Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Shadeslayer243]

Why on EARTH would I make that cruel a joke?

I will PM you otherwise we will get in trouble

[bast,]

I don't get how people are so calm about these things. If I woke up to find somebody dead, I would scream, freak out, and CALL THE COPS instead of posting to CS about it!

[gone for good :)]

Any help? 3:

I seriously need all the help I can get with Kyle.
Some may have been like skipping my posts cause they are too long and confusing,so here is a recap.
I have been friends with a guy named Kyle and his sister for almost six years now. He hangs out with me a lot when I am over there,and I have a giant crush on him. I believe he has a crush on Amanda,who is way prettier. I havent talked to him in a long while,because Katie and I [his sister] haven't gotten together for a sleepover. Now,this guy has stood me up on my birthday Twice. I thought I didnt like him any more because of this,but sadly I was wrong.
Last Night
Yesterday,Katie and I got together for a sleepover. Kyle was at the house. At first,he was a bit hesitant towards me for a while,since we hadn't seen each other since like forever. I didn't talk to him much until we went to this party. At my church,there was an easter party and we all went. Kyle and I would go back and forth with sarcasm as we usually did on the way there. When we arrived and went inside,he went to his friends and I stuck with his sister. After about an hour of just hanging out,the pizza came. Then the real Kyle came out. He was laughing and cracking jokes,trying to get a laugh out of everyone.
At this time,I knew I still really liked/maybe even loved him. Afterwards,we chatted for a while outside just the two of us.It was so nice,because he always tries to get a laugh out of me.
When I looked at him,I saw he was bleeding on his face a little,not knowing his neice had jumped on him and scratched him. I told his sister,and she just walked over and said out loud "What's that on your face!" He wasn't phased by this.until she pointed to underneath the scratch. "That's a zit,right?" (She is a couple years younger than I am) At this comment,his really tan face turned ghost white,and he quickly got away from everyone and ran into the bathroom. This shocked me because he didn let his sister get to him. Then I realized,I was standing like right where he was,so I could see everything. I felt so horribly bad for him,and he was super quiet and didnt make any jokes the card ride towards the walk through thingy.
Let's fast forward to the end of the party.
By this time,Katie,Kyle and myself were all jacked up on sugar. We were driving home from the party,and Kyle and I were messing around. I pulled his hair like I usually always do,and he was joking around. Katie was messing too,but that isn't in the story.
After we came home,he asked me to play this shooting zombies game. I said sure,and we sat together and played the game,much to my pleasure. Kyle slid in a few jokes just to get me laughing. So,as we are playing this game,there is an uncomfortable tension in the air. I mean,like the embarrasing type. My stomach was knotted up because I didn't want to screw it up.
I was tired after,so he took me outside with him to get some drinks out of his mom's van. The soda was his,and there was a lot more, but it was for others. He went back inside and I followed. After this,I walked into the kitchen,and there set up were two cups. He poured me a cup,(which he didnt have too,because they had a ton of drinks for me) and we went back into his bedroom.
At this time,Katie joined us,and we watched him play his video game. I was asking him a ton of questions because I was like jacked up on caffeine. We just sat there and talked for a while until he joked,
"HURRDY HURR HURR IM A HELICOPTER."
At this,I burst out laughing. He was laughing too. I laughed so hard I fell off his bed,where I then fell on legos. Yes,legos. It hurt like hell. I kept laughing though,but he rushed over and kept asking if I was okay. I was a bit shocked by this because he was the type who really never did care,ya know? He helped me up,and I was laughing still. He chuckled and went back to his game.
Now,about thirty minutes later we were making too much noise so his mom told us to go to bed. Of course we didn't,but Katie and myself went into her bedroom and we grabbed her DS and did pictochat with him because he was in his room. At that time,I could have told him EVERYTHING. But.....I didn't.
The next morning,we were in church and Katie was sitting in between us. Everytime I would look out of the corner of my eye,I would see him glancing my direction. Like,he was just looking at me.
His mom and my mom are now at a rough patch,so they do not really like each other. Because of this,I am worried I won't have the chance to ever tell him,because my mom would never approove. Do you guys think I should tell him? If I do,what if he doesn't like me back and it becomes awkward? How should I tell him? Do you guys think he is into me?

[Refugee]

I'm really sad now. Brian apparently tried to hang himself today. It was all his stupid girlfriend's fault, she got in a huge fight with him and basically said she wished he was dead.

I've never been so mad and sad at the same time in my life. Idk what to do. Me and everyone that cares about him tried calling him at school today and he's in bad shape. I wish I were there for him, but I'm not and I blame myself for not helping.

Any advice...?

Oh, that's awful! :c Try calling him?

I tried. He's not telling me anything, probably because he's ashamed. I need to get information out of somebody! So frustrated.

[arcticwolf]

Why do I always fall for guys my best friends like.

Why.

;-; Every guy I've ever liked, one of my closest friends has liked/still likes. I'm not even kidding. Cody, Conner, Jacob, Sheldon, and now Logan.
#fml

[FreeTheBalloons]

I'm really sad now. Brian apparently tried to hang himself today. It was all his stupid girlfriend's fault, she got in a huge fight with him and basically said she wished he was dead.

I've never been so mad and sad at the same time in my life. Idk what to do. Me and everyone that cares about him tried calling him at school today and he's in bad shape. I wish I were there for him, but I'm not and I blame myself for not helping.

Any advice...?

Oh, that's awful! :c Try calling him?

I tried. He's not telling me anything, probably because he's ashamed. I need to get information out of somebody! So frustrated.

Write him a letter telling me how you feel and then leave him be for the time being. He needs space from the girlfriend, and everyone telling him how upset they are over what happened won't make things better. I'd say pray for him. =) But the space thing is the most important part. If he feels crowded, it could make him even more depressed. Tell him how you feel and how you just want to help and wait for him to come to you.

[FreeTheBalloons]

Why do I always fall for guys my best friends like.

Why.

;-; Every guy I've ever liked, one of my closest friends has liked/still likes. I'm not even kidding. Cody, Conner, Jacob, Sheldon, and now Logan.
#fml

It just means that you have very similar taste in guys. It's nothing to worry about. Don't feel like you're "stealing" away a guy from you're best friend. If they're not dating, then there's nothing wrong. But if it really makes you that uncomfortable, just don't act on your feelings, or talk to your friend about it if said guy(s) ask you out.

[annamonster]

I will never have a boyfriend, never! I just now it.
I mean, I have a MASSIVE bum! And although I have some great friends im not one of the popular girls. Im not in to dresses or anything like that, although I like skirts. I guess Im not that old and I still have allot longer to be in to boys, but I realy want a boyfriend. Im mature for my age, I could handle it, maby. Help!

[FreeTheBalloons]

Any help? 3:

