Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[frogpaws]

So today during my commons period at school (originally for study hall, but our teacher wasn't there and there was no sub) me and my best friend sat at a table, just as two. I didn't realize until a few minutes later that the guy I've been crushing on since the beginning of the year was sitting the table to the left of us...I pointed them out to my friend and she teased me the entire period about it. She also said a friend he was sitting with was cute, so who knows where that will lead us.
I need to stop chickening out and talk to him one of these days....sigh

[Pongo.]

Why is it that all the people attracted to me are socially awkward and just plain... weird, not weird like me, a different level of weird. The weird people that no one talks to. All I want is for some redneck to fall in love with. I know I'm "not mature enough" for true love, but I'm kind of tired of waiting... (jeez I sound desperate!) But, since I live in a city, there aren't a whole lot of rednecks, the ones that are here, don't even notice me. ,-, and the year is almost over. But, there is next year to try to socialize, (I swear I'm not desperate, because the last thing I want right now is a relationship, but at the same time, I want one, one that's right.)

[Twilight Sky]

@Pongo
You can come to my school (so...many...rednecks....)!

[Taako]

Okay, so a couple weeks ago this guy, welts call him S, snuck up behind me and just started to brush my hair. Then he asked me if I could come to his church. I said I couldn't that Sunday. He kept trying to convince me of different days, but I didn't have the heart to tell him that I don't really go to church because I don't believe in everything in the Bible. Plus, I don't even know exactly what religions he is! He is always talking to me, and I don't know if he likes me. Does he? I used to have a crush in him, but then I didn't, and I think I might. But, I don't know if he feels the same. Any advice is appreciated.

[Fluffy:3]

I need some help ;-;

So for the past two years I've liked this one guy, MM. He's so cute, but I also really like this guy, Sherbs. Now here are my problems with them:

1) MM used to talk to me all the time, catch my eye just about everywhere, laugh with/at me, and all sorts of things. Now I am convinced 100% that he loves this other girl because he does those same things to her now. He completely ignores me and even moved away from me at the lunch table we all sit at to sit with her. I feel so mad at him lately and I even called him a jerk a few times.

2) Now on to Sherbs. Sherbs is about the nicest guy I've ever met. He's been my friend longer than MM and I love him to bits. Now here's my huge problem; he's my best friend's boyfriend. I talk to him all the time and we laugh and joke around all the time together, even in front of my friend (his girlfriend). Here's a weird part: most all the time when his girlfriend is there, he seems to completely ignore her and only talk to me! I kind of back off and only say a little bit to him around her, but she never looks at me or talks to me when I'm talking to Sherbs. I feel like if I'm too friendly with Sherbs that she doesn't really want me to be there and starts ignoring me. I feel like I'm losing my best friend because of him!

Sorry it's a little long; anyone have opinions?

[cautiousculpeo]

@Pongo
Bro, I'm in Canada and boy are there lots of them here. My best friend happens to be a red headed redneck xP he's epic.

Back on topic!
D is sick... He's got a really bad case of nemonia. Like the last time he had it he had to be revived... I'm pretty worried... And I'm still in a ranting mood. *Angry face*
People at school! I am NOT dating D! He's my best friend and it's not against the law to be friends with a guy! Calm your gossiping faces please!!!!
*Rant Over*

[Lauraine]

I need some help ;-;

So for the past two years I've liked this one guy, MM. He's so cute, but I also really like this guy, Sherbs. Now here are my problems with them:

1) MM used to talk to me all the time, catch my eye just about everywhere, laugh with/at me, and all sorts of things. Now I am convinced 100% that he loves this other girl because he does those same things to her now. He completely ignores me and even moved away from me at the lunch table we all sit at to sit with her. I feel so mad at him lately and I even called him a jerk a few times.

