Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[violeta.]

Okay, so I'm a little freaked out at the moment....

So, my best friend and her boyfriend (who I can't STAND) just broke up.
And now, he's being friendly, like, REALLY friendly to me. And he's NEVER friendly to me!! (I'm not exaggerating, we pretty much hate each other....)

Examples:
Opening doors for me
Trying constantly to make me laugh
He no longer calls me "A monstrous baby eater" (No joke...he actually used to call me that. XD.)
And he's messing around with me in "friendly-ish" ways. Like, jokingly messing around with my music while I'm playing, picking petty arguments with me, etc...

Its kinda freaking me out....Usually, we bicker like cats-and-dogs. I don't know if he's flirting, or just joshing with me....

Not to mention, I have a boyfriend, (And he knows. My BF is one of his best friends..)

So, should I just ignore this, or should I be concerned.

I personally think he's just trying to make your friend jealous. But I also think it could be from the way they broke up. If she broke up with him because of something he did or if he broke up with her for some random reason, then he's probably trying to get on the nerves of your friend or get her jealous. My best advice would be to try and ignore him as much as possible, especially if you have a boyfriend.

So, A figured out much sooner today that I was depressed, and asked what was wrong. I didn't say anything this time. Later on, he told me that my hair looked pretty!!! Was he trying to make my day better, or what was he doing??? Just being nice???

thanks,
music

Well, I think that if A continues with compliments on certain occasions, he could be doing it to try and make you feel better and even make you into a happier person if he thinks the compliments will help. Otherwise, I think he was trying to make your day better.
And if you even need to talk, I'm here for ya. :)

[~Dea~]

Okay, so I'm a little freaked out at the moment....

So, my best friend and her boyfriend (who I can't STAND) just broke up.
And now, he's being friendly, like, REALLY friendly to me. And he's NEVER friendly to me!! (I'm not exaggerating, we pretty much hate each other....)

Examples:
Opening doors for me
Trying constantly to make me laugh
He no longer calls me "A monstrous baby eater" (No joke...he actually used to call me that. XD.)
And he's messing around with me in "friendly-ish" ways. Like, jokingly messing around with my music while I'm playing, picking petty arguments with me, etc...

Its kinda freaking me out....Usually, we bicker like cats-and-dogs. I don't know if he's flirting, or just joshing with me....

Not to mention, I have a boyfriend, (And he knows. My BF is one of his best friends..)

So, should I just ignore this, or should I be concerned.

I personally think he's just trying to make your friend jealous. But I also think it could be from the way they broke up. If she broke up with him because of something he did or if he broke up with her for some random reason, then he's probably trying to get on the nerves of your friend or get her jealous. My best advice would be to try and ignore him as much as possible, especially if you have a boyfriend.

But its JUST me, and his ex isn't the jealous type......

And I'm doing my best, but its REALLY hard when you have this really tall guy mess with you all the time.....

And the fact that I have a BF is an extra incentive for ignoring the guy. I love my BF, and I don't want him thinking that I'm cheating on him...but my best friends ex is still freaking me out.....

[Pongo.]

Ok, so. Today in band, I was waiting for band to start, and my best friends boyfriend walked in with his trombone and my friends Tuba. I go, "hey Jonathan!"
Jonathan goes, I need to talk to you.
Me, what about?
Jonathan, so you know Trenton, right?
Me, yeah, he is in 2 of my classes, why?
Jonathan, do you like him?
me, idk.. why?
Jonathan, well... uhh.............(long pause)....... he likes you.
me, (on the inside, jumping around, screaming my head off, on the outside, all cool and what not.) Oh, uhm, cool?
Jonathan, so, do you like him?
Me, um, yeah a little, well yeah.
Jonathan (to Hailey[his girlfriend/my bff]), I CALLED IT!
me, wow Jonathan!
Hailey, (looked at me all Smiley), daww
me, (face turned red)
Jonathan dancing around.



So, yeah, that was my conversation in band today...

[a n d y.]

Okay, I am SO scared right now. My friend, (Lets call him M for now) is going to ask out one of my crushes for me, (Lets call him J)
So I was with M, and I was like, "I'm never gonna date anyone, because I'm a lowlife and everyone turns me down."
So M said, "If you had one wish to date ANYONE, who would it be? And I can ask them out for you, because people call me 'The Love Connectioner'"
So I said 'J' and he said, "Okay, I can ask him out for you, and I'll tell you tomorrow what he said."
So right now I'm scared whether or not he will automatically with no hesitation say 'Yes' or with a hasty remark 'No'

[Erisolsprite]

I sort of have this silly crush on this guy that used to be in my history class. We haven't talked since 8th grade, but I still find him really cute haha.

[thunderofthedrum]

er meh gerd.

I totally have a crush on my boyfriend.

YES IT'S POSSIBLE, I SWEAR.
I mean, I don't have to daydream about him liking me or knowing my name or talking to me but STILL.
And then there's that whole side of it: that he likes me. WHY. IDEK.

I remember him not wanting an actual relationship at that time so I was just hoping we'd be together for MAYBE six months if I was really lucky. Over a year later and he's letting me LIVE with him for the summer (presumably longer if it goes well and the location suits where I need to be). WHY HASN'T HE GROWN TIRED OF ME YET. Crazy mofo. Of course, to be fair, I know he kind of wonders the same, but I haven't gotten tired of him! Nope!

Ugh, love is weird. XD

[brindie]

I used to think this guy liked me, but a little while ago, there was a dance at our school and I saw him dancing with this other girl that he hardly even talks to. Afterward he told me that he had liked her for a year...but the thing is, he still acts like he likes me. Like, he talks to me all the time, he always jokes that he wants me to wear my hair up just to see what I look like that way (normally I wear it down lol), he does this thing where he pokes me on the shoulder and then pets my hair (that one is kind of weird I must admit XD), and he sits by me in classes instead of his other friends. I'm confused...advice?

[katsukeys]

Okay, so I need advice. My guy friend who I really like basically said he likes me (long story and I can't be bothered typing) . But we hardly ever see each other and I made sure he knows he hasn't been friend zoned by me. We are both shy and quiet but we don't see each other much because we go to different schools and only see each other at catch ups and parties because my 1st cousins know him and his family. (We went to the same primary school by the way)

Do we have a chance together?

[provolone]

I used to think this guy liked me, but a little while ago, there was a dance at our school and I saw him dancing with this other girl that he hardly even talks to. Afterward he told me that he had liked her for a year...but the thing is, he still acts like he likes me. Like, he talks to me all the time, he always jokes that he wants me to wear my hair up just to see what I look like that way (normally I wear it down lol), he does this thing where he pokes me on the shoulder and then pets my hair (that one is kind of weird I must admit XD), and he sits by me in classes instead of his other friends. I'm confused...advice?

Some guys are really shy around girls they like. That goes for girls too. So he is more comfortable around you, because he sees you as a friend.

[garnet.]

I don't think I have a crush on this person but I want to be 100% sure

I really like being around her, she's really funny and stuff and I want to make contact with her/hug her or whatever. However, I'm normally the jealous type when it comes to my crushes. She has a boyfriend and i think they are absolutely adorable together, which has never happened to me before. With my other crushes, if they HUG someone else, I get a little jealous. Yeah, dumb I know. I don't think I like her but what's your opinion?