Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[a n d y.]

Jordan is confusing me SO much!

I'll talk to him, and we get along really well, but isn't he dating Brittany? Or was that a rumour? Or was I completely stupid and imagined it?
We were in gym class today, and we're playing softball. So we had to get back in the lineup from the way we were in yesterday. Me and Jordan were sitting next to each other because, there was an open space. But today, he let me go in front of him, so I could bat, and him and his friend were cheering me on<3

Of course I missed the ball, and got an out... but that doesn't matter xD

Do we... err.. never mind xP

Advice?

~|Hazelfire|~ <3<3<3

[Cyrinus]

I can't do this much longer. I can't keep chasing you around. It's ruining me. Around and around, but I can't stop. It's sickening to see you with her. How can you be with her? She's cruel to you, and she's rude to everyone around you. How do you do it? Why do you put up with her? She hurting you, but you can't see it. It's your first relationship; you're blinded by "love". I have chased you for years, and been there for you through this. I know you better than she does. So why her? Why did you tell me no? Did I do something wrong? Is this some way to get back at me for something I'm not certain of? Are we both just blinded with jealousy? I can't keep asking why... But I cannot force myself to let go...

Gah. I can't do it... I talked to you today. You weren't yourself. No awkward jokes in the halls and no humming music to annoy me. You haven't done that lately. I talked to your friends, they say you don't talk to them much either. You have kinda left us all alone. She has pulled you away from everyone, to keep her to herself. You seem sadder as well. What has she done to you? She can be quite rude, I know from experience. Does she treat you like she treats us? I want to she you happy, and your not. I know you would never date me. I know you have a crush on me, your friends tell me that much. But you don't seem to like me much. I don't care if I never date you... I just want you back as a friend, me friend.

[panhead]

Thanks neon! I will do that and I will probably post now on what happens.

[Zeee]

How do you go about asking someone who they like? Not for me, for my friend. She really wants me to find out who this guy likes, if anyone, but she's too afraid to do it herself because she thinks she'll make a fool out of herself. I think her situation is so cute though :3 anyways, so should I say it subtly or should I just bluntly say who do you like, if anyone? Thanks C:

[Pongo.]

thanks for all the advice, I only want to be in a happy relationship mainly because it makes me feel better, and my heart is too big to keep to myself, I want to share it with someone, and have a good friend I can talk to anytime without being judged or worried if they are busy with someone else, I have 2 friends that I actually talk to regularly, and both have a boyfriend, so I always feel like a third wheel, and left out, I don't want to be in a relationship just to be in a relationship.

[ephemeral.light]

Thanks neon! I will do that and I will probably post now on what happens.

Yep! Let me know how it goes! ^^

How do you go about asking someone who they like? Not for me, for my friend. She really wants me to find out who this guy likes, if anyone, but she's too afraid to do it herself because she thinks she'll make a fool out of herself. I think her situation is so cute though :3 anyways, so should I say it subtly or should I just bluntly say who do you like, if anyone? Thanks C:

The preferable way would of course be to get her to ask him who he likes. c: But if she doesn't want to, then I guess it would be okay if you did too. As for the way you asked, I can't really tell you straight up since I don't know this person or the situation. But you should talk to your friend and also take into consideration what his personality is. If your friend's fine with you asking straight up and he's the more open type, then by all means go ahead. :] But if not, and you feel like their may be some weirdness to that, then that may not be the best idea. It all really just depends. xD

Jordan is confusing me SO much!

I'll talk to him, and we get along really well, but isn't he dating Brittany? Or was that a rumour? Or was I completely stupid and imagined it?
We were in gym class today, and we're playing softball. So we had to get back in the lineup from the way we were in yesterday. Me and Jordan were sitting next to each other because, there was an open space. But today, he let me go in front of him, so I could bat, and him and his friend were cheering me on<3

Of course I missed the ball, and got an out... but that doesn't matter xD

Do we... err.. never mind xP

Advice?

~|Hazelfire|~ <3<3<3

Are there any other signs you have that he may like you? There's always the possibility that Jordan likes you, but if him letting you go in front of him is the only basis you have to judge this upon, then I would reconsider that thought. Sometimes guys simply feel like being polite around a girl. If you want to determine whether or not he likes you, look for other signs as well. Like, how much have the two of you had a conversation? Or how much eye contact has he given you? Does he usually act any different around you? But of course, it's good that he and his friends were cheering you on that day in softball. It means that he's at least comfortable around you and most likely thinks of you at least as a good friend. That can get rid of some of the awkwardness and also increase the chances of him liking you.

[grim.]

I have two questions for you people today. If this is the wrong thread, please direct my attention elsewhere. Thank you!

I feel as thought this belongs here as I do still love the person in question.
"I have a question for you people regarding drunk people. So I have an ex boyfriend who lives in the next province over, we text each other and we're pretty much best friends. But anyways, he calls me the other night and he's drunk out of his tree. But he talks to me the whole time he's with his friends, introduces them to me and whatnot. Anyways, getting to the point he kept saying "I miss you" and when we finally ended our conversation he said the words "I love you". I don't take these words lightly, but my friend is convinced he still cares about me, yet at the same time I wonder about it because, well, he was drunk. Any advice or tips?"

