Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Skrillex The Fox]

Ugh, I miss him so much. </3

This guy that I've liked loved for almost a year now lives thousands of miles away. We never really talked a lot until about a month before I moved. Then, it was like, we rushed to become great friends in those last thirty days.

We tried a long-distance relationship, and that worked for almost a year.

We broke up last November. November 26th. I cried all night.

Now, it's like we're total strangers again. We barely talk, and when we do, we're always playing around. Never those serious talks where I could trust him with everything.

I feel like I've lost my best friend. I don't know what to do.

I mean, I don't think I could talk to him about it. That's the scary thing. I used to be able to talk to him about everything. He was my best friend. He always texted me goodmorning and goodnight, was so polite and funny, and I loved him to death. But now, it's all so crummy. I don't know what to do anymore. My ''best friend'' won't help because she likes him. He doesn't like her, but she doesn't care. She likes him. She told me that he told her that he misses me, but I'm not sure if I should trust her. She's lied to me about that before.

Any advice would be amazing. I'm lost, and I've nearly given up on him, though I don't want to. I love him.

[Shadeslayer243]

Ugh, I miss him so much. </3

This guy that I've liked loved for almost a year now lives thousands of miles away. We never really talked a lot until about a month before I moved. Then, it was like, we rushed to become great friends in those last thirty days.

We tried a long-distance relationship, and that worked for almost a year.

We broke up last November. November 26th. I cried all night.

Now, it's like we're total strangers again. We barely talk, and when we do, we're always playing around. Never those serious talks where I could trust him with everything.

I feel like I've lost my best friend. I don't know what to do.

I mean, I don't think I could talk to him about it. That's the scary thing. I used to be able to talk to him about everything. He was my best friend. He always texted me goodmorning and goodnight, was so polite and funny, and I loved him to death. But now, it's all so crummy. I don't know what to do anymore. My ''best friend'' won't help because she likes him. He doesn't like her, but she doesn't care. She likes him. She told me that he told her that he misses me, but I'm not sure if I should trust her. She's lied to me about that before.

Any advice would be amazing. I'm lost, and I've nearly given up on him, though I don't want to. I love him.

Do tou have FaceBook? i would talk to him on FB as it woldn't be so awkward. If you dont have FB you could try sending him a letter or conatcting him. I have never been in this situation so I can't really help here. I hope it goes well for you

[Nellas]

gigantic probably six foot tall football type guy xD

I have to say, this made me laugh. M is six foot one... six foot two... *shrug* And what am I, five five and a half. XD

I'm so glad A is spending that much time with you! It's great that you got to see him alone and have a great time. I was reading the story of your plight and I wanted to help, but I know I probably don't have enough experience to give you the right advice for that one. I really do hope everything works out all right in the end.
Best wishes,
Nellas

[PurpuraPapilio]

Right, I'd just like maybe one or two points of advice to help me.

I will say outright; I'm a tomboy and I've always been that way. I find it near to impossible to make friends with girls, because I'm always isolated, bullied and used because I'm so totally different, so I'm always better off being friends with boys.

I've had a close group of 4 boys all about the same age as me; let's call them C, S, M and D. And that's all fine and dandy. But I developed a crush on M, trouble is he the oblivious type who finds motorbikes more attractive than girls. Don't get me wrong, he's a very lovely guy who embodies alot of what I look for in a man; tall, athletic, hygiene-concious, intelligent, funny and respectful toward females. But I told him my feelings for him after 3 years of crushing on him, because my best friend and her then boyfriend told me I had a chance, and all he did in reaction was pull a face like this: , and he has never spoke of it again, never saying how he felt about me.

I will say that the oblivious blow-off he displayed has been the worst rejection I've ever had to suffer.

So M, the one I had feelings for, went off and is now working on a cruise and it's unlikely I'll ever see him again, D has continiously had a creepy crush on me even when he has an equally creepy girlfriend (this is a guy who would happily pin me down against my will and force himself on me since he had no qualms about doing so in the past - I broke his jaw because I hit him that hard in panic and fear), C sees me as a man and has said he would feel disgusted if he ever felt that way about me, and S led me on then dumped me because I wasn't "fat enough" for him.

I don't see the problem. I dress modestly, put on a little natural make-up, I act like my random and fun-loving self and I go out my way to be as kind and helpful as I can. All of me is real and genuine.

What else can I do? I'm a very loving, loyal romantic that that just needs a chance and a man who is willing to look past my emotional instability and face of acne

[Shadeslayer243]

Right, I'd just like maybe one or two points of advice to help me.

I will say outright; I'm a tomboy and I've always been that way. I find it near to impossible to make friends with girls, because I'm always isolated, bullied and used because I'm so totally different, so I'm always better off being friends with boys.

I've had a close group of 4 boys all about the same age as me; let's call them C, S, M and D. And that's all fine and dandy. But I developed a crush on M, trouble is he the oblivious type who finds motorbikes more attractive than girls. Don't get me wrong, he's a very lovely guy who embodies alot of what I look for in a man; tall, athletic, hygiene-concious, intelligent, funny and respectful toward females. But I told him my feelings for him after 3 years of crushing on him, because my best friend and her then boyfriend told me I had a chance, and all he did in reaction was pull a face like this: , and he has never spoke of it again, never saying how he felt about me.

