Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[DreamChase]

So I like this guy and he's kind of sending me mixed signals. It often seems like he's trying to ignore me (I know he doesn't hate me), but them he'll randomly make an awkward attempt at conversation. I see him talking to other girls and he's normal, but around me he's like extra awkward or shy or something.
Anyone know what could be the cause?

Anyone?

Now I'm not an expert on guys, but if the act differently around one person it's probably because of one of two things. He hates you, or he just doesn't know how to act around you because he likes you and doesn't want to screw up. Personally I think it's the lateral in your case. If you like him try getting to know him better, maybe invite him to hang out with you and some friends. If not then just ignore it.

[Rated R]

thanks for the reply to the user who re-posted it. [can't remember name, but thank you <3]

anyways, i'm going to try to be as straight forward as possible.
so, how do you tell a guy you do not know very well that you like him?
like word phrasing suggestions would be great; especially not awkward ones.
also, although i go to an all-girls school, a lot of the guys from our brother school [where my crush goes], are asking girls to prom in such cute ways.
i wish someone would ask me, too.

[a n d y.]

Okay, I'm torn between two guys... Middle school life makes it too hard to choose :c

Vince is amazing, but so is Jordan.

I guess I should make a list?


Vince: He's really nice, and quite a jokester. (Though most of the jokes are so inapropriate xD) And we get along okay. But today he was upset about something, and I'm not sure what. He left during 6th hour, and I'm worried it had something to do with his diabetes. Probably not, and I hope it wasn't. He is fun to hang with, but he's the 'popular' one, and has a 9th grader girlfriend. Everybody likes him, and I have no chances.

Jordan: He's really nice to me, but I think he has a girlfriend. Unless I was imagining. He cheers me on in softball during gym class, we talk quite alot, and we can be really good parteners. Even when I'm down, he makes me feel better. I wonder why he's so nice, even though he declined my asking? Maybe because he's just feeling okay around me now, or maybe I was too forward and a little too cliche asking him, when he should've asked me if he wanted..

Maybe next year I can decide who I really like the most.

But..

I'm so torn right now. Help?

[Malédiction]

For anyone who is interested, this Saturday will be the 2 month anniversary with my boyfriend. So happy we could make it work.

But that's not why I was here, I have a question. I'm grateful to anyone who takes the time to read this and answer my question, but I understand if you don't have an answer. So, my question is: Is it normal for your boyfriend to be jealous of a guy he's never met? And he doesn't even know his real name... So here's the story.

Near the end of November, when Jackals and I actually started talking more often, his hockey team wanted to play truth or dare with me. I said no, because I really wasn't in the mood to, but then they asked me who I liked. I didn't answer them, because I knew it wasn't him, but after that he asked me who I liked. I made him promise to tell me who he likes first, so when he did I had to say who I liked. I was freaking out because he had said some girl's name, so I used the first code name that my friends and I used that popped in my head. Cole, a codename for a family friend of mine which who all of my friends think he's hot. But, when my friends texted him, they would rant about him all the time like Oh My God, he's so hot. He's so amazing, and stuff like that. Recently, I went to a party and he asked me if any guys were there. His response when I said yes pretty much dropped with jealousy, even though it was through text. I never once mentioned anything about Cole, except that I 'liked' him like 4 months ago, and he was like; Are any of them as hot as Cole?... I like freaked because I never once said anything about him being hot, never once even mentioned him in 4 months. The last time I ever spoke about him to him was near the end of November, do you think he's been holding a grudge over him ever since? And when my friend mentioned him while I was with Jackals like maybe 1 or 2 weeks ago, I would've sworn he was going kill someone with his eyes at that precise moment. The problem is, he never met Cole... Is it normal that he's so jealous of my friend? I mean, sure we talk, but it's not that 'Oh, yeah, Cole's my best friend.' kind of thing. I never say anything about Cole when he's around, and the only time I actually say anything about him is at school when I see him and my friends pretty much start drooling over him and having heart attacks.

[Rated R]

okay, for most of you this will not seem like a big deal.
my crush? the one in my signature? the one it's dedicated to? of seven years?
yeah, well i go to an all girls school, he goes to all boys.
we don't really talk much.
and he's known to decline friend requests with people he dislikes.
and.
and i finally gained the courage to friend him on FB.
and
and
and
HE ACCEPTED.

I CANNOT EVEN.
you have no idea.
i know you're all like
/pssh he just accepted you nobigdeal/
but it's a big deal for me.
because he's KNOWN to decline people he dislikes.
like actually.
and we don't talk much.
and even though we don't talk much, he accepted.
i was afraid he thought i was weird,
after i had a complete fail flirting attempt with him.
a step in the right direction.
yes.
yes.
yes.
now, to get his phone number and spend time with him...

/someone please reply and act like a friend because no one in real life except for one friend knows i like a guy/

[Outlander]

okay, for most of you this will not seem like a big deal.
my crush? the one in my signature? the one it's dedicated to? of seven years?
yeah, well i go to an all girls school, he goes to all boys.
we don't really talk much.
and he's known to decline friend requests with people he dislikes.
and.
and i finally gained the courage to friend him on FB.
and
and
and
HE ACCEPTED.

I CANNOT EVEN.
you have no idea.
i know you're all like
/pssh he just accepted you nobigdeal/
but it's a big deal for me.
because he's KNOWN to decline people he dislikes.
like actually.
and we don't talk much.
and even though we don't talk much, he accepted.
i was afraid he thought i was weird,
after i had a complete fail flirting attempt with him.
a step in the right direction.
yes.
yes.
yes.
now, to get his phone number and spend time with him...

/someone please reply and act like a friend because no one in real life except for one friend knows i like a guy/

The first step is almost always the most difficult.

[Rated R]

thank you thank you thank you for responding.
oh my gosh, i am so happy right now.
i feel all smiley and everything!
like i've never felt in a long long long time.
ahh, i needed this around exam season.

[Outlander]

thank you thank you thank you for responding.
oh my gosh, i am so happy right now.
i feel all smiley and everything!
like i've never felt in a long long long time.
ahh, i needed this around exam season.

No problem. A great line from Le Mis taken out of context:

"It doesn't cost me to be nice."

[cautiousculpeo]

Well hello. People are being so stupid to me. My friend D likes me and everyone keeps asking if were secretly dating.
1) were literly BEST friends
2) who cares weather we date or not!
3) NO i am NOT DATING HIM!

So anyways. Can someone help me with something to say to them when they ask. I dont want to come off like we are, or that im mad/and or pissed off. (Even though i am)

[T.a.r.d.i.s.]

Well hello. People are being so stupid to me. My friend D likes me and everyone keeps asking if were secretly dating.
1) were literly BEST friends
2) who cares weather we date or not!
3) NO i am NOT DATING HIM!

So anyways. Can someone help me with something to say to them when they ask. I dont want to come off like we are, or that im mad/and or pissed off. (Even though i am)

That happens to me a lot. I normally say (calmly) that no, I am not dating _____ and can you please stop asking me if I am.