Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[zeldarocks]

So, um, I 'm trying to find good ways to cope with the fact that my BF is planning on joining the Marines. I'm really happy he is following his passions, but I just don't know what to do. He's going to the recruiters' office today and at the end of the school year he is going to start bootcamp. I'm only gonna see him once every 3 months during the bootcamp for a year and then once every 9 months after he is stationed and I want good ways to stay in contact with him since I'm still gonna be in town while he is off God knows where, risking his life. Any ideas that are easy to achieve? And should I try to spend as much time as I can with him until he leaves or will that just make the goodbye even harder?

[jetlag]

Just me ranting, don't mind me. If you want to read my other posts about him then just search "Coty".

I'm sorta starting to miss him. My friend who's a senior decided he was gonna force me to walk down the hall with him, and he had his arm around my shoulders. And I know Coty saw it. I haven't talked to him in over a month. I haven't talked to him since my birthday I believe, which was the 22nd of March, and that was barely anything. We sent maybe five, if that, texts back and forth. I miss him, and I don't. Everyone says he's annoying, but I don't know. I don't have any classes with him since he's a year older, so I don't really know how he behaves in classes. He was just what I wanted in a guy sometimes.
Whenever he got protective, it was just so cute. I don't know. I see him everyday, and sometimes I catch him looking at me. I don't know whether he misses me or not. I doubt it, cuz he probably would've texted me by now. Or maybe not. *sigh* I just don't know what to do. The other day I considered texting him to see what would happen, but I don't wanna be the one to break first. We didn't fight or anything, we just...stopped talking. I would almost always have to text him first too. I just don't know what I wanna do about the situation. I guess I'll just keep waiting and see if anything ever happens.

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Yes, I have the similar problem to both of you, except it's just the guy I have a crush on. He's a year older, we don't talk outside of class, and I'm afraid that I'd make myself look like a complete idiot if I said even a few words to him in the hall!

[.sea]

hello c:
so I need some advice, you can pm me or just post here I don't mind.

a couple of weeks ago this really cute guy came from Germany. he is in my algebra class.
me and friend like him, and she sits fairly close to him, and I'm farther away.
so today in class he was talking to her and passing her notes, and of course I
made it look like I didn't care but I do. I mean I have never had a boyfriend, and no one has ever
liked me before. everyone says I'm pretty (just girls though) and are surprised I don't have
a boyfriend. I am mainly shy talking to guys and am not the obnoxious type.
but I really want to get his attention, any ideas?

thanks c:

[Bebop]

hello c:
so I need some advice, you can pm me or just post here I don't mind.

a couple of weeks ago this really cute guy came from Germany. he is in my algebra class.
me and friend like him, and she sits fairly close to him, and I'm farther away.
so today in class he was talking to her and passing her notes, and of course I
made it look like I didn't care but I do. I mean I have never had a boyfriend, and no one has ever
liked me before. everyone says I'm pretty (just girls though) and are surprised I don't have
a boyfriend. I am mainly shy talking to guys and am not the obnoxious type.
but I really want to get his attention, any ideas?

thanks c:

If he is an exchange student, he is probably not allowed to date or discouraged from dating. Just FYI.

[provolone]

I need some help ;-;

So for the past two years I've liked this one guy, MM. He's so cute, but I also really like this guy, Sherbs. Now here are my problems with them:

1) MM used to talk to me all the time, catch my eye just about everywhere, laugh with/at me, and all sorts of things. Now I am convinced 100% that he loves this other girl because he does those same things to her now. He completely ignores me and even moved away from me at the lunch table we all sit at to sit with her. I feel so mad at him lately and I even called him a jerk a few times.

2) Now on to Sherbs. Sherbs is about the nicest guy I've ever met. He's been my friend longer than MM and I love him to bits. Now here's my huge problem; he's my best friend's boyfriend. I talk to him all the time and we laugh and joke around all the time together, even in front of my friend (his girlfriend). Here's a weird part: most all the time when his girlfriend is there, he seems to completely ignore her and only talk to me! I kind of back off and only say a little bit to him around her, but she never looks at me or talks to me when I'm talking to Sherbs. I feel like if I'm too friendly with Sherbs that she doesn't really want me to be there and starts ignoring me. I feel like I'm losing my best friend because of him!

