Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Roonil Wazlib]

My crush today was being silly with me and hitting me in the head with his Comp book at school, do you think he may like me? I have no clue, to be honest. xD

~Toby

I'm not an expert on these things (at all!), but it's possible :3
From experience, guys seems to tease the girls they like

[MovedToNewAccount]

My crush today was being silly with me and hitting me in the head with his Comp book at school, do you think he may like me? I have no clue, to be honest. xD

~Toby

I'm not an expert on these things (at all!), but it's possible :3
From experience, guys seems to tease the girls they like

Heh, yea. I've noticed that too.
Funny thing is, we were only talking about the Hunger Games and after that he hit me in the head everytime he passed me. -_-

~Toby

[Nimble Awesomeness]

How do you know if I guy likes you?

You know, it really depends. Here are a few helpful videos:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJe_C-iF3Bk (This guy's a genius.)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqF_PtugyBk (This one is pretty cool too. :P)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZxbTHKQm00g (This one is how to get girls to like you, but if a guy is doing this stuff around you he most likely likes you.)

So, I really hope those help you. :) That first one really says it all, I suggest you all give it a watch.

[P o m]

So there's this guy a year older than me I used to like...

We have this thing at school called 'House day' It happens a few times a year and we go to our classroom and do lots of activities. I'm with the pink panthers and so is he.

So during the meeting, he wouldn't stop smiling at me. We were talking like old friends and joking around with each other and when we did an activity that involved ducks, we were having tons of fun.

He just died his hair orange and blue and it's really spiky. He lets me play with it.

I think I'm crushing on him again and I think he might like me.

What should I do?

[~IronRose~]

Go with the flow for now and see where it takes you. He seems really nice but don't jump into the who's liking who think with him to soon.

[s y n]

You guys aren't helping my ego get any smaller...>.> But thank you so much, I feel so loved, lol. I'm really just trying to help... o3o

@Red; Exactly. Patience is a virtue. There will always be good times to tell someone how you feel, wait out the perfect time. If you feel like you've missed it, don't panic, there will be other times, trust me. You've got the right mindset Now, Clove has a really good point, take that into consideration.

-snip-

As I near the end of my very long, rambly post, I have one main thing I need help with - I want to be around A. I want to be close to him, I want to hangout with him, talk with him, etc. But I can't because K is always jumping into our conversations, and the minute that she walks up to us, he walks away. I want to be around him, I really do, but she's constantly around and won't go away so I have no chance at all to even get near him. What can I do?

Alright, well, I read your situation and it's not pretty.

The main thing is K. You don't need to worry about A, that'll be fine and dandy soon enough. But K, that's a biggie.

Kudos for staying friends with her this long. It's going to have to be a little longer.

To start, I'm going to have you think as if you were K. You've been raised by a drunk, an abusive father and a druggie sister. Everyone hates you, and you know it too. You just play along with the rest of them because you know that's the only attention you'll ever get. Hatred is attention, right? And as long as they're pretending to like you, you can live with the fact that they really hate you. You have one "friend" who's treated you with kindness. You want to be just like her; it's why you went after the same guy she likes. And then, you got him. Finally, someone who cares. He asked you, and you said yes. Then that bimbo started hanging around him. You can't tell if they're actually doing anything, because you've had such a horrible awful life that your mindset is to assume the worst in people; it's the only way to live at this point.

We can safely assume that's what she's thinking. She has an awful life so she brings it out on everyone else. It's sad that she has to resort to that, but it's true. Try telling her you want to be around A alone some more, that should help. But you really need to sit her down for a heart to heart. Meaning, take her at a time when she's upset and comfort her. Be there for her. Show her raw kindness, even though you still hate her. I did this for a girl once, really got inside her head. Yeah, two days later she was the same brat to me as she always was. (She had a problem of acting fake to people, she got called out on it and that's why she was upset) Some people just act awful because they're awful people, and some people just act awful because they've got a lot going on at home. There's always the chance that she'll realize later in life how nice you were to her and start being a bit nicer to everyone else.

It will most likely just be a waste of your time, but it sure as heck won't be a waste of hers.

So uh, I realize that this bit of advice is.. Like... Not helpful. At all. I'm kinda rambling right now, so uh... Hopefully in some weird round about way it does help you. Magically. Yeah, I'm just gonna go now. *Awkwardly shuffles out*

That was actually quite helpful :3
I think I'll try that.