2) Now on to Sherbs. Sherbs is about the nicest guy I've ever met. He's been my friend longer than MM and I love him to bits. Now here's my huge problem; he's my best friend's boyfriend. I talk to him all the time and we laugh and joke around all the time together, even in front of my friend (his girlfriend). Here's a weird part: most all the time when his girlfriend is there, he seems to completely ignore her and only talk to me! I kind of back off and only say a little bit to him around her, but she never looks at me or talks to me when I'm talking to Sherbs. I feel like if I'm too friendly with Sherbs that she doesn't really want me to be there and starts ignoring me. I feel like I'm losing my best friend because of him!

Sorry it's a little long; anyone have opinions?

I know how you feel about MM ..
like..
okay.
well obviously dont wait for MM to come to you!
he obviously enjoys flirting witht his other chick..
And besides, if you really like sherbs, you should talk to him about it maybe, or even talk to your friend.
get these things out.
never hide your feelings.
ever.

[grim.]

I have two questions for you people today. If this is the wrong thread, please direct my attention elsewhere. Thank you!

I feel as thought this belongs here as I do still love the person in question.
"I have a question for you people regarding drunk people. So I have an ex boyfriend who lives in the next province over, we text each other and we're pretty much best friends. But anyways, he calls me the other night and he's drunk out of his tree. But he talks to me the whole time he's with his friends, introduces them to me and whatnot. Anyways, getting to the point he kept saying "I miss you" and when we finally ended our conversation he said the words "I love you". I don't take these words lightly, but my friend is convinced he still cares about me, yet at the same time I wonder about it because, well, he was drunk. Any advice or tips?"

Secondly:
Okay, so I like another boy, now my friend is convinced he likes me, I on the other hand am completely convinced that he thinks I'm bat-s**t crazy, which I proudly am. So here is my story/question;
So I walk my friend partway to her bus, she gets on and I just kind of stand outside my school awkwardly waiting for my brother. While I'm waiting I notice 'Crisp' (guy I like) sitting at one of the tables not far away. Anyways this guy 'Cy' comes out of the school with 'Bish' and 'Cable'(Cable being Crisp's brother). These three guys come out of the school and they're talking to me, asking me for a lighter. I don't have one so Cy and Bish take off and just as they leave Crisp comes up to me and Cable, gestures towards me slightly and says; "that's who I was telling you about."
Now, what do I make of this?

[Lioness626]

I have two questions for you people today. If this is the wrong thread, please direct my attention elsewhere. Thank you!

I feel as thought this belongs here as I do still love the person in question.
"I have a question for you people regarding drunk people. So I have an ex boyfriend who lives in the next province over, we text each other and we're pretty much best friends. But anyways, he calls me the other night and he's drunk out of his tree. But he talks to me the whole time he's with his friends, introduces them to me and whatnot. Anyways, getting to the point he kept saying "I miss you" and when we finally ended our conversation he said the words "I love you". I don't take these words lightly, but my friend is convinced he still cares about me, yet at the same time I wonder about it because, well, he was drunk. Any advice or tips?"

Secondly:
Okay, so I like another boy, now my friend is convinced he likes me, I on the other hand am completely convinced that he thinks I'm bat-s**t crazy, which I proudly am. So here is my story/question;
So I walk my friend partway to her bus, she gets on and I just kind of stand outside my school awkwardly waiting for my brother. While I'm waiting I notice 'Crisp' (guy I like) sitting at one of the tables not far away. Anyways this guy 'Cy' comes out of the school with 'Bish' and 'Cable'(Cable being Crisp's brother). These three guys come out of the school and they're talking to me, asking me for a lighter. I don't have one so Cy and Bish take off and just as they leave Crisp comes up to me and Cable, gestures towards me slightly and says; "that's who I was telling you about."
Now, what do I make of this?

usually people are nore honest when drunk, I've found. they say things they wouldn't dare sober, and find it difficult to lie. they do usually get more emotional and"caring" I guess you could say though. I don't know really, it could depend on what he is like drunk, some say they love everyone, some don't

[Twilight Sky]

So I like this guy and he's kind of sending me mixed signals. It often seems like he's trying to ignore me (I know he doesn't hate me), but them he'll randomly make an awkward attempt at conversation. I see him talking to other girls and he's normal, but around me he's like extra awkward or shy or something.
Anyone know what could be the cause?

Anyone?