Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[gwanu]

my crush's friend likes me.
this is bad
i hang out with them sometimes,
but my crush has purposely been avoiding me
just so his friend can talk to me alone

i dont like this ; n ; what should i do?

there is a cruel way to do that.
i usually go for, let's play truth or dare! //le you to crush's friend
Eventually he will ask you who you like, and you tell him you like /crush's name here/ but ask him not to tell your crush.

[kafka]

pretty nervous right now, any advice appreciated!

I'll start from a few weeks ago, the nights of our school production. I was backstage crew (set guard), and this really cute guy (M) was in charge of props. My friends and I had always discussed how he was pretty good-looking throughout the year in a joking none-of-us-actually-like-him way. M is the class councillor of my best friend's class, and since I'm nearly always personality first, I never took interested in him. We were working pretty close for the production, I actually liked his personality and started crushing on him.

Recently, a guy (R) I had known since primary school added me on Facebook. He also worked alongside us as backstage crew, and after the final show he kept messaging me, asking me who I liked. Apparently, he's really interested in everyone's crushes, and literally his whole class trusts him with this stuff. In the end, I was tired of bottling everything up, so we agreed on a trade. He told me his crush, and I told him mine. The funny thing is, as soon as I told him, he said "I knew it" and "it was just instinct".

But anyways, the school formal is coming up in four weeks. I'm also a class councillor and the student council gets to plan and pull off the whole thing. To be honest, I really want to ask M, even if it's a casual thing. R has turned into my self-proclaimed wingman [click] [click] [click].

My main fears are that M doesn't notice me at all, making it too awkward to say yes to someone who you don't know, and that I'm going to screw up since I've never seriously asked someone "out" before. I'm hopefully doing it next week so M has time to think about it. My plan is to ask if he's going to the formal, and if he:
a] says yes, I ask who with. If he says noone, then I ask him to go with me.
b] says no, I ask him anyway.

Am I going about this the right way? What do you think M would say? Is R right in trying to help me? How do I combat my shyness and insecurities?

[.rin okumura.]

Okay so I have a crush on this guy (Let's call him T) and I have liked him for a while. Now T is very athletic and plays football, wrestling, basketball and track. He also is in choir and band. Now here is the crazy part. So technically we are the same age, but because his parents held him back a year because that's what the state said was best to do, he is a grade lower than me. He and I both know each other well since we have homeroom together and I was his wrestling manager last year we get along pretty well. The problem is I have no idea how to talk to him even though we have some things in common but I just don't know how to get a convo started and keep it going.... Advice?

[Gryffindor's Sword]

I need a lot of help, but from Christian people,please! So I like this Jewish girl but I'm Christian and believe that dating someone is not the way to convert them and I will not date her. But she and a lot of other people found out about my thoughts. She doesn't care but a lot of people think I'm being a jerk because of it. I don't understand why though! I have a right to think that and me and the girl are still great friends. Any advice?

[kafka]

I need a lot of help, but from Christian people,please! So I like this Jewish girl but I'm Christian and believe that dating someone is not the way to convert them and I will not date her. But she and a lot of other people found out about my thoughts. She doesn't care but a lot of people think I'm being a jerk because of it. I don't understand why though! I have a right to think that and me and the girl are still great friends. Any advice?

What do you mean by "dating someone is not the way to convert them"? I'm sorry if I'm being rude or ignorant in anyway, but can't two people of different religions date, without one converting?

[Beta]

I need a lot of help, but from Christian people,please! So I like this Jewish girl but I'm Christian and believe that dating someone is not the way to convert them and I will not date her. But she and a lot of other people found out about my thoughts. She doesn't care but a lot of people think I'm being a jerk because of it. I don't understand why though! I have a right to think that and me and the girl are still great friends. Any advice?

Converting her shouldn't even be of your concern. Everyone has the right to practice their own religion and beliefs.

[Captain Chomp]

I need a lot of help, but from Christian people,please! So I like this Jewish girl but I'm Christian and believe that dating someone is not the way to convert them and I will not date her. But she and a lot of other people found out about my thoughts. She doesn't care but a lot of people think I'm being a jerk because of it. I don't understand why though! I have a right to think that and me and the girl are still great friends. Any advice?

Converting her shouldn't even be of your concern. Everyone has the right to practice their own religion and beliefs.

I strongly agree....Even if you do date she doesn't have to convert...

[Gryffindor's Sword]

I need a lot of help, but from Christian people,please! So I like this Jewish girl but I'm Christian and believe that dating someone is not the way to convert them and I will not date her. But she and a lot of other people found out about my thoughts. She doesn't care but a lot of people think I'm being a jerk because of it. I don't understand why though! I have a right to think that and me and the girl are still great friends. Any advice?

Converting her shouldn't even be of your concern. Everyone has the right to practice their own religion and beliefs.

I strongly agree....Even if you do date she doesn't have to convert...

Well its sort of a Christians mission in life to spread the gospel and gain more followers of Christ. I'm not saying that people don't have the right to have there own religion, I'm just saying that I'm still going to share things about my religion with them because I believe its what I should do and I'd like my girlfriend to have the sand beliefs.

[Beta]

Well its sort of a Christians mission in life to spread the gospel and gain more followers of Christ. I'm not saying that people don't have the right to have there own religion, I'm just saying that I'm still going to share things about my religion with them because I believe its what I should do and I'd like my girlfriend to have the sand beliefs.

I am Christian. It is my duty to spread the word of God and who wish to follow will follow. It is not my duty to force my beliefs down one's throat. Sure, you can share your beliefs but you must also preserve hers.

[Gryffindor's Sword]

Well its sort of a Christians mission in life to spread the gospel and gain more followers of Christ. I'm not saying that people don't have the right to have there own religion, I'm just saying that I'm still going to share things about my religion with them because I believe its what I should do and I'd like my girlfriend to have the sand beliefs.

I am Christian. It is my duty to spread the word of God and who wish to follow will follow. It is not my duty to force my beliefs down one's throat. Sure, you can share your beliefs but you must also preserve hers.

I'm not saying I'm "shoving it down ones throat." Since this isn't on topic anymore, would everyone just pretend I never posted at all. Thanks