ANYWAYS.
-squees-


Today was amazing. I actually got to hangout with A without K around! We weren't alone - that other girl he's friends with was with us because she's also one of my close friends, and we sometimes drifted into a large group of people that are both mine and A's friends (all being male too xD) - but at least I got to be around him without him and K constantly arguing and him just walking away.

We just talked about random stuff. And he laughed at EVERY joke I made!<3 And half of the time, he was the only one who laughed. I heard that that may be a sign he likes me. I don't know if he just laughs really easily or if I'm actually amusing and nobody else heard or if he was laughing because he likes me, but knowing I can make him laugh makes me feel amazing :3
He can definitely make me laugh, that's for sure. I even laugh at his dumb little jokes, but most of the time I think it was pretty much just because he makes me happy and makes me want to smile and laugh. There was definitely the flirty reason, though.

Whenever I see him in the halls, he always calls me over and insists I walk with him. He pokes me when he passes me by when I'm at my locker, and when I turn and look at him as he's walking away he just smiles. Today he was walking down the hallway but he was looking back at me because we were making hearts to each other and he ran into some huge grade nine guy - He's like literally "5'0 or MAYBE "5'1 at the most, and he ran into this gigantic probably six foot tall football type guy xD. What does he do? He just keeps going and still doesn't focus on anyone but me even though he almost walked into a door because of his intense focus on me c: (happy about the focus, not the thing about him almost getting hurt Dx)

I walked by his class and he made a heart to me - I made one back ^.^ - which caused his ENTIRE class to jump up and look out the door to see who he was making the heart to. His teacher was out of the room and now that everyone was up, he jumped up, ran down the hall, hugged me, and ran back into his classroom while waving good-bye to me.

THEN I made half of a heart and he made the other half and we put it together since that's like our thing. He also got over-dramatically upset because I gave his friend who is another of my official best friends a cute pet name and not him. His friends name is Reese, and my pet name for him is "Reeserz" but in a really coo-ey and sweet voice, and I call him that whenever I see him. A made a huge deal over it and afterwards I fake-cried and insisted loudly that I was sorry. This was in the middle of the hallway with people staring at us. He then grabbed me by the shoulders and looked at me seriously. After a minute he said in the most serious tone, "It's okay. I still love you." I did one of those preppy-girl squeals and threw my arms around him while everybody watched with I-think-those-kids-are-insane-or-have-an-extreme-amount-of-mental-problems expressions x3.

The best thing, the thing that just made my heart skip a beat, happened at my locker. I asked him for a hug and he hugged me. I poutily complained that it was a pathetic hug and he walked back over to me and hugged me again. I then complained this time that I didn't get the chance to hug him back. After another hug, I crossed my arms and sadly said that his binders were in the way. He literally THREW his binders in the middle of the hallway and hugged me. I just smiled and when he asked what, I said, "Those were just excuses for more hugs". He smiled all sweetly, giggled adorably, picked up his binders, looked at me for a minute, and then turned away and walked down the hall.
EEEEEEP<3
I think I'm in love<3

But my not-so-friend-friend still likes him and he hates her so she's always getting in the way.
Help?

[darlingdiablo]

Oh. My. Gawd.

I want him already!!

Go for him, Its not like your friend-er person can do anything. He doesn't like him but obviously LIKES you. Hes so precious!!! That about wraps It up, I know, not alot

[e c h o s o n g]

I started to like this guy about 2 years back, hes been in my class ever since. We've been really close but just recentally he asked me who i like, what is that supposed to mean?

[darlingdiablo]

I started to like this guy about 2 years back, hes been in my class ever since. We've been really close but just recentally he asked me who i like, what is that supposed to mean?

That could be a mix of things. Don't get over-excited about it, but definetly take it as a plus. It could be a few things, perhaps her was just curious, or perhaps he may have been trying to see If you liked him. Alot of guys have done that to me, my response: "Im not sure, the guy I kind of like probably doesn't think the same- why risk It?" But me now would probably {If It just so happened he was a good friend of mine and i knew It wouldn't become awkward.} I would have told him. But maybe you should ask him who he likes- theres a start c:

;Hope some of it helped- Inev.

[e c h o s o n g]

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