I seriously need all the help I can get with Kyle.
Some may have been like skipping my posts cause they are too long and confusing,so here is a recap.
I have been friends with a guy named Kyle and his sister for almost six years now. He hangs out with me a lot when I am over there,and I have a giant crush on him. I believe he has a crush on Amanda,who is way prettier. I havent talked to him in a long while,because Katie and I [his sister] haven't gotten together for a sleepover. Now,this guy has stood me up on my birthday Twice. I thought I didnt like him any more because of this,but sadly I was wrong.
Last Night
Yesterday,Katie and I got together for a sleepover. Kyle was at the house. At first,he was a bit hesitant towards me for a while,since we hadn't seen each other since like forever. I didn't talk to him much until we went to this party. At my church,there was an easter party and we all went. Kyle and I would go back and forth with sarcasm as we usually did on the way there. When we arrived and went inside,he went to his friends and I stuck with his sister. After about an hour of just hanging out,the pizza came. Then the real Kyle came out. He was laughing and cracking jokes,trying to get a laugh out of everyone.
At this time,I knew I still really liked/maybe even loved him. Afterwards,we chatted for a while outside just the two of us.It was so nice,because he always tries to get a laugh out of me.
When I looked at him,I saw he was bleeding on his face a little,not knowing his neice had jumped on him and scratched him. I told his sister,and she just walked over and said out loud "What's that on your face!" He wasn't phased by this.until she pointed to underneath the scratch. "That's a zit,right?" (She is a couple years younger than I am) At this comment,his really tan face turned ghost white,and he quickly got away from everyone and ran into the bathroom. This shocked me because he didn let his sister get to him. Then I realized,I was standing like right where he was,so I could see everything. I felt so horribly bad for him,and he was super quiet and didnt make any jokes the card ride towards the walk through thingy.
Let's fast forward to the end of the party.
By this time,Katie,Kyle and myself were all jacked up on sugar. We were driving home from the party,and Kyle and I were messing around. I pulled his hair like I usually always do,and he was joking around. Katie was messing too,but that isn't in the story.
After we came home,he asked me to play this shooting zombies game. I said sure,and we sat together and played the game,much to my pleasure. Kyle slid in a few jokes just to get me laughing. So,as we are playing this game,there is an uncomfortable tension in the air. I mean,like the embarrasing type. My stomach was knotted up because I didn't want to screw it up.
I was tired after,so he took me outside with him to get some drinks out of his mom's van. The soda was his,and there was a lot more, but it was for others. He went back inside and I followed. After this,I walked into the kitchen,and there set up were two cups. He poured me a cup,(which he didnt have too,because they had a ton of drinks for me) and we went back into his bedroom.
At this time,Katie joined us,and we watched him play his video game. I was asking him a ton of questions because I was like jacked up on caffeine. We just sat there and talked for a while until he joked,
"HURRDY HURR HURR IM A HELICOPTER."
At this,I burst out laughing. He was laughing too. I laughed so hard I fell off his bed,where I then fell on legos. Yes,legos. It hurt like hell. I kept laughing though,but he rushed over and kept asking if I was okay. I was a bit shocked by this because he was the type who really never did care,ya know? He helped me up,and I was laughing still. He chuckled and went back to his game.
Now,about thirty minutes later we were making too much noise so his mom told us to go to bed. Of course we didn't,but Katie and myself went into her bedroom and we grabbed her DS and did pictochat with him because he was in his room. At that time,I could have told him EVERYTHING. But.....I didn't.
The next morning,we were in church and Katie was sitting in between us. Everytime I would look out of the corner of my eye,I would see him glancing my direction. Like,he was just looking at me.
His mom and my mom are now at a rough patch,so they do not really like each other. Because of this,I am worried I won't have the chance to ever tell him,because my mom would never approove. Do you guys think I should tell him? If I do,what if he doesn't like me back and it becomes awkward? How should I tell him? Do you guys think he is into me?

I've told a few guys that I've liked them and it never went quite the way I'd hoped. I had to learn the hard way that just because I think a guys likes me doesn't really mean her does or is quite ready to be in a relationship with me. So my advice is to just tough it out. Keep talking to him on the phone and stuff, start your friendship back up so it's nice and steady. Don't worry too much about your mom just yet. She can't keep you from being friends, there's not enough of a good reason. If possible, bring your dad into the situation if she tries to keep you from talking.
By being friends, though, you'll be a lot more satisfied. Believe it or not. If you tell him and he DOES like you, then you can't just be friends anymore and then your mom WILL have a good reason to keep you from seeing eachother. If you tell him and he DOESN'T feel the same way, then it's just awkward and a perfectly good friendship might be ruined.

Be patient. =)

[gone for good :)]

Thank you so much. I will just wait. :3 My dad died when I was five,so it's just mom.
One more question:
I asked my mom if I could ever go back to their house,and she replied, "I highly doubt it." What do I do? His mom was super nasty to mine,and I don't think that we will ever be so close as when I am over there for sleepovers. I'll just see him at church,but then he is around all his friends and I don't fit in with them. 3:

Any help? 3:

