rather look back and wish you had asked him and wonder what he would've said, or look back and laugh at the fond memories?

[Rated R]

@Electra
i totally would, but i can't since i'm not an upperclassman yet. almost there...
but he is, so i'm hoping. but all this hoping drives me crazy.
and i'm a realistic person most of the time, so hoping for something that has like a 1 or 2% chance of happening is
very unlike me.

[Outlander]

Well, this sucks.

As of Tuesday, Ninja and I will be in a relationship for 5 months. ( ) We where planning to get ice cream and be together for a while until the universe decides we've had enough time together. Apparently, the universe dictates we can't have that time either.

(Ninja, I don't blame you for any of it.)

[Ninja Jedi]

Well, this sucks.

As of Tuesday, Ninja and I will be in a relationship for 5 months. ( ) We where planning to get ice cream and be together for a while until the universe decides we've had enough time together. Apparently, the universe dictates we can't have that time either.

(Ninja, I don't blame you for any of it.)

I love you. Even though we can't spend time together.

[bola11]

Hey guys, I need some tips on talking to my crush. Everytime I come close to talking to him I chicken out. The school year is almost over and I really want to talk to him before summer break.

This so much. I have the same problem, I wish I could help ;n;