Sorry it's a little long; anyone have opinions?

Sherbs is off limits. Done. You cannot flirt with him while he is dating anyone. Especially your best friend.

You have nothing to really be mad at MM for. I mean, he's just starting to like someone else. He wants to spend time with this other girl, and that's okay. Yes, your allowed to be jealous and hurt. But angry, not so much. Getting over someone after liking them for two years is hard. It was hard for me when my boyfriend of three months broke up with me. I can't imagine how this would feel. But the worst thing to be is angry. It's not his fault! You can still keep a friendship going, and there's nothing wrong with that.

[greysilence]

I just posted about Coty yesterday, and now I'm posting about him again. >.<

Welp, I saw him in school today. When he passed me in the morning I'm pretty sure he glanced at me. Then, later on when I was walking to 6th hour with my senior friend I said yesterday and my other friend who's the same age as me, I know he looked at me. Gahhh. I just don't know whether I want to talk to him or move on.

[.sea]

hello c:
so I need some advice, you can pm me or just post here I don't mind.

a couple of weeks ago this really cute guy came from Germany. he is in my algebra class.
me and friend like him, and she sits fairly close to him, and I'm farther away.
so today in class he was talking to her and passing her notes, and of course I
made it look like I didn't care but I do. I mean I have never had a boyfriend, and no one has ever
liked me before. everyone says I'm pretty (just girls though) and are surprised I don't have
a boyfriend. I am mainly shy talking to guys and am not the obnoxious type.
but I really want to get his attention, any ideas?

thanks c:

If he is an exchange student, he is probably not allowed to date or discouraged from dating. Just FYI.

he isn't an exchange student, we don't have any in our school.

[Rated R]

so, at the moment i've dedicated my signature to sorting out my feelings for a crush i've had for seven freaking years.
no matter how hard i try, i cannot get the feelings out of my heart.
my stomach will not stop spinning, and i can't help but feel giddy at one moment and like i'm about to cry the next.
i have sort this out.
one way or another.
i have to figure it out. like me or don't.
accepting or rejection.
somehow, past my shyness and nervousness and anxiety.
i must.
any support would be gratefully appreciated.
i feel as though a part of me is frozen to the ground when the rest keeps walking.
i need to find this out. asap.
so i can live the rest at peace.

[ephemeral.light]

I used to like a shy guy too, so I'll see if I can help you with this as well. c:

If you can't talk to him straight up, then try to say "hi" and smile at him when you guys see each other, like when you get onto the bus. In this situation, however, I would suggest not cornering him during lunch or anything. xD If you know some of the people he usually hangs out with, you can also join his group of friends and participate in a group conversation with him. That way you guys could get to know each other and become more comfortable. Another thing you could try is talking to him on the bus when you first get on. You could simply say "hi" while walking past him or even sit in a seat next to his and strike up a conversation about school or the classes you guys are taking.

Don't lose heart if he said "no way" when his friend asked him. Even I do that sometimes when I like someone but just don't want them or others to know.

Thanks for the advice! I kinda sorta know a few of his friends, one in particular that he's pretty good friends with. He's the one who told him I liked him. I've been trying to get somewhat familiar with his friends anyways, since I think we all have stuff in common. Of course him and his friends are all 2 years older than me and not in any of my classes, but I always see him at his locker.
They all sit at the same table during lunch, him and his friends xD but there's so many of them I wouldn't even dare go there unless I knew them real well. I'll take your advice though (:

You're welcome! I'm glad it helped, and good luck with it all. Tell me how it goes, if you guys do end up striking up a conversation somewhere. ^.^

[Cyrinus]

I can't do this much longer. I can't keep chasing you around. It's ruining me. Around and around, but I can't stop. It's sickening to see you with her. How can you be with her? She's cruel to you, and she's rude to everyone around you. How do you do it? Why do you put up with her? She hurting you, but you can't see it. It's your first relationship; you're blinded by "love". I have chased you for years, and been there for you through this. I know you better than she does. So why her? Why did you tell me no? Did I do something wrong? Is this some way to get back at me for something I'm not certain of? Are we both just blinded with jealousy? I can't keep asking why... But I cannot force myself to let go...