I will say that the oblivious blow-off he displayed has been the worst rejection I've ever had to suffer.

So M, the one I had feelings for, went off and is now working on a cruise and it's unlikely I'll ever see him again, D has continiously had a creepy crush on me even when he has an equally creepy girlfriend (this is a guy who would happily pin me down against my will and force himself on me since he had no qualms about doing so in the past - I broke his jaw because I hit him that hard in panic and fear), C sees me as a man and has said he would feel disgusted if he ever felt that way about me, and S led me on then dumped me because I wasn't "fat enough" for him.

I don't see the problem. I dress modestly, put on a little natural make-up, I act like my random and fun-loving self and I go out my way to be as kind and helpful as I can. All of me is real and genuine.

What else can I do? I'm a very loving, loyal romantic that that just needs a chance and a man who is willing to look past my emotional instability and face of acne

If they don't love you for who youare or have problems with you tell them to shove it where the sun dont shine. Or give them the finger.... Like me and my buds XD

[PurpuraPapilio]

Right, I'd just like maybe one or two points of advice to help me.

I will say outright; I'm a tomboy and I've always been that way. I find it near to impossible to make friends with girls, because I'm always isolated, bullied and used because I'm so totally different, so I'm always better off being friends with boys.

I've had a close group of 4 boys all about the same age as me; let's call them C, S, M and D. And that's all fine and dandy. But I developed a crush on M, trouble is he the oblivious type who finds motorbikes more attractive than girls. Don't get me wrong, he's a very lovely guy who embodies alot of what I look for in a man; tall, athletic, hygiene-concious, intelligent, funny and respectful toward females. But I told him my feelings for him after 3 years of crushing on him, because my best friend and her then boyfriend told me I had a chance, and all he did in reaction was pull a face like this: , and he has never spoke of it again, never saying how he felt about me.

I will say that the oblivious blow-off he displayed has been the worst rejection I've ever had to suffer.

So M, the one I had feelings for, went off and is now working on a cruise and it's unlikely I'll ever see him again, D has continiously had a creepy crush on me even when he has an equally creepy girlfriend (this is a guy who would happily pin me down against my will and force himself on me since he had no qualms about doing so in the past - I broke his jaw because I hit him that hard in panic and fear), C sees me as a man and has said he would feel disgusted if he ever felt that way about me, and S led me on then dumped me because I wasn't "fat enough" for him.

I don't see the problem. I dress modestly, put on a little natural make-up, I act like my random and fun-loving self and I go out my way to be as kind and helpful as I can. All of me is real and genuine.

What else can I do? I'm a very loving, loyal romantic that that just needs a chance and a man who is willing to look past my emotional instability and face of acne

If they don't love you for who youare or have problems with you tell them to shove it where the sun dont shine. Or give them the finger.... Like me and my buds XD

Lol, I will consider that in the future. Perhaps a change of friends would be in order too...

[e c h o s o n g]

So, i love this guy. And i mean REALLY love him. I've known him for like 10 years, since i was 3. We visit every summer, he comes over my place for like half the summer or i go over his. I'm home schooled and live in the middle of nowhere, so i haven't really got to experience alot of things. This year when he came he talked about working out and jogging. But nothing about us spending time with eachother. I herd him talking to my little brother about "Hotties" and my brother, being a sweet as can be, asked if i was. He said, no, she just her. What is this supposed to mean?

[Nellas]

So, i love this guy. And i mean REALLY love him. I've known him for like 10 years, since i was 3. We visit every summer, he comes over my place for like half the summer or i go over his. I'm home schooled and live in the middle of nowhere, so i haven't really got to experience alot of things. This year when he came he talked about working out and jogging. But nothing about us spending time with eachother. I herd him talking to my little brother about "Hotties" and my brother, being a sweet as can be, asked if i was. He said, no, she just her. What is this supposed to mean?

It means he views you as a sister, Echo, not as a possible crush. I have friends that are like sisters and brothers to me, so I know where he's coming from. He probably doesn't know he hurt you when he said that; it's possible he doesn't have an inkling about what you feel about him as more than just a friend.

[e c h o s o n g]

So, i love this guy. And i mean REALLY love him. I've known him for like 10 years, since i was 3. We visit every summer, he comes over my place for like half the summer or i go over his. I'm home schooled and live in the middle of nowhere, so i haven't really got to experience alot of things. This year when he came he talked about working out and jogging. But nothing about us spending time with eachother. I herd him talking to my little brother about "Hotties" and my brother, being a sweet as can be, asked if i was. He said, no, she just her. What is this supposed to mean?

It means he views you as a sister, Echo, not as a possible crush. I have friends that are like sisters and brothers to me, so I know where he's coming from. He probably doesn't know he hurt you when he said that; it's possible he doesn't have an inkling about what you feel about him as more than just a friend.

Nooo!! But your probably right

[Nightlight24 ♥]

I wish I had a boyfriend haha. I have a huge crush on Josh Hutcherson though d: