TheComfortCorner | V.7

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Re: TheComfortCorner | V.7

Postby geebaby » Mon Jan 22, 2018 11:11 am

Sunday's flying away and im stuck doing homework instead of enjoying whats left of the weekend because i procrastinated a g A i N.
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Postby kiwiis » Mon Jan 22, 2018 12:14 pm

oh gosh theres a tornado warning im shaking so much im so scared i dont want to die
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Re: TheComfortCorner | V.7. Depression

Postby CaticomarArt » Mon Jan 22, 2018 12:42 pm

Lately, I been crying everynight when my boyfriend is not there. I am starting to have frequent dreams of him, and I get terrified when he does something a little different from the usual.


That includes when he doesn't send emojis, or he says bye a little differe.t

and its not just when HE does something a little different but also when i do something different. I spam ouaersoutsgl'krf'oiesmrpisgtreo' when he comes online at hangouts, and I get close-to-heart attacks when it does happen, also if I walk away or 5 seconds late to see him, i worry if he thinks I am cheating and then I beat myself up.

And also, when he doesn't come online I start to get depressed and cry more and more frequently, then i write letters to him so I feel like he IS there. Sometimes I even whisper our conversations and sing parts of conversations and it feels like he is there, and I wont even NOTICE when it happens.

I have also been getting insecure thinking "What does he think of my hair today?" or "Oh no he didn't reply yet what am I doing wrong?!" and then i think its MY fault and I beat myself up again. (One day I tried smashing my head open by throwing my head against the wall with my hand.)

And I tell him all of this and he cares for me. But I feel like I dont deserve his care for me.

Please someone TELL ME WHAT I DO ;M; I dont know! I haven't been in love before, and I usually dont love my family either. what are these feelings?! :oops: :cry: :arrow: :?: :!: :silent: :? :( :(
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Postby Fleetwood » Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:09 pm

      I'm feeling better
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Re: TheComfortCorner | V.7

Postby wildberry, » Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:32 pm

    i'll never be good enough, i don't deserve what i have. they tell me how smart i am, great i am at whatever but theres people better and i can never reach that. i just want to make people happy, and i guess will push myself harder until they are
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Re: TheComfortCorner | V.7

Postby Gifting Dogs » Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:34 pm

I just dont know anymore. It seems like my so called friends have abandoned me. They dont talk to me anymore, they seem to act like they dont know me if i see them in town and say hi to them. It hurts. It really does and i just dont know how to deal with it.
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Re: TheComfortCorner | V.7. Depression

Postby daughter » Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:42 pm

CaticomarArt wrote:Lately, I been crying everynight when my boyfriend is not there. I am starting to have frequent dreams of him, and I get terrified when he does something a little different from the usual.


That includes when he doesn't send emojis, or he says bye a little differe.t

and its not just when HE does something a little different but also when i do something different. I spam ouaersoutsgl'krf'oiesmrpisgtreo' when he comes online at hangouts, and I get close-to-heart attacks when it does happen, also if I walk away or 5 seconds late to see him, i worry if he thinks I am cheating and then I beat myself up.

And also, when he doesn't come online I start to get depressed and cry more and more frequently, then i write letters to him so I feel like he IS there. Sometimes I even whisper our conversations and sing parts of conversations and it feels like he is there, and I wont even NOTICE when it happens.

I have also been getting insecure thinking "What does he think of my hair today?" or "Oh no he didn't reply yet what am I doing wrong?!" and then i think its MY fault and I beat myself up again. (One day I tried smashing my head open by throwing my head against the wall with my hand.)

And I tell him all of this and he cares for me. But I feel like I dont deserve his care for me.

Please someone TELL ME WHAT I DO ;M; I dont know! I haven't been in love before, and I usually dont love my family either. what are these feelings?! :oops: :cry: :arrow: :?: :!: :silent: :? :( :(


first of all, just breath. hurting yourself is awful and I really hope you stop doing that. There is no need to punish yourself over anything. The way you talk about your worries, leads me to believe that you over think a lot of things. When you may think that he doesn't like what you look like or if he is wondering what you are doing, he really is probably just focusing on his own tasks. You can't depend on him all the time and crying over the fact that he isn't responding is irrational. The guy maybe just hasn't checked his phone. If you are really worried about these things, open up to him. If he cares about you then he will understand and help you not be scared about your relationship. Also, please make sure that this doesn't turn into an unhealthy relationship.

do your favorite hobbies when you get upset. taking your mind off of the things that bother you usually help.
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Re: TheComfortCorner | V.7

Postby skorch » Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:55 pm

this girl keeps attaching herself to our friend group. i really wouldn't have a problem with it, not at all, actually. but it's tearing our group apart. the thing is, my friend group is only four people. I tried to give her a chance, but the problem is, it separated us into small pairs. she didn't really want to be friends with the rest of us, only one member of the group, and the only reason why is because they both have the same ethnicity and speak the same language. so then they start to randomly speak their language, not including the rest of us. So now nobody talks to each other. I mean, we all sit together in a small cluster, with our backs turned to each other. School doesn't feel right anymore, and something feels completely off, even though nothing has changed. it's society i'm irked about. everyone is the same and nobody has a personality. i lost all enthusiasm for school and everything. i don't want to waste my life on electronics, but i literally, cannot do anything else. i'm so bored with my life.
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Re: TheComfortCorner | V.7

Postby GreyScale » Mon Jan 22, 2018 3:36 pm

I just don't know what to do with my life anymore. My parents yell at me for literally everything because apparently I can't do anything right at all. They favor my little sister and treat her like a queen while I struggle with school and depression and on top of all that I cook supper for my family every night and have to clean the whole kitchen and do all the clothes (except for my sisters) and I'm only in my teens. I just need a break from life. I need a friend I can talk to, jokes I can laugh at, books to read. I just want to quit life but I know I can't. I just need someone who will just be a good friend and actually be there for me.
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Re: TheComfortCorner | V.7

Postby Vixem » Mon Jan 22, 2018 3:50 pm

GreyScale wrote:I just don't know what to do with my life anymore. My parents yell at me for literally everything because apparently I can't do anything right at all. They favor my little sister and treat her like a queen while I struggle with school and depression and on top of all that I cook supper for my family every night and have to clean the whole kitchen and do all the clothes (except for my sisters) and I'm only in my teens. I just need a break from life. I need a friend I can talk to, jokes I can laugh at, books to read. I just want to quit life but I know I can't. I just need someone who will just be a good friend and actually be there for me.



Don’t give up hun, you’ll get through this. I know it can really suck when parents
favour a child over another, it makes us feel so alone and unliked. I think because
your sister is younger than you, she’s easier to deal with. In no way am I saying
you’re a difficult person but going through these tough teenage years can change
us a lot and that’s hard for parents to deal with.

Maybe talk to them about how you’re feeling, I know you may not want to talk to
them right now because they’re putting you through a lot but it’s best to let them
know even if they don’t like what you’re saying.

Grey, if you need someone to talk to, I’m here. I’m an extremely friendly and
understanding person who you can vent to, I do not get offended easily so feel free
to speak your mind. Sometimes when players need comfort I’ll stay online for a
bit until they’re feeling better, it’s mainly why I joined Chicken Smoothie.
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