I seriously need all the help I can get with Kyle.
Some may have been like skipping my posts cause they are too long and confusing,so here is a recap.
I have been friends with a guy named Kyle and his sister for almost six years now. He hangs out with me a lot when I am over there,and I have a giant crush on him. I believe he has a crush on Amanda,who is way prettier. I havent talked to him in a long while,because Katie and I [his sister] haven't gotten together for a sleepover. Now,this guy has stood me up on my birthday Twice. I thought I didnt like him any more because of this,but sadly I was wrong.
Last Night
Yesterday,Katie and I got together for a sleepover. Kyle was at the house. At first,he was a bit hesitant towards me for a while,since we hadn't seen each other since like forever. I didn't talk to him much until we went to this party. At my church,there was an easter party and we all went. Kyle and I would go back and forth with sarcasm as we usually did on the way there. When we arrived and went inside,he went to his friends and I stuck with his sister. After about an hour of just hanging out,the pizza came. Then the real Kyle came out. He was laughing and cracking jokes,trying to get a laugh out of everyone.
At this time,I knew I still really liked/maybe even loved him. Afterwards,we chatted for a while outside just the two of us.It was so nice,because he always tries to get a laugh out of me.
When I looked at him,I saw he was bleeding on his face a little,not knowing his neice had jumped on him and scratched him. I told his sister,and she just walked over and said out loud "What's that on your face!" He wasn't phased by this.until she pointed to underneath the scratch. "That's a zit,right?" (She is a couple years younger than I am) At this comment,his really tan face turned ghost white,and he quickly got away from everyone and ran into the bathroom. This shocked me because he didn let his sister get to him. Then I realized,I was standing like right where he was,so I could see everything. I felt so horribly bad for him,and he was super quiet and didnt make any jokes the card ride towards the walk through thingy.
Let's fast forward to the end of the party.
By this time,Katie,Kyle and myself were all jacked up on sugar. We were driving home from the party,and Kyle and I were messing around. I pulled his hair like I usually always do,and he was joking around. Katie was messing too,but that isn't in the story.
After we came home,he asked me to play this shooting zombies game. I said sure,and we sat together and played the game,much to my pleasure. Kyle slid in a few jokes just to get me laughing. So,as we are playing this game,there is an uncomfortable tension in the air. I mean,like the embarrasing type. My stomach was knotted up because I didn't want to screw it up.
I was tired after,so he took me outside with him to get some drinks out of his mom's van. The soda was his,and there was a lot more, but it was for others. He went back inside and I followed. After this,I walked into the kitchen,and there set up were two cups. He poured me a cup,(which he didnt have too,because they had a ton of drinks for me) and we went back into his bedroom.
At this time,Katie joined us,and we watched him play his video game. I was asking him a ton of questions because I was like jacked up on caffeine. We just sat there and talked for a while until he joked,
"HURRDY HURR HURR IM A HELICOPTER."
At this,I burst out laughing. He was laughing too. I laughed so hard I fell off his bed,where I then fell on legos. Yes,legos. It hurt like hell. I kept laughing though,but he rushed over and kept asking if I was okay. I was a bit shocked by this because he was the type who really never did care,ya know? He helped me up,and I was laughing still. He chuckled and went back to his game.
Now,about thirty minutes later we were making too much noise so his mom told us to go to bed. Of course we didn't,but Katie and myself went into her bedroom and we grabbed her DS and did pictochat with him because he was in his room. At that time,I could have told him EVERYTHING. But.....I didn't.
The next morning,we were in church and Katie was sitting in between us. Everytime I would look out of the corner of my eye,I would see him glancing my direction. Like,he was just looking at me.
His mom and my mom are now at a rough patch,so they do not really like each other. Because of this,I am worried I won't have the chance to ever tell him,because my mom would never approove. Do you guys think I should tell him? If I do,what if he doesn't like me back and it becomes awkward? How should I tell him? Do you guys think he is into me?

I've told a few guys that I've liked them and it never went quite the way I'd hoped. I had to learn the hard way that just because I think a guys likes me doesn't really mean her does or is quite ready to be in a relationship with me. So my advice is to just tough it out. Keep talking to him on the phone and stuff, start your friendship back up so it's nice and steady. Don't worry too much about your mom just yet. She can't keep you from being friends, there's not enough of a good reason. If possible, bring your dad into the situation if she tries to keep you from talking.
By being friends, though, you'll be a lot more satisfied. Believe it or not. If you tell him and he DOES like you, then you can't just be friends anymore and then your mom WILL have a good reason to keep you from seeing eachother. If you tell him and he DOESN'T feel the same way, then it's just awkward and a perfectly good friendship might be ruined.

Be patient. =)