Secondly:
Okay, so I like another boy, now my friend is convinced he likes me, I on the other hand am completely convinced that he thinks I'm bat-s**t crazy, which I proudly am. So here is my story/question;
So I walk my friend partway to her bus, she gets on and I just kind of stand outside my school awkwardly waiting for my brother. While I'm waiting I notice 'Crisp' (guy I like) sitting at one of the tables not far away. Anyways this guy 'Cy' comes out of the school with 'Bish' and 'Cable'(Cable being Crisp's brother). These three guys come out of the school and they're talking to me, asking me for a lighter. I don't have one so Cy and Bish take off and just as they leave Crisp comes up to me and Cable, gestures towards me slightly and says; "that's who I was telling you about."
Now, what do I make of this?

[Frosttheleopard]

Any advice for this girl? I think this boy I used to like, I'll call him E, likes me now. Whenever I look up at him, he is looking at me. He always tries to get my attention, whether its poking me, saying my name, or even just talking to me. When in gym and sitting near the whiteboard he sits behind me and pokes me in the back with his foot or near/next to me. When we sit next to eachother, he always talks to me and a lot. Is it possible he likes me? He had his chance earlier in the year, and he blew it. What I'm most worried about is if I still like him. I'm so comfortable yet nervous around him. I stutter and I mumble, and I always feel like I'm blushing. The thing is, next year we are going to different schools. Help?

Well, it seems like he does like you by the things he does, but you should also take into account the way he acts around other girls and people in general. You never know, he could just be friendly in general and do that to everyone. I'm sorry that I can't really help with the nervousness around him. :3 A lot of people are nervous around people they like and behave differently. Just try to loosen up, and don't think so much that he'll judge you or remember it if you blush. If it makes you feel better, try going up to talk to him with a friend. It'll make things a lot less scary. ^^ For you guys going to different schools, I'm not going to lie, but it does make things a little harder. If you guys can still see each other periodically or can communicate through other means then you should be fine though.

I hope I helped! ^^

I've never seen him do that to anyone else. And I hang out with him a lot.

[ViiciousVee]

Guess What?!?

A guy i like likes me! You can pretty much tell, One of my friends told me he liked me but i can't tell Him that my friend said so. His name is Matt, He's taller than me but not by alot. He has blonde wavy short hair, freckles and the most amazing blue eyes. We've been friends for almost two years. We are those type of friends who flirt and mess with eachother. We play pranks and we are both huge pranksters! Yesterday, I noticed he kept looking at me, Then he would smile and would try to put his hat on me. I would smile and say'' What?'' He would look into my eyes and say nothing, He also looked at my friend Destany and said'' Have you noticed Jade(Me) always smiles, I have never her seen her make it through a day without smiling.'' <3 Lol

Okay so on monday.. He walked me to my class and as i turned to leave he said''Wait... What do you think of us? Dating?'' My heart stopped completely and i said''I'll think about.'' It ended up being a yes, So Yesterday yes the exact same day we went to an Arcade with a group of friends. My friend Jessica turned on this sniper game she didn't know how to play. I tried to shoot the sniper, He shook his head and said'' You need to straighten up.'' I still didn't have it right so he put his arms around me and lifted the gun up and said''Now try.'' Guess what i made it! Lol. He's been my friend for awhile! So i found out he likes alot of the things i like. <3 Lets hope im not setting my heart up for heart break.

[ephemeral.light]

Any advice for this girl? I think this boy I used to like, I'll call him E, likes me now. Whenever I look up at him, he is looking at me. He always tries to get my attention, whether its poking me, saying my name, or even just talking to me. When in gym and sitting near the whiteboard he sits behind me and pokes me in the back with his foot or near/next to me. When we sit next to eachother, he always talks to me and a lot. Is it possible he likes me? He had his chance earlier in the year, and he blew it. What I'm most worried about is if I still like him. I'm so comfortable yet nervous around him. I stutter and I mumble, and I always feel like I'm blushing. The thing is, next year we are going to different schools. Help?

Well, it seems like he does like you by the things he does, but you should also take into account the way he acts around other girls and people in general. You never know, he could just be friendly in general and do that to everyone. I'm sorry that I can't really help with the nervousness around him. :3 A lot of people are nervous around people they like and behave differently. Just try to loosen up, and don't think so much that he'll judge you or remember it if you blush. If it makes you feel better, try going up to talk to him with a friend. It'll make things a lot less scary. ^^ For you guys going to different schools, I'm not going to lie, but it does make things a little harder. If you guys can still see each other periodically or can communicate through other means then you should be fine though.

I hope I helped! ^^

I've never seen him do that to anyone else. And I hang out with him a lot.

It's good that you hang out with him a lot; it should help. And if he doesn't do that to anyone else then who knows, maybe it could